the most difficult thing on earth

**Bigrus** · 08-27-2006, 03:17 PM

Originally Posted by issues02zo6

i make good money i think, i just like to drink, its not like i let alcohol get in my way of paying bills or securing my future

If it has become an issue with her then you are not noticing the problem you have. She is seeing you change and if drinking is the reason she is leaving you then it is a issue.

whats the longest you have gone without drinking?

**snaggeltooth** · 08-27-2006, 03:18 PM

ahh dont read to far into this .. Women will find some little something bring it out into the open and just go to stabbin on it ...
And I cant see anyone on here telling someone they drink to much....

**issues** · 08-27-2006, 03:20 PM

i drink every weekend, i quit for 14 days but then fell off the vet, i no i have some health problems i have some side pains but hey drink like a rock star

**Bigrus** · 08-27-2006, 03:20 PM

Originally Posted by snaggeltooth

And I cant see anyone on here telling someone they drink to much....

I have been drunk one time in my life. I was 17 i never had a drink before that or after that. I know it sounds sad but i never got into it.

**issues** · 08-27-2006, 03:20 PM

i think my drinking problem is why my z06 has low miles lol!!!!!

**Bigrus** · 08-27-2006, 03:21 PM

Originally Posted by issues02zo6

i drink every weekend, i quit for 14 days but then fell off the vet, i no i have some health problems i have some side pains but hey drink like a rock star

Sounds like you need to just check out some treatment programs see if you hear something that clicks for you. Never hurts to try?

**issues** · 08-27-2006, 03:21 PM

i cant see people not drinking, i cant see how people function without gettin fucked up at least once every two weeks

**Sarge** · 08-27-2006, 03:26 PM

Easy....when you have responsability out the ass you cannot get fucked up hardly ever....I drink beer every once in a while...but dont get "fucked up"...

**issues** · 08-27-2006, 03:27 PM

how is stress relieved?

**Bigrus** · 08-27-2006, 03:28 PM

Originally Posted by issues02zo6

how is stress relieved?

Working out, finding a hobby (beyond chemical addictions), sex with a female, hunting, taking time out for yourself....

**Sarge** · 08-27-2006, 03:33 PM

Originally Posted by issues02zo6

how is stress relieved?

Firstly stress is a self inflicted syndrome....you get rid or should I say manage stress by not letting yourself get stressed to begin with....you can relax many many ways...

**issues** · 08-27-2006, 03:52 PM

everyone has stress even you do

**Sarge** · 08-27-2006, 04:27 PM

Why hell yes...but I have learned to fret over shit I control and not over shit I do not control. Then you can manage it. Stressing out over shit you have no control over then managing that through drugs/booze is two wrongs that lead to disaster....

**issues** · 08-27-2006, 04:30 PM

love= evol

**440 rwhp trans am** · 08-27-2006, 04:31 PM

Originally Posted by issues02zo6

how is stress relieved?

try having hardcore sex for a couple of hours. or working out, whatever?

**Nastyfoot** · 08-27-2006, 04:36 PM

Originally Posted by issues02zo6

well i used to drink everyday, then i stopped for her, but then i made up for it on the weekends which became major binge drinking and my memory is pretty much shot, we just got this house 8 months ago too, i no she is right but after 6 years you would think i would get a little slack

LOL, I think your kidding yourself man. It's EVERYDAY that you have to work at a relationship.Just MHO

**issues** · 08-27-2006, 04:37 PM

yah i no that is good, but sex isnt always around its not as easily accessable as booze

**Nastyfoot** · 08-27-2006, 04:38 PM

Originally Posted by issues02zo6

how is stress relieved?

I'm not religious by any means, but go sit in an empty church for about an hour and just relax. Pretty damn peaceful and "zen-like".

Oh, and good luck. Hope things work out for you