I got dumped....

**predator** · 01-27-2006, 02:33 PM

thats right... im single...

sooo um how does this single thing work... its been 4 years... how do i get them to excange fluids with me? just kidding, but no joke i have no idea how this works anymore...

**SeVeReDiStOrTiOn** · 01-27-2006, 03:04 PM

Dude what happened? Hopefully you called her a whore for dumping you or something in that context at least

Try the net....the chics on it are even more demented then the ones in bars/clubs....good part is they're usually so twisted that they put out pretty easily....

Or just go to bars since you're old enough to get in now

**nhraformula** · 01-27-2006, 03:33 PM

anywhere you can be social is a good place to pick up women.
just becoming single again, im sure youre not on top of youre game.
take alittle bit to regroup and get youre mojo back.
to try to hard cas women will sense it.

**Motrv8d Steve** · 01-27-2006, 03:36 PM

www.love.com
that's how I met my gf of six years... no kidding
it was free 6 yrs ago, you might have to pay these days, but wth, try it.

The Rookie · 01-27-2006, 04:26 PM

ahhhhh you are better off without her anyway. DUDE you are 23 yrs old!! You should be chasing every freakin woman you can. Start easy...go to the local bars and pick up the hottie 30 somethings that are looking for a guy your age to have some fun with. DON'T COMMIT TO THE FIRST ONE!! Get a few numbers... play till you are board, then find you a good one around your age or a little younger. There are plenty out there! HAve fun and don't be to desperate. Women since that shit and will avoid you like the plague. The key is have fun! You don't have anyone to answer to now. Do what you want! Also, now you can spend your money on the car and not her!

Been there and done that.... man i have some good memories!!!

**third_shift|studios** · 01-27-2006, 04:52 PM

i knwo what happened he said "baby, i'm gonna buy a mustang" and she split...shoulda said you were buyin' a t/a man....[shakes head. walks away]

sorry for real though, hoss. good luck. i forget how it works too. it sucks if you're not in college b/c you actually have to go find them then.

**Capster78** · 01-27-2006, 05:01 PM

I dont even know how it works and iv been single for 2 years. I just got tired of all the games. Im content just thinking ill by chance run into someoen one of these days.

**nhraformula** · 01-27-2006, 05:10 PM

to build youre confidence up, you are allowed to go hoggin once without youre buddies busting youre balls.
anything beyond that, you will face there wrath

**predator** · 01-27-2006, 08:07 PM

get my mojo back... im an engineer that should tell you i have no mojo... me and women are like oil and water... i went to a bar tonight and there was a cute girl that wasnt out of my league (ok so she prolly was).. and i just dont know what to say... you know all i want to say is "listen i just got dumped im feeling pretty down and i just want a cutey like you to sit with me and talk... im not looking for anything i just would like to spend some time with an attractive girl" and that would never work...

i dont know y, if a girl told me that i would prolly freak out... that is after i made sure she was talking to me...

ever seen beauty and the geek... well im not the beauty...i know more about the ls1 than i do about carrying on a basic starter conversation... i seem to make an ass of myself... and to quote some of you guys from when i posted a pic... "im no tom cruise"... i really dont want to be back in this whole singles world... i just want someone to watch movies with and talk to... and nap with... can i buy that?... hey now is my chance to get a russian mail order bride... i had one picked out a few months ago, i wonder if they are sold out of her....

downunder · 01-27-2006, 09:51 PM

Hook up with her sister, and if your X says anything to about it, just say "moving on with my life"

**ZAPFOOL!!** · 01-27-2006, 10:14 PM

Hey man th efirst 3 to 6 months are the worse, after that its just a game u have to be sure to play in your favor, Im going on three years and Ive used many a girl but hell like that wouldnt have used me, its almost fun being the asshole, but my thoughts are when I meet "THAT" girl any attitude or game or jackassness will go out the door, juts my way of looking at it, I might be wrong but I know right now is that I live life for ME and no one else.

**NeeD4SpeeD** · 01-27-2006, 10:15 PM

Originally Posted by downunder

Hook up with her sister, and if your X says anything to about it, just say "moving on with my life"

A-Men

**Z06Modder** · 01-28-2006, 05:30 AM

Dude....find yourself a really good porn site for the short term. I highly recommend forum.anothersite.co.uk.

I am an AE/ME double major ('92) that went into Pharmaceuticals somehow 13 years ago. Met my wife at a bar, but man do I see some hotties in need of a stiffy at the grocery store. There or the laundromat....its easy to tell who is available...

Otherwise....take your time, let them come to you, and in the meantime get yourself some good porn and dont worry about finding the hoes...

**SexyWS6Mama** · 01-28-2006, 06:24 AM

welcome to single life....

**nhraformula** · 01-28-2006, 07:07 AM

Originally Posted by downunder

Hook up with her sister, and if your X says anything to about it, just say "moving on with my life"

doing that will just fuck things up.
when the rest of the women in town hear about, and they will because women run their mouths, they will think youre a jagoff and wont come near you.

**Lashlarue** · 01-28-2006, 07:07 AM

I find chatrooms and cybersex, quite satisfying, you'd be surprised how many are into that!No STDs, or even a wet spot on the bed .lol! Lately Ive been getting messages on yahoo , from strange females, who just want to talk and then the next thing I know they're sending me pics, some even naked.Don't know if they are them or not, don't really care. If they want to play lets pretend, who am I to argue.Woman can be talked into an orgasm, men usually need something visual.

**SexyWS6Mama** · 01-28-2006, 07:42 AM

hmm....so could it be....that strange women actually find you?

How's that? How do they get your IM name?

**Pitbozz** · 01-28-2006, 07:48 AM

Originally Posted by Lashlarue

I find chatrooms and cybersex, quite satisfying, you'd be surprised how many are into that!No STDs, or even a wet spot on the bed .lol! Lately Ive been getting messages on yahoo , from strange females, who just want to talk and then the next thing I know they're sending me pics, some even naked.Don't know if they are them or not, don't really care. If they want to play lets pretend, who am I to argue.Woman can be talked into an orgasm, men usually need something visual.

LOL @ you jerking off to some 55 year old guy pretending to be a slut!!

**Lashlarue** · 01-28-2006, 08:08 AM

So far the two I've met in person were not, so stifle that laugh for a while, I'd post their pics , but i'm not going to mess up a good thing.

The Rookie · 01-28-2006, 12:11 PM

Originally Posted by Z06Modder

Dude....find yourself a really good porn site for the short term. I highly recommend forum.anothersite.co.uk.

I am an AE/ME double major ('92) that went into Pharmaceuticals somehow 13 years ago. Met my wife at a bar, but man do I see some hotties in need of a stiffy at the grocery store. There or the laundromat....its easy to tell who is available...

Otherwise....take your time, let them come to you, and in the meantime get yourself some good porn and dont worry about finding the hoes...

Z06Modder is right!! Grocery stores are the way to go!! I see them there all the time. Luckily for them I have found the love of my life. Took me 30 years to find her though...