Girls are SOOOOOOOOOOO dumb!!!!

[third_shift|studios]

I could see why you are confused, but considering she's been so flakey all along, there's no reason to dwell on it

[justinmc978]

first your thread title is amazing, the inner child in you that handled this chick must have helped you make it up.

second, yes women are confusing off hand, but thankfully they have a formula, enscribed in thier DNA that allows us to understand and manipulate them if it is properly worked out. you failed at the start. this sounds like a combination of (but not limited to) you conveying you depressions negativity on her(big nono) making yourself too availiable, and talking with her about other guys, (which is the leading cause of friend zoning IMO)

as soon as the idea of you just being a booty call entered her mind you were finished. this isnt her fault for being a woman, because 95% of them are exactly the same. i think you learned from this and will be wiser the next go round

[Transamws6]

I love that, if I could make it into my avatar I would. Thats a great saying right there.

But anyways, I kind cut down on talking to females as of late, they are damn complicated and full of drama all the time, if they come up to me and want to talk, cool, I'll holler at you, it's all good, but other than times like that I keep my mouth shut. Oh and I agree with the above post on your situation pretty much.

[SeVeReDiStOrTiOn]

He's gonna be balls deep in her ass. Time for you to go find some new

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[cammed goat]

I love that, if I could make it into my avatar I would. Thats a great saying right there.

But anyways, I kind cut down on talking to females as of late, they are damn complicated and full of drama all the time, if they come up to me and want to talk, cool, I'll holler at you, it's all good, but other than times like that I keep my mouth shut. Oh and I agree with the above post on your situation pretty much.

I see I am not the only man who thinks like this. I could be out and about and a woman will want to chat then fine. But the moment she tries to talk about personal stuff, I immediately change the subject. I don't like to be rude, but sometimes it has to be done.

[wheeliE-maxx]

I see I am not the only man who thinks like this. I could be out and about and a woman will want to chat then fine. But the moment she tries to talk about personal stuff, I immediately change the subject. I don't like to be rude, but sometimes it has to be done.

I know you're in dirty jersey, but they can't all be THAT damn bad

[cammed goat]

I know you're in dirty jersey, but they can't all be THAT damn bad

Hmmm...let's see:

Most of the conversations I have heard amongst women have involved:

Looks
Income
Car the man drove
Penis size
Degree of alcohol consumption
Amount of drugs ingested, inhaled, injected
The man they want HAS to have a large office with a view
HAS to have their own home(I co-own but there are those who choose to omit that just to keep themself looking like a trophy...NOT!)
Try to act as if they are immune to pain...ask me how I know...I have seen a few "ladies" get their @$$ pummelled by other women
Use that stupid-@$$ saying "OH WE CAN GET TOGETHER...I WON'T TELL MY MAN!! I JUST WANNA FCK!!"
There are many other convos I have overheard but I can't remember all of them right now...and it would take too damn long.

[wheeliE-maxx]

Hmmm...let's see:

Most of the conversations I have heard amongst women have involved:

Looks
Income
Car the man drove
Penis size
Degree of alcohol consumption
Amount of drugs ingested, inhaled, injected
The man they want HAS to have a large office with a view
HAS to have their own home(I co-own but there are those who choose to omit that just to keep themself looking like a trophy...NOT!)
Try to act as if they are immune to pain...ask me how I know...I have seen a few "ladies" get their @$$ pummelled by other women
Use that stupid-@$$ saying "OH WE CAN GET TOGETHER...I WON'T TELL MY MAN!! I JUST WANNA FCK!!"
There are many other convos I have overheard but I can't remember all of them right now...and it would take too damn long.

You're black right kidding. I have had and heard many like conversations. Spoiled hoebags around here. Country chicks here i come (college)

[cammed goat]

You're black right kidding. I have had and heard many like conversations. Spoiled hoebags around here. Country chicks here i come (college)

I had a woman overhear my methods of steering the dishonest ones away. I told another GTO owner I would say "I CAN'T AFFORD TO DATE" and point to my car as to say I would rather spend my money on my car. The woman walked up to me and called me selfish. Was too funny. But I am wrong for steering the immature women away. Go figure.

