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Threads like these I miss 86IROC-Z
^ yeah ur right
No...it takes two to tango...she's going with you too (giving the benefit of the doubht here).
I think that you'd be more concerned as to whether it is actually a girl you're taking home, Dan.........
:lmao: :hide:
what other reason is there to go to a bar?
notsureifserious?
Is this a real question? Girls want to have orgasms. Guys want to have orgasms. Everybody wins!!!!!!!!!!! Plus when everyone is drunk the girls usually let you get away with more.
Izveryseriouzmyfrend. lol
Guess its ok if you like drunk sex with strangers.
why would it be desperate? i dont get it, maybe its different in PA but where im from you go to the bar with your friends, if you meet a nice lady who is interested in going back your place you take her there and bang her brains out. she may not be wife material but if thats what your looking for maybe look somewhere else???
I would'nt say it's desperate..
But personally, I would'nt put much stock in any sort of meaningful relationship coming about through any level of intoxication..
For you or the fly?
I've done it a few times. Can't say it even comes remotely close in comparison with having sex with someone who you actually have feelings for; the feeling, the intensity, the over-all experience, etc.
Anyone can go to a bar and take home a girl and fuck her brains out. I could every night of the week if I wanted to. It's not challenging in the least bit. Trying to find someone who you are compatible with and see yourself long-term with is the challenge. Hence why more than 50% of marriages fail.
Most women, in general, have more of an emotional attachment with respect to sex. So when you take one home, bang her, then never call her again or want anything more than that, it leaves them feeling a bit worthless. Yes, of course, there are those occasions where women are just horny also and want some fun as well with no attachment after the fact.
I guess age plays a role here to some degree. Once you get older, you start to respect yourself more, and others, and have a different point of view on the matter.
That's the whole point in going to a bar otherwise save a shit ton of money and buy your booze at a store.
I am not so sure about that. Women dont reach peak hornyness until 40s and in my personal experience that is true. The 30+ and 40+ women I have been with, who have already been married seem to expect the least amount out of me. Just sex, thats it. They even usually pick up the tab for the hotel room if it is needed.
I do agree that the best sex is with someone who you have already had sex a couple times with. Not because of love or feelings but because you are more comfortable around eachother. You know what eachother like and want.
I guess if someone is just looking for nothing but sex with no meaning what-so-ever behind it than yes, that's fine. That's the mentality of most people these days anyway. Have sex just to have sex and move on to the next person that comes along and wants to have sex also. Then everyone wonders why their husband, wife, bf or gf cheats on them. This is also a part of why people in today's society are so inconsiderate and rude with no regards to other people's feelings. People respect nothing, even something that is supposed to be in such high regard as being intimate with someone else.
I personally wouldn't be able to continue to have sex with someone knowing that there was nothing else there besides sex. People like that will have sex with just about anyone, at anytime. I wouldn't want to be having sex with a booty-call girl on a Friday night knowing that she's fucked another guy or 2 in that same week. I don't give a shit how good of a lay she is.
I have mixed emotions on this matter.
Depends what she looks like.
Only if she puts make up on with an ice pick.
Or, if the dog runs from the house when you bring her into your place.
Or, if she shaves before putting on her make up with an ice pick.
Isnt your name a Beatles song?
i don't get how people can say silly stuff like this.... as if it even has a hint of truth..... people have been fucking around for a long long long time.... why do you think the whore is called the oldest profession??? gimme a break.. nothing new going on today at all that people have not done already...
I agree....its nothing new.
I think what he means Jon is that your statement is an implication that its something "new" as its the mentality of people "now days". It can be taken as the opposite of how people acted in prior generations or else you wouldnt use the term "these days".
Well I didn't live in the 30's, 40's, 50's or 60's so I can't comment on the "old days". Based on most people's ages in here, they haven't either.
I was referring to today, which is what is affecting all of us and our society as a whole. I agree that people have lived a care-free lifestyle for a long time. It is probably much worse today than it was "before" though.
Actually in many eras most non married women in lower class families were whores. Even the whores had there own classes, street walker, borthel worker, female pimps of the victorian era. Once the public(public meaning women and old folk) found out that almost all men no matter what class were having sex with whores because back then most married women only had sex to create children they started to crack down on prostitution. Only difference today is girls are doing just to feel good and not getting paid for it and prostitution is very illegal now days. Also many STDs
So we are all in agreement that:
- There were tons or whores then
- There are tons or whores now
- People like to fuck to feel good
Yes it will :D
I think it depends on your goal, i've messed around with women for sheer sport. just to be like, hey, lets see how far i can get the first night. but to me its more fun to try it on the NON slutty ones. example: I got head from a virgin without knowing her name, president of a christian club at school, chairmen for relay for life, etc.
After meeting her at a bar, we found out we were in the same program at school, that got awkward, lol
On the other hand, sometimes you just need to get laid, bars are easy places to find girls doing the same.
But if your looking for a relationship...thats not a good start
In the 70s, sex was free, no strings attached. I don't see why sex is so frowned upon. I wish people were more open sexually myself. I'm not saying go out there and be a whore.....well i could go on and on about this.
