Relationship Advice...

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-14-2011, 05:45 PM

I'm not.

I tell you guys what...at the beginning...it was always her contacting me...she was SOOOO into me it was redunkulous.

I just always played it cool...seen her text and didn't get back to her for hours. She would send me a hey sexy...I would respond...hey...nothing else.

She would call me baby, sexy, handsome...I just played like I wasn't all too excited ever...and THAT is what got her into me. I played like I wasn't interested and she wanted me even more it seemed.

Once I had her hooked, I started really liking her and then it all played out fine.

I think that's the approach I need to take again honestly.

**mrwdjv** · 06-14-2011, 05:49 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

I'm not.

I tell you guys what...at the beginning...it was always her contacting me...she was SOOOO into me it was redunkulous.

I just always played it cool...seen her text and didn't get back to her for hours. She would send me a hey sexy...I would respond...hey...nothing else.

She would call me baby, sexy, handsome...I just played like I wasn't all too excited ever...and THAT is what got her into me. I played like I wasn't interested and she wanted me even more it seemed.

Once I had her hooked, I started really liking her and then it all played out fine.

I think that's the approach I need to take again honestly.

I am offended!

**KahanaReef** · 06-14-2011, 07:05 PM

Originally Posted by mrwdjv

I am offended!

'guys' is often used as a unisex term

Please don't make them always point out that ladies are also being addressed. When I say, "hey you guys", I'm talking to everyone

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-14-2011, 07:07 PM

Originally Posted by KahanaReef

'guys' is often used as a unisex term

Please don't make them always point out that ladies are also being addressed. When I say, "hey you guys", I'm talking to everyone

Exactly. See Miranda? You were wrong!

**suede** · 06-14-2011, 10:30 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

I'm not.

I tell you guys what...at the beginning...it was always her contacting me...she was SOOOO into me it was redunkulous.

I just always played it cool...seen her text and didn't get back to her for hours. She would send me a hey sexy...I would respond...hey...nothing else.

She would call me baby, sexy, handsome...I just played like I wasn't all too excited ever...and THAT is what got her into me. I played like I wasn't interested and she wanted me even more it seemed.

Once I had her hooked, I started really liking her and then it all played out fine.

I think that's the approach I need to take again honestly.

so much win in this thought proccess, glad to see you are catching on buddy

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-15-2011, 05:36 AM

Originally Posted by suede

so much win in this thought proccess, glad to see you are catching on buddy

Been awhile since I've been in the dating game buddy, but I'm slowly catching on again and learning the game like I used to back when I was in my early 20's.

**mrwdjv** · 06-15-2011, 04:12 PM

Originally Posted by KahanaReef

'guys' is often used as a unisex term

Please don't make them always point out that ladies are also being addressed. When I say, "hey you guys", I'm talking to everyone

That was much more of a poke at Jon.... not serious at all!

**Spaz** · 06-16-2011, 08:34 AM

Originally Posted by mrwdjv

That was much more of a poke at Jon.... not serious at all!

wait a minute... now you are saying you have the equipment to "poke" at jon???

**jiveass** · 06-17-2011, 05:41 AM

whos gettin poked in the john?

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-17-2011, 07:15 AM

Have not heard from her at all this week and for once, it really doesn't even bother me

**jrbonds** · 06-17-2011, 07:16 AM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

Have not heard from her at all this week and for once, it really doesn't even bother me

Good now go out and party your butt off this weekend and pick up chicks.

**suede** · 06-17-2011, 03:39 PM

Originally Posted by jrbonds

Good now go out and party your butt off this weekend and pick up chicks.

this is what i do too lol then when she calls for a night go knock the guts outa that one and bring home a new one the next night

**nhraformula** · 06-17-2011, 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

She already knows I still like her and want her. Women can sense this. It's all on her now, and she knows this already. She's VERY smart.

Now you need to be smart and ignore her. Want a women, ignore her.
Texting her back quickly shows you have nothing going on with another women.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-18-2011, 07:17 AM

Yeah I agree nhra. This is where I messed up when she contacted me Saturday night. Now she knows. Oh well.

I haven't contacted her at all since Monday and I haven't heard from her so I'm guessing she is probably either seeing someone else or back with whoever she was with.

I may or may not hear from her again, I don't know.

If I do, I know how to play the card though. If not, oh well.

I really am just tired of what seems to be a mind game.

I've been talking to this ridiculously hot girl for a little over a month now. She is single, but only has been single about a little over a month. We've known one another for like 10 years, but only recently really started to talk. We've hung out together 3 times now and I am really starting to like her (we hung out last night). She isn't ready to start dating again so I'm just playing it cool and when she contacts me I'm all about making her laugh and being upbeat.

We are going to a concert together next Saturday also. I'm hoping in time, she might want to start actually dating, but again, no hopes or expectations. As of right now, I'm just enjoying talking to her and hanging out when she wants to.

The sticky situation about this particular female is she is the ex-fiance of a close friend of mine. This friend is now married, but there may be some issues with some mutual friends if I decide to pursue this.

Yes Wade, this is one of the girls I am going to the RF concert with, so keep f'in laughing lol.

**KahanaReef** · 06-18-2011, 08:44 AM

Originally Posted by nhraformula

Now you need to be smart and ignore her. Want a women, ignore her.
Texting her back quickly shows you have nothing going on with another women.

Either that, or she just may think you're just not that into her and move on

I don't envy you single people...

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-18-2011, 08:48 AM

I've been telling this girl I love her and want her the last 8 months. She knows how I feel about her, trust me. If she cares about me and wants to be with me, she should come after me. I'm done with pursuing her. I've tried long enough

**KahanaReef** · 06-18-2011, 08:50 AM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

I've been telling this girl I love her and want her the last 8 months. She knows how I feel about her, trust me. If she cares about me and wants to be with me, she should come after me. I'm done with pursuing her. I've tried long enough

Some things just aren't meant to be. Move on and be happy