[wheeliE-maxx]

word, my hobbies cost too much for a gf at the moment. And the nice girls wont put o.. Did I say that? So high school relationships lead nowhere, won't get any except with a gutter hoe round here, and costs a shit ton

[LgndKller20073]

first your thread title is amazing, the inner child in you that handled this chick must have helped you make it up.

second, yes women are confusing off hand, but thankfully they have a formula, enscribed in thier DNA that allows us to understand and manipulate them if it is properly worked out. you failed at the start. this sounds like a combination of (but not limited to) you conveying you depressions negativity on her(big nono) making yourself too availiable, and talking with her about other guys, (which is the leading cause of friend zoning IMO)

as soon as the idea of you just being a booty call entered her mind you were finished. this isnt her fault for being a woman, because 95% of them are exactly the same. i think you learned from this and will be wiser the next go round

Would my thread title have been better if I put "This bitch is stupid" or something along those lines?

As for the rest....I never even let on to her when I was depressed and she flat out said she had no idea that I was even depressed because I didn't act like it. So that doesn't hold true. I never made myself too available. I would hang out with her when it was conveniant for me. If I ignored her texts for a few hours, she would send stuff along the lines of "did you die?! where are you?" If I was over pursuing it, then I would have been the one saying that we should go out, that we should do this and that. But I wasn't. She would suggest doing things. If in fact I was not "boyfriend" material, why would she suggest going out completely alone with me and acting like a girlfriend? It doesn't make any sense at all to me.

I knew about the guy in Cali, but I never asked her anything about her relationship with him. I had a feeling of what it was, when she came back from her little rendevous with him all dejected and hurt. And of course, when she booked her trip back out to Cali last week, and I got the cold shoulder, I'm now sure of where that's at.

[cammed goat]

Would my thread title have been better if I put "This bitch is stupid" or something along those lines?

As for the rest....I never even let on to her when I was depressed and she flat out said she had no idea that I was even depressed because I didn't act like it. So that doesn't hold true. I never made myself too available. I would hang out with her when it was conveniant for me. If I ignored her texts for a few hours, she would send stuff along the lines of "did you die?! where are you?" If I was over pursuing it, then I would have been the one saying that we should go out, that we should do this and that. But I wasn't. She would suggest doing things. If in fact I was not "boyfriend" material, why would she suggest going out completely alone with me and acting like a girlfriend? It doesn't make any sense at all to me.

I knew about the guy in Cali, but I never asked her anything about her relationship with him. I had a feeling of what it was, when she came back from her little rendevous with him all dejected and hurt. And of course, when she booked her trip back out to Cali last week, and I got the cold shoulder, I'm now sure of where that's at.

From what I have read, she was just using you for comfort. There was no relationship where she was concerned. I went through this my senior year of high school. It is either a control issue with her or she just had nothing else better to do with her free time. She used you dude. Shyte like this really pisses me off. But when the roles are reversed, then it's shame on us for cutting them out of our life. You are alot better off. I would just suggest put your money into your house/car/hobby/whatever and leave these little girls alone. Make the next woman EARN your trust...and make her work HARD.

[odinsonthor]

Just need to kinda rant right now.

Girls are soooo stupid and irritating. But I guess I should start from the beginning.

I've known this girl since like August 2008. We hit it off pretty well, but I was really into somebody else at the time so it kinda passed. Come about November/December 2008, the other person was pretty much gone and I was tapping it on a regular basis. We never ended up going steady or serious. This was my decision because I was going through a pretty serious depression at the time and really didn't want her to be dragged into it. We lost touch for awhile and come about March 2009 she had a boyfriend. Whatever, we went our separate ways. Her and her bf broke up like December 2009 and we started talking again in January. Nothing serious or big like that. She kept saying during that time she "didn't want anything more than friends". As it turns out she was/is into this guy who lives in Cali and was going to see him during valentines day. I didn't really care since we weren't going steady and I was seeing other people too. She gets back from Cali and is pretty irritated with how things have gone with him(like she basically put herself out there and got rejected).

Come around March we were starting to get serious and I was tapping it on a regular basis again. Then I leave for Vegas for a week on good terms with her, she leaves the day I get back to go visit her brother in North Dakota for a week. She gets back and suddenly everything has changed again and she doesn't want to be more than friends. We still hung out and stuff like that but really nothing more. Now come around a week ago, we were back to our usual and I was tapping it again and we were going out on dates and basically kinda being a couple, but nothing "legitimate". All of a sudden after Thursday she basically just stops talking to me. As it turns out she booked a trip to go see that guy in Cali again. Freaking irritating!!!! This guy must just have her wrapped around his finger and there's nothing I can do about it. It's been pretty frustrating for me, but whatever. I actually started to like her, but in the end fuck it. I guess our relationship won't ever be anything more than physical. I know a lot of you would say that's the best kind of relationship, but I actually don't just want physical relationships anymore. I actually want a girlfriend. I've almost had enough of the physical relationships for now.