I'm a man of standards personally but thats not say that I haven't picked up a screw bag here an there. Anymore, the risk of genital warts...at the very least...pretty much would drive me into a monogamous relationship if I were single.
Is it desperate to take a girl home from a bar
this all depends on what time it is,how many drinks you had,when the last time you had sex and last but not least what she looks like.
As far as the time well if your at the bar say 10 pm and you are there and its just about closing time and you really start making your move to take someone home, yea desperate as hell. You had the whole night to chit chat with someone and take them home.
If you drank alot your judgement is going to be wayyy off and will hit on anything and take home the first one to give you the time of day.
If its been a while since you last had sex well your going to do the same thing as if you were drunk,hit on every piece of ass and the first one to say yes you go home with.
What does she look like---if she is ugly as dirt and you still take her home well you know DESPERATE
Would it be desperate for a woman to take a guy home....
Me thinks no; more likely to be a wonderful act of God......LOL
Last two times I went to the bar, girls sat at my table, and they took me to their house, one even cooked me dinner.
I guess I was desperate.
Not a good idea....
I don't plan on bringing ANY woman to my house from a bar for a one-nighter. Women are bat shit crazy. Have sex with a woman and then don't ever call her again and she just may come back to your house and fuck your shit up, including your car...
If anything, go to her place :lol:
All I am looking for is a hatchet wound..........and if that means I can leave my shoes or boots on during it than all the better because I am that much more dressed so I can get out of there more quickly. lol
I dont and never have brought one back to my place. :)
If you bring back two pretty much you can be sure it will be a good time. lol
We went to a club in Chicago called Excalibur. He was dancing with this chick out on the dance floor, as was I. Next thing I know he disappeared so I thought maybe he had went to the bar area to buy him and her a drink. I didn't think much of it.
A few minutes had passed (maybe 15 or so, don't recall), but the next thing I know he comes rushing up on me like a total cock block and says we have to leave. I'm like WTF? So, being this guy is my best friend and seems to look like he's in need of some serious medication with how he started acting I said the hell with it and we left.
Come to find out I hear the story in the car ride on the way home. He says this chick he was dancing with started saying some hot shit to him while they were bumping and grinding and when I noticed he was gone he had went to the restroom and took her with. Apparently he had the bring idea of taking this chick into a bathroom stall at the club. Anyway, when they got in there and started to grope one another, he felt "something" that shouldn't have been there :lmao:
He didn't tell me full out details. All I know is when he came up to me he looked like he was pissed beyond belief and also like he had seen a ghost at the same time.
They definitely kissed.
I asked him, didn't you see the big round bulge coming from his neck called the adam's apple? Either he was too shit-faced to notice, couldn't hear well because of the loud music, or....IDK.
Needless to say, never went back there :lol:
Hell at that point I am suprised he didnt just finish. He went that far and as my one friend says "I dont care who is on the end of it for the last 10 seconds."
I look for 3 things. 1. Ring on the left hand. 2. Adamps apple. (See #3 if she wears a scarf) 3. Check for bulge.
Women with rings though can still be fun. A ring doesnt plug a hole from my experience.
Weird thing is, the damn he-she's look better than most of the whales around here sometimes...
I saw one at the club a few months back and he was macking on all kinds of guys. And they had no idea. This dude's shoulders were as big as mine. It was so blatantly obvious to me.
But that's a hilarious story you had....
So what exactly do you want to know? HOw to pick out a one night stand? or how to get someone you take out drunk enough to go home with ou?
No advice wanted Stevie. Just was a conversation a few of us had on here and I brought it to a thread.
Just wanted to get some of the folks ideas about it on here.
And if you never want to (this is to make SURE of it) put it in her butt and then clean it off on her curtains.
:haha:
You guys are sooooooo funny. :lmao:
You guys think of some f'd up stuff. Hence why I like it here :lol:
Ah, so it has happened......lol
hypothetical, Jodi...
You're at the bar. Dude takes you home, wait no, you take him home to your place (since he's at a bar and you only take home guys who have no car or place to stay, again, hypothetical). Anyhow, you get home, start fuckin', and he just rams it in your ass, wipes off on the curtain, then leaves. Will you:
1: Call him again?
2: Never call him again?
That's all :D
Zach....you rock.
Jodi, be scared of this if we are ever single and you make a really bad decision about me. lol
So you wont have any curtains in the house or does that mean the car is the key because there are no curtains? haha
Unless I got a van! I would LOVE a 70s shaggin' waggin'.
Would have to be in a van. :p
I don't know if I would want you loose in my house. :haha:
wow is all i can say about where this thread has gone :lol:
you would like that wouldnt you :hahano:
Poop noodles?
This thread reminds me of Private Felcher the Butt Pirate.
I think daydreams cause just as much trouble as the real thing. At least they do for me.
You don't have to act on them, Jodi.
but she sure does express them :lmao:
:rotfl:
You are sick Jodi....lol
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