Is it desperate to take a girl home from the bar?

[Zinergy]

I guess age plays a role here to some degree. Once you get older, you start to respect yourself more, and others, and have a different point of view on the matter.

I am not so sure about that. Women dont reach peak hornyness until 40s and in my personal experience that is true. The 30+ and 40+ women I have been with, who have already been married seem to expect the least amount out of me. Just sex, thats it. They even usually pick up the tab for the hotel room if it is needed.

I do agree that the best sex is with someone who you have already had sex a couple times with. Not because of love or feelings but because you are more comfortable around eachother. You know what eachother like and want.

[35th-ANV-SS]

I am not so sure about that. Women dont reach peak hornyness until 40s and in my personal experience that is true. The 30+ and 40+ women I have been with, who have already been married seem to expect the least amount out of me. Just sex, thats it. They even usually pick up the tab for the hotel room if it is needed.

I do agree that the best sex is with someone who you have already had sex a couple times with. Not because of love or feelings but because you are more comfortable around eachother. You know what eachother like and want.

I guess if someone is just looking for nothing but sex with no meaning what-so-ever behind it than yes, that's fine. That's the mentality of most people these days anyway. Have sex just to have sex and move on to the next person that comes along and wants to have sex also. Then everyone wonders why their husband, wife, bf or gf cheats on them. This is also a part of why people in today's society are so inconsiderate and rude with no regards to other people's feelings. People respect nothing, even something that is supposed to be in such high regard as being intimate with someone else.

I personally wouldn't be able to continue to have sex with someone knowing that there was nothing else there besides sex. People like that will have sex with just about anyone, at anytime. I wouldn't want to be having sex with a booty-call girl on a Friday night knowing that she's fucked another guy or 2 in that same week. I don't give a shit how good of a lay she is.

[allbaugh_04]

I have mixed emotions on this matter.

[INMY01TA]

Depends what she looks like.

[Nowhereman]

Only if she puts make up on with an ice pick.
Or, if the dog runs from the house when you bring her into your place.
Or, if she shaves before putting on her make up with an ice pick.

[TLS_Addict]

Isnt your name a Beatles song?

[krese]

That's the mentality of most people these days anyway. Have sex just to have sex and move on to the next person that comes along and wants to have sex also.

i don't get how people can say silly stuff like this.... as if it even has a hint of truth..... people have been fucking around for a long long long time.... why do you think the whore is called the oldest profession??? gimme a break.. nothing new going on today at all that people have not done already...

[35th-ANV-SS]

i don't get how people can say silly stuff like this.... as if it even has a hint of truth..... people have been fucking around for a long long long time.... why do you think the whore is called the oldest profession??? gimme a break.. nothing new going on today at all that people have not done already...

I think you just contradicted yourself. You state that this has been going on for a long time. I said this is the mentality these days. Therefore, we would be in agreement. It went on in the past, and it continues to go on.

[TLS_Addict]

i don't get how people can say silly stuff like this.... as if it even has a hint of truth..... people have been fucking around for a long long long time.... why do you think the whore is called the oldest profession??? gimme a break.. nothing new going on today at all that people have not done already...

I agree....its nothing new.

I think you just contradicted yourself. You state that this has been going on for a long time. I said this is the mentality these days. Therefore, we would be in agreement. It went on in the past, and it continues to go on.

I think what he means Jon is that your statement is an implication that its something "new" as its the mentality of people "now days". It can be taken as the opposite of how people acted in prior generations or else you wouldnt use the term "these days".

[35th-ANV-SS]

Well I didn't live in the 30's, 40's, 50's or 60's so I can't comment on the "old days". Based on most people's ages in here, they haven't either.

I was referring to today, which is what is affecting all of us and our society as a whole. I agree that people have lived a care-free lifestyle for a long time. It is probably much worse today than it was "before" though.

[Zinergy]

Well I didn't live in the 30's, 40's, 50's or 60's so I can't comment on the "old days". Based on most people's ages in here, they haven't either.

I was referring to today, which is what is affecting all of us and our society as a whole. I agree that people have lived a care-free lifestyle for a long time. It is probably much worse today than it was "before" though.

Actually in many eras most non married women in lower class families were whores. Even the whores had there own classes, street walker, borthel worker, female pimps of the victorian era. Once the public(public meaning women and old folk) found out that almost all men no matter what class were having sex with whores because back then most married women only had sex to create children they started to crack down on prostitution. Only difference today is girls are doing just to feel good and not getting paid for it and prostitution is very illegal now days. Also many STDs

[35th-ANV-SS]

So we are all in agreement that:
- There were tons or whores then
- There are tons or whores now
- People like to fuck to feel good

[TLS_Addict]

So we are all in agreement that:
- There were tons or whores then
- There are tons or whores now
- People like to fuck to feel good

World keeps on-a-spinnin'.

[Zinergy]

So we are all in agreement that:
- There were tons or whores then
- There are tons or whores now
- People like to fuck to feel good

These facts scare every man with a Daughter.

[35th-ANV-SS]

Yes it will

[TLS_Addict]

Depends what she looks like.

This is it. I started the thread and this wins my vote!

[WICKEDLS1]

So we are all in agreement that:
- There were tons or whores then
- There are tons or whores now
- People like to fuck to feel good

best reply ive read in a while

[Nowhereman]

So we are all in agreement that:
- There were tons or whores then
- There are tons or whores now
- People like to fuck to feel good

Works for me..

[Spikito]

I think it depends on your goal, i've messed around with women for sheer sport. just to be like, hey, lets see how far i can get the first night. but to me its more fun to try it on the NON slutty ones. example: I got head from a virgin without knowing her name, president of a christian club at school, chairmen for relay for life, etc.

After meeting her at a bar, we found out we were in the same program at school, that got awkward, lol

On the other hand, sometimes you just need to get laid, bars are easy places to find girls doing the same.

But if your looking for a relationship...thats not a good start

[allbaugh_04]

In the 70s, sex was free, no strings attached. I don't see why sex is so frowned upon. I wish people were more open sexually myself. I'm not saying go out there and be a whore.....well i could go on and on about this.