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No, some people are stupid and irritating.
You saying you two hit it off pretty well but you were seeing someone else. How can you hit it off well seeing someone else?
Then you you use the word,"tapping" as if you didn't really care about her in the first place.
When she mentioned the"friend thing".....probably got sick of your depression time and met someone else she didn't feel was depressed in Cali. Not trying to be rude.
I would have left her ass alone then. But you end up getting caught in your own tangled web messing with her again.
There was no need to acutally like her. You already had it. So you should have left it.
Leave the past in the past!!!!!
Looks like she ran a little game on you whether you want to believe it or not.
You seem a little stuck on you. If i'm wrong I'm wrong. If I'm right change that. Change your demeanor about women.
Nobody will ever figure everything about a woman. Don't try to figure them out. Just find the right one and love her to death. Don't find someone that makes you content.

[cammed goat]

This is why I don't believe in that saying "LIVE FOR TODAY"...I have seen people destroy their future over that very saying.

[LgndKller20073]

No, some people are stupid and irritating.
You saying you two hit it off pretty well but you were seeing someone else. How can you hit it off well seeing someone else?
Then you you use the word,"tapping" as if you didn't really care about her in the first place.
When she mentioned the"friend thing".....probably got sick of your depression time and met someone else she didn't feel was depressed in Cali. Not trying to be rude.
I would have left her ass alone then. But you end up getting caught in your own tangled web messing with her again.
There was no need to acutally like her. You already had it. So you should have left it.
Leave the past in the past!!!!!
Looks like she ran a little game on you whether you want to believe it or not.
You seem a little stuck on you. If i'm wrong I'm wrong. If I'm right change that. Change your demeanor about women.
Nobody will ever figure everything about a woman. Don't try to figure them out. Just find the right one and love her to death. Don't find someone that makes you content.

I'm not depressed anymore, nor have I been since about June '09(when we were barely talking and she was dating somebody else). Basically during most of '09, we lost communication and went our separate ways. So that's not the reason she found the guy in Cali. Looking back, I can see that for awhile we were both using each other for sex(back in '08).

She did in fact run a game on me. I can remember a few texts(can't remember how the conversation arose), where she said she got even with an ex(technically I wasn't an ex) by leading them on, then crushing them. She said she only did it to one. Well she definitely led me on, but I'm not neccesarily crushed by it. Irratated-yes, crushed-no.

My demeanor towards women has changed. I used to be the overly nice guy and just get walked all over by them. It's not that I don't have respect for women at all, but they have to actually earn it. If I start to really like someone and begin to show it, they don't seem to like it. But if I'm a dick, they just keep coming back.

[odinsonthor]

I'm not depressed anymore, nor have I been since about June '09(when we were barely talking and she was dating somebody else). Basically during most of '09, we lost communication and went our separate ways. So that's not the reason she found the guy in Cali. Looking back, I can see that for awhile we were both using each other for sex(back in '08).

She did in fact run a game on me. I can remember a few texts(can't remember how the conversation arose), where she said she got even with an ex(technically I wasn't an ex) by leading them on, then crushing them. She said she only did it to one. Well she definitely led me on, but I'm not neccesarily crushed by it. Irratated-yes, crushed-no.

My demeanor towards women has changed. I used to be the overly nice guy and just get walked all over by them. It's not that I don't have respect for women at all, but they have to actually earn it. If I start to really like someone and begin to show it, they don't seem to like it. But if I'm a dick, they just keep coming back.

I agree with you that the respect has to be earned. There is no need to be super nice. People in general take kindness for weakness.

[odinsonthor]

This is why I don't believe in that saying "LIVE FOR TODAY"...I have seen people destroy their future over that very saying.

Live for today shouldn't be taken literally. Taken that saying with a grain of salt would be safe to say.

[cammed goat]

Live for today shouldn't be taken literally. Taken that saying with a grain of salt would be safe to say.

I sure as hell don't take it literally. Man I have met men who have been in/out of jail for non payment of child support. I don't wanna be another statistic.

[importhater81]

I agree with you that the respect has to be earned. There is no need to be super nice. People in general take kindness for weakness.

Especially women.If you want her ass,you have to be an ass.

[cammed goat]

Yep...they don't go for the honest ones anymore. That's a fact.