Relationship Advice...

**allbaugh_04** · 06-13-2011, 03:39 PM

Sounds like a plan.

**cammed goat** · 06-13-2011, 05:45 PM

Make her jump for ya, Jon. Let HER be the eager one.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-13-2011, 05:47 PM

I know what I have to do now. Thanks guys and gals again for all the advice. I do love her a ton, but I'm not going to put up with games. I'm 33 for f&^% sake.

**cammed goat** · 06-13-2011, 06:34 PM

Back when I was a teen, and got into females...I NEVER tolerated any game of any sort. But, that's just me.

**TLS_Addict** · 06-13-2011, 06:57 PM

Originally Posted by cammed goat

Back when I was a teen, and got into females...I NEVER tolerated any game of any sort. But, that's just me.

Just picking but its sounds like something one would hear on Jerseylicious or Jersey Shore. lol

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-13-2011, 07:01 PM

I'm just going to keep busy. I get my car back this weekend...yes, get to cruise again. That always clears my mind and makes me feel awesome. Next weekend I have a concert to go to. The following weekend I am leaving for Las Vegas. In between there somewhere I have a summer party to go to. I am staying busy and just hanging out with friends right now. I am honestly not too hung up on being single, even though I do miss having a gf.

**TLS_Addict** · 06-13-2011, 07:03 PM

Dude.........vegas? WTF? No invite?

Glad you are keeping busy though, it helps a ton.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-13-2011, 07:05 PM

Dan, seriously. If you want to go, just say it man. We are staying in a 700 sq ft suite at the Venetian. Yes, the Venetian. And...we are renting a cabana at the pool. Me, my middle brother and 2 friends are going. It was 675 for flight and hotel room. July 7th thru the 10th my brother.

On a side note, I am 3 glasses in on wine and am feeling fucking awesome

**suede** · 06-13-2011, 07:09 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

cliff notes...I dated a girl last yr...very intense relationship from the beginning...very strong connection the whole time from her...i was into another girl at the time so eventually the gf got sick of my shit and walked away....then i realized i loved her...we kept in contact but she kinda moved on....i kept trying to win her over time and time again...but she wasnt ready so finally after 6 months i stopped contact all together.

almost 2 months go by without contact and she is starting to contact me again with very upbeat emails...asked me if i found a gf...asked me sat night if i was in the area...contact is not daily though.

Is she just fucking with my head to see if im still whipped or is she slowly considering me as an option to date again? That's the million dollar question.

How do I play this card to get her even more interested again? This girl is probably the only girl I've ever met that I actually have loved...and I've met a lot lol.

She told me today that she passed out Sat night when she got home...she was drinking at the festival all day. She also mentioned Sat night that we could set something up a different day to meet up and hang out.

I guess I wait to see if she asks me to do something...

If your in this one to win it, heres how i would play the situation out....

let things come slow, dont let your eagerness blind you and come off as needy, but obviously dont ignore the girl... Most times it seems that her suggesting 2-3 activities to your one suggestion comes as a good rule of thumb, but dont be sittin there counting, lol just go with what feels right in the situation and keep that in the back of your mine.... her contacting you again shows she had time to sit back and think about things, and in her mind probably is on the fence about giving you another shot so roll with it.... you are probably going to be starting back at ground zero and your going to haveto be genuine twards her to move past the friends zone, because i would put money on it right now in her mind her thought proccess is "well maybe we can meet up a few times as friends and i can get an idea of where you stand in your mind with her/if youve "changed" (for the better) and whether she will allow you back" be fully expecting to be being tested without you probably even knowing it.... right now the ball is in her court, and there isnt much your going to do about that, just put the work in, prove yourself and if it comes down to it you may haveto flat swallow your pride, hide your man card for a bit, and lay how you feel out on the line later on.... try not to haveto do this early on or your going to be getting back to the needing her vs wanting her thus clingyish (yea i know it isnt a word) and needy.....

i would say if you can get that done bud thats your best shot at it, just roll with it, give it your best, and go at it.... but always remember sometimes shit just aint meant to be, and if it is, it will usually find a way to be.... hell if it dont work out ill bet theres still another one out there you can find, they are out there and will pop outa nowhere when you least expect it....

If all that fails, penis enlargement surgery....

**TLS_Addict** · 06-13-2011, 07:10 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

Dan, seriously. If you want to go, just say it man. We are staying in a 700 sq ft suite at the Venetian. Yes, the Venetian. And...we are renting a cabana at the pool. Me, my middle brother and 2 friends are going. It was 675 for flight and hotel room. July 7th thru the 10th my brother.

On a side note, I am 3 glasses in on wine and am feeling fucking awesome

Hahahaha......3 glasses? I am betting you have glasses like me, filled to the top!

I would go but I am on the verge of being destitute. However, if I do get this job it might pan out.

I stayed at Ceasars palace. My friends shared a room and I had my own. Good lord I wish I had some extra cash. My summer session II course is on-line.

Again, I am just happy you are happy and not in a slump over that woman.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-13-2011, 07:14 PM

Well she already knows how big my pecker is and she's still contacting me so that's a good sign

**allbaugh_04** · 06-13-2011, 07:16 PM

OMG, that sounds awesome...I been there

**TLS_Addict** · 06-13-2011, 07:17 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

Well she already knows how big my pecker is and she's still contacting me so that's a good sign

My friend drove a Nissan Maxima with 255 hp and this its fast. Its all perception my friend. Thank god they can take 8 and feel 4! Plus, they cant measure worth a damn. Good for us.

**suede** · 06-13-2011, 07:21 PM

Originally Posted by TLS_Addict

My friend drove a Nissan Maxima with 255 hp and this its fast. Its all perception my friend. Thank god they can take 8 and feel 4! Plus, they cant measure worth a damn. Good for us.

I just duck tap this big ol dildo onto my pecker tricks 'em every time lmao

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-13-2011, 07:21 PM

I saw Wade's (maybe it was someone else) post about the average pecker size in the US. I'm good to go buddy.

On another note, Tim, you're welcome to join us out in Vegas too

**allbaugh_04** · 06-13-2011, 07:28 PM

Wow, that'd be almost TOO much fun...i could check tickets I guess

**35th-ANV-SS** · 06-13-2011, 07:41 PM

well if we get another guy, the price would prolly drop per person for the room. Like I said, July 7th thru the 10th. It's gonna be a shit show. We party hard.

**allbaugh_04** · 06-13-2011, 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

well if we get another guy, the price would prolly drop per person for the room. Like I said, July 7th thru the 10th. It's gonna be a shit show. We party hard.

Last time we went i drank one of those small bottles of smirnoff vodka. I was so plastered I couldn't find my way to the hotel, luckily it was the Luxor and had a huge beacon of light at night.

So I figure, I'll just walk towards the light and I'll make it. So at the time they were building that new hotel (veers towers) or something. So i was stumbling through this construction site, but it was 2 am, no big deal. Hopped a few fences and was on my way. I took the back exit of some club cuz I realized I was so plastered and that's what was in my way...fuck it ya know...

So I got to the luxor and I could not find my way to the room, that place is a maze when you are drunk. Luckily some nice ladies helped me after looking for my room. Took me 2 hours. Got split up somewhere in the middle of the night and everyone else stumbled in eventually....