Relationship Advice...

**TLS_Addict** · 06-18-2011, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by 67CamaroRSSS

You didn't notice he has his age posted in the same place I post mine?

<---- Age:

Sarcasm perhaps?

He was saying how he is too old for games. Just poking fun is all. lol

**SiggyZ** · 06-18-2011, 07:37 PM

Poke fun all you want. To me, 35 is too damn old to be playing relationship games. Keep doing that and you could find yourself still single at 55.

Originally Posted by TLS_Addict

Siggy, how old are you? I was thinking early mid 30s?

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-18-2011, 10:45 PM

Originally Posted by SiggyZ

Poke fun all you want. To me, 35 is too damn old to be playing relationship games. Keep doing that and you could find yourself still single at 55.

**TLS_Addict** · 06-19-2011, 05:57 PM

Agreed..........but I dont feel like I MUST be with someone to be happy either.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-19-2011, 05:59 PM

Me either. I'm finally learning to be happy in my own skin. I enjoy my free time and hanging out with friends and family. I don't want a female to make my happiness...I want her to add to it.

**TLS_Addict** · 06-20-2011, 08:03 AM

Im with you buddy.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-20-2011, 09:26 AM

But that doesn't mean I miss having someone special by my side to share memories with

Maybe someday another "her" will come along and maybe not. One thing I've learned about life...it goes on.

**TLS_Addict** · 06-20-2011, 10:26 AM

Obladi oblada life goes on bra
Lala how the life goes on

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-17-2011, 11:18 AM

Fuck this thread will never end

Guess who contacted me again today after me not contacting her at all the last month and a half???

**TLS_Addict** · 08-17-2011, 11:27 AM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

Fuck this thread will never end

Guess who contacted me again today after me not contacting her at all the last month and a half???

She needs her fluids checked you aparently are her Jiffy Lube.

How about the other one as of late though? Working out?

One thing though....if we knew half of what we think we know we would be ahead of where we actually are. lol

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-17-2011, 11:36 AM

Date #2 girl I stopped talking to. She was cool, but I just really wasn't that into her after spending more time with her. I went out with another one last night. She was really cool and we had a good time at a local brewery.

I don't want to make the same mistake I made last time this go-around....

Obviously she keeps coming back to me for a reason...

Was the sex THAT good? Must have been if she keeps knocking on my door

**SeVeReDiStOrTiOn** · 08-17-2011, 04:37 PM

atta boy

**allbaugh_04** · 08-17-2011, 05:17 PM

So bang her and change your number...jk jk

**TLS_Addict** · 08-17-2011, 07:06 PM

Either you are that good or she is that desperate. Take your pick but it doesnt matter because you are still getting laid.

Ask to put it in her butt. If she says yes it means you ARE that good and that she likes you THAT much. That was the test I would use. Well, I had another one but it involved her digestive track.....the first two portions of it anyway.

One question though. Am I wrong for how I handled something? I asked "Please do not wear your shoes all through the house. Try not to wear them on the carpet. Ok, babe?" Every time was "Ok hunny, sorry I will remember next time. I do this time and time again for over 2.5 years. Tonight I about snapped and said "Listen to me, stop wearing your damn shoes or sandals in the house. You are making the high traffic areas look even worse and I dont want my carpet looking like your parents shitty ass carpet they had to have ripped out. For the last time, try not to wear your shoes through the house and I dont care how clean you think they are." Her response is that I dont need to drive it in her head nor do I need to repeat myself or speak loudly. My response back was that it hasnt worked asking nicely and speaking in a normal voice. She responded that I didnt need to bring her parents in to it. My response to her is that my carpet wont look like that shit in her parents house did and she was the reason that looked bad and why mine will look bad.

Aparently I cant win either way. lol If I need new carpet SHE WILL PAY FOR IT or she WILL PAY FOR IT TO BE CLEANED.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-17-2011, 07:11 PM

Dan - you guys have issues

I didn't respond to her e-mail

**TLS_Addict** · 08-17-2011, 07:25 PM

I would respond. Tell her you have a date and that you will get back to her later. She will do things to you that most likely are no legal in the 50 states. lol

We have issues but that is something I cant stand. Who wants shitty looking carpet? lol She sees know and said she will try to not wear her shoes in the house. I mean I dont mind in the hallway coming in from the garage or in the kitchen and dining because I can swiffer it in 30 seconds. However.....carpet is a different animal.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-17-2011, 07:32 PM

I will respond to her. This will be the 2nd time she has done this though. I stop contacting her all together and then after some time goes by she contacts me.

The last time this happened I fucked up. I fell right into her. I acted super excited to hear from her and started contacting her again. I acted anxious. That was a huge mistake.

From what I've learned, women see this as an act of desperation. It's unattractive. I wasn't a challenge for her.

There is a deeper reason why she continues to want to stay in contact with me. My belief is she still has feelings for me deep down. She knows how great of a guy I am. Maybe she is contacting me again to test the waters. Maybe she is single and pulling out the black book again. Maybe she is on the frits with her current bf and is looking for a back-up.

Whatever the reason, I really don't give two shits. I am over her. Yes, I do still care for her deeply. She's probably the only girl I've ever loved. However, that doesn't mean I'm going to let her walk over me and run the show. I am, after all, a man.

As far as your situation, find a retort that annoys her. She wears the shoes in the house...do something to something she owns that will frustrate her. Yes I know, childish. It will work though

**allbaugh_04** · 08-17-2011, 08:18 PM

Man, nothing I hate more than some dirty carpet...

**TLS_Addict** · 08-17-2011, 08:24 PM

Originally Posted by allbaugh_04

Man, nothing I hate more than some dirty carpet...

I had to sell my big block 461 with COPO heads because I needed some cash to finish up my house a few years ago.....not something I want to replace within a few years.

35th.....put it in her butt.