So, what to do in this situation...

**Mr. Luos** · 07-25-2010, 09:05 PM

Was the kid born via c-section?

**cammed goat** · 07-25-2010, 09:07 PM

Man. Your friend sounds like a friend of mine. Good woman and was married before but ended on good terms as her ex hubby is another friend from high school so they are cool with each other. But the recent ex boyfriend is father to her daughter and hasn't had a job since last Nov and lost his license due to non payment of insurance. Would sleep all day while she was at work and lived with her in her parents' house. She just broke up with him and put him out. Her daughter is an angel. It really sucks to see my friend go through this and our other friends check up with her via text or fb. But she knows she can call me or any of our high school buds to help out.

**Blackbird WS6** · 07-25-2010, 09:09 PM

Originally Posted by StuntmanMike

Girls just want to get laid sometimes too.

**Blackbird WS6** · 07-25-2010, 09:09 PM

Originally Posted by Mr. Luos

Was the kid born via c-section?

**blackSS01** · 07-25-2010, 09:10 PM

You OP are walking a walk not many men like to do. Its like walking on hot coals with no shoes!! Good luck and godspeed to you...... Pretty much everyone in this thread has excellent points and ideas.....

**Blackbird WS6** · 07-25-2010, 09:11 PM

Originally Posted by blackSS01

You OP are walking a walk not many men like to do. Its like walking on hot coals with no shoes!! Good luck and godspeed to you...... Pretty much everyone in this thread has excellent points and ideas.....

true dat

**Mr. Luos** · 07-25-2010, 09:11 PM

Always two sides to every story.

I am sure Sara's mom's new guy thinks I am some deadbeat.....

**blackSS01** · 07-25-2010, 09:13 PM

Originally Posted by Mr. Luos

Always two sides to every story.

I am sure Sara's mom's new guy thinks I am some deadbeat.....

My motto, "Only god can judge"

(I break that motto from time to time but try not too. Send that bum on this site, you are one proud dad and show it with all the pics you post up of her.)

**cammed goat** · 07-25-2010, 09:14 PM

Originally Posted by Mr. Luos

Always two sides to every story.

I am sure Sara's mom's new guy thinks I am some deadbeat.....

If she is dishonest...then yah.

**Blackbird WS6** · 07-25-2010, 09:15 PM

Originally Posted by cammed goat

If she is dishonest...then yah.

hmmmm.....that never happens

**Red97GTP** · 07-25-2010, 09:18 PM

Actually yes, the kid was born c-section.

**Mr. Luos** · 07-25-2010, 09:21 PM

Originally Posted by Blackbird-WS6

hmmmm.....that never happens

Exactly.

Originally Posted by Red97GTP

Actually yes, the kid was born c-section.

Then you are good.

**cammed goat** · 07-25-2010, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by Blackbird-WS6

hmmmm.....that never happens

Takes me back to high school when I was starting to learn more about cars and hung out in auto shop. Some of the girls had started rumors that I was gay because I didn't want any drama in my life. I guess they were unhappy I was happily into cars. My lady friends overheard the rumors and confronted the gossip girl wannabes and they would beg me to call my friends off. Funny shyte.

**Blackbird WS6** · 07-25-2010, 09:27 PM

Originally Posted by cammed goat

Takes me back to high school when I was starting to learn more about cars and hung out in auto shop. Some of the girls had started rumors that I was gay because I didn't want any drama in my life. I guess they were unhappy I was happily into cars. My lady friends overheard the rumors and confronted the gossip girl wannabes and they would beg me to call my friends off. Funny shyte.

NICEEEEE

you pay her back then?

**cammed goat** · 07-25-2010, 09:32 PM

Got even better. The ish starters sat at our table on prom night...and almost all hell broke loose.

**Blackbird WS6** · 07-25-2010, 09:35 PM

Originally Posted by cammed goat

Got even better. The ish starters sat at our table on prom night...and almost all hell broke loose.

hahahahaha.....they never seem to stop

**KahanaReef** · 07-25-2010, 09:36 PM

Originally Posted by Red97GTP

It feels like more than sex to me, I haven't talked to her about it yet. I certainly don't wanna crush her by being just friends. I wouldn't mind being in a relationship, but I can't make a decision.

Let it play out. If she's interested. She'll let you know.

Originally Posted by Red97GTP

There kind of are. He currently has no parental rights because he has not paid child support and is also in jail for other issues. I have met the guy and he is the definition of a deadbeat dad.

Mega baggage. No matter how great she is, he's going to be part of her life at least till the kids 18. He won't be in jail forever.

Originally Posted by StuntmanMike

Eh, I'd let it go. It's cool that you got some, but that sounds like too much baggage for me. Kid's dad is in jail? Yikes. Yeah, she can pick 'em.

She's probably just embarrased about it right now, chances it was the wedding thing getting her all emotional, plus I'm sure there was plenty of drinking going on. Shit happens.

And remember, just because a girl has sex with you, doesn't mean she wants any sort of relationship. Girls just want to get laid sometimes too.

This. It may just be an opportunity to be friends with benefits

Don't over think it...

**Y2KPewterSS** · 07-25-2010, 10:28 PM

I would not ask AAG for advice on matters like this.

**Blackbird WS6** · 07-25-2010, 10:39 PM

Originally Posted by Y2KPewterSS

I would not ask AAG for advice on matters like this.

wat you talkin?!?!?!

**blackSS01** · 07-25-2010, 10:52 PM

Originally Posted by Y2KPewterSS

I would not ask AAG for advice on matters like this.

So far I think he has gotten good advice

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