Divorce

[The Project]

I don't care what his reasons are. I'm a logical person and I know what his reasons are. Hell he graduated from high school 3 years ago. There's no questioning his reasons....it's her's that I'm worried about. I've busted my ass for the last 7 years for her and our boys and it sure appears like she's willing to throw it all away.

I'm actually finding humor right now. This kid is making my PI's work easy. His facebook page is open to everyone to look at and he has a picture with his house and his address clearly visible. He left a picture of his and I assume based on some of his posts, his parents license plates in plain sight in the pictures. Man you gotta love the internet. If they are screwing around...man that is dumb.

GET A LAWYER NOW!!!!

Protect yourself and your kids. Even an "amicable" divorce gets messy quick!

Document...document...document...

[Mieux97]

I am 100% just like you in the sense that everything has to be thought of logically and not emotionally. Maybe that's our downfall (as guys). Maybe these feminine counterparts need us to think irrationally and be overdramatic too... Who knows.

This is true....many women NEVER let rational and logical thought get in the way of winning an arguement or seeing things their way.

[Schmalgar]

This is true....many women NEVER let rational and logical thought get in the way of winning an arguement or seeing things their way.

Oh yeah it's a battle as old as time. Male logical thinking vs female emotional feeling. And in the mind of the female, logical thinking can never win.

*said with apologies to the five females on this site that may read this But you know we're right.

[bluehawk2000]

NC has a precedent for something called "alienation of affection" If he lived here he could not only sue his wife but also the person shes cheating on him with. A woman here got half a million dollars in damages.

hell yea for north carolina, but doesnt really matter the state is broke and will try and get half of it back in taxes lol.

[IH8EVRY1]

GET A LAWYER NOW!!!!

Protect yourself and your kids. Even an "amicable" divorce gets messy quick!

Document...document...document...

I'm in charge of a training program with 70ish people I supervise. I'm also a cop...if there's one thing I've done, even if hand written notes, it's that I've documented everything squirrely that's happened.

I pay her cell phone bill and have for years so I had the password so I could get the bill and pay it. I downloaded the text and call logs for the last month and sure as I did it...she changed her password.

I'm still not sure where all of this is going to go right now. I'm checking lawyers and getting character references and witness statements from everyone who has ever seen her do anything irresponsible with the kids.

I know she's got some kind of tranny for a lawyer so I doubt my LEO or military backgrounds, as well documented and valorous as they have been to this point are being considered that. I'm sure the fact that I am an instructor who has to go TDY every few months is being exploited. So, I'm trying to find a hella lawyer and pretty much don't care the cost. I'm going to have to delay the build of my 408 I think but after all....it's a cool car but just a car.

Oh well...guys forgive me if I don't get on for a few days at a time right now. I feel like I've been beat with a bat, her damn dog wont leave me alone at night so I can sleep and I'm playing Mr. Mom near daily to boot. Gym, work, go get the kids, dishes, laundry, supper....holy crap it's almost 9. "Time for showers dudes!", holy crap its after 10, finish the laundry and try to sleep to do it all again the next day. None of that is too horrible but in the midst of all this, I'm wiped.

[cammed goat]

I feel for ya man. I'm not married, but a good father will move HEAVEN AND EARTH to provide for their kids.

[c5z28]

Her taking walks early in the morning, she is either cheating or you need to sk what is wrong and see what you can do to help. Talking helps a lot with women.

[Blackbird WS6]

Her taking walks early in the morning, she is either cheating or you need to sk what is wrong and see what you can do to help. Talking helps a lot with women.

[c5z28]

Using logic doesn't help if that's what you have been doing.

[Blackbird WS6]

Using logic doesn't help if that's what you have been doing.

im just stating the truth thats all.....

[c5z28]

im just stating the truth thats all.....

that's logic

[Blackbird WS6]

that's logic

did you miss the ending of that? aka the hiding part