20 Years Old, Never had a Girlfriend. Loser?

**snaggeltooth** · 04-06-2010, 11:10 PM

You got your eye on the cheerleader queen
You're walkin' her home from school
You know that she's only seventeen
She's gonna make you a fool
You know you can't touch this stuff
Without money or a brand new car
Let me give you some good advice young man
You better learn to play guitar

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-06-2010, 11:12 PM

Originally Posted by c5z28

Favorite line on dating sites " I want a man who knows what he wants"

Response should be, Hello I am a man who knows what he wants, and it is not you, you crazy Minion of the Anti Christ. Have a nice day cum catcher.

Girls would probably like that shit.

**c5z28** · 04-06-2010, 11:15 PM

Originally Posted by Elimin8tor Z28

Response should be, Hello I am a man who knows what he wants, and it is not you, you crazy Minion of the Anti Christ. Have a nice day cum catcher.

Girls would probably like that shit.

Seriously consider reading "The Game"

**MrMasterCraft** · 04-06-2010, 11:18 PM

Honestly, maybe you're thinking about it too much... I'm no pimp by any means but shortly after high school, I had more than my fair share of

and it was right before, that I just said screw it and started focusing more on cars and grass (call it landscaping, but you get the point, eh?!)

Having grown up, matured, and in more of "routine way of life" these days, I could've cared less, and can't even remember 70-80% of all those chicks.

If you're looking for a quick one nighter, throw a party, act like a drunk idiot without throwing up and being a dick, chicks love that (trust me I know). Just remember, when you wake up the next morning, get up in a hurry screaming "Damn, my ex is gunna be hear in 5 minutes to drop off my kids... you've gotta go!"

**jiveass** · 04-06-2010, 11:22 PM

yea man...i was that way...then when i started to not give a shit, things started happenin. nice guys finish last, no matter if a chic tells you otherwise. i keep tellin my cousin this same shit, but he just cant seem to break the habit of bein overly nice.

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-06-2010, 11:23 PM

I even have emotional problems from this.

I have an extremely bad temper. Because I feel worthless.

My Mom is making me see a Psychologist because I have hurt myself.

Here is a list of the stupid shit I have done because of my temper and being depressed.

Gave myself a concussion by banging my head against a steel door.

Punched out a windshield.

Punched a hole in almost every room of the house.

Completely ripped the bathroom door off of the hinges.

Punched out my bedroom window.

Dented my left quarter panel by punching it.

Cut my forearm with a steak knife and left a scar. Nice battle scar! LOL

Broke random things in the house.

I think that’s about it. LOL

I am 20 years old and stuck at home all of the time. The only thing I do is go to the gym. I never go out and have fun. That is why I am slightly crazy. LOL

**c5z28** · 04-06-2010, 11:37 PM

You have a car it's your fault alone you don't force yourself to go out to new places. And being pissy doesn't help yourself if you want things to change then change your routine and change the way you think ( your outlook hasn't helped you in the past what makes you think it will help you in the future).
Insanity-repeating the same mistakes thinking you will get a different outcome

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-06-2010, 11:45 PM

Originally Posted by c5z28

You have a car it's your fault alone you don't force yourself to go out to new places. And being pissy doesn't help yourself if you want things to change then change your routine and change the way you think ( your outlook hasn't helped you in the past what makes you think it will help you in the future).
Insanity-repeating the same mistakes thinking you will get a different outcome

I always tried to go out before, but ALWAYS got rejected. Every mother fucking time.

Not once did a girl actually say yes.

So over time I became depressed, started to feel worthless, and now I never go out, because I think what is the point, I will just get rejected again.

I always hear from girls, you try to hard, you give off a friend vibe, you need to change your style, etc.

**jiveass** · 04-06-2010, 11:57 PM

Originally Posted by Elimin8tor Z28

I always hear from girls, you try to hard, you give off a friend vibe, you need to change your style, etc.

maybe you should take this into consideration.

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-07-2010, 12:02 AM

Also, none of my friends want to go to any clubs with me or anywhere to meet girls because they already have girlfriends.

Should I go out by myself?

**c5z28** · 04-07-2010, 12:04 AM

I meant just to go out (by yourself) you often find something when your not looking for it. If you ever hope to be able to bring something to a relationship you have to find happiness in being single, otherwise you're no better off than most chicks who need to be in a relationship for the sake of a relationship.

Your young go join a baseball league or softball league, volunteer, if your religious help out in your local church etc. Contrary to popular belief it's not all about woman

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-07-2010, 12:16 AM

Also, I have low Testosterone. My Total Testosterone was only 331. At my age it should be closer to 800 to 1000.

My Free Testosterone was only 64. Free Testosterone should be between 50 and 150 and at my age the doctor said it should be closer to 100 plus, not only 64.

The doctor did a second test, and I will be getting the results in a few days.

I have High Blood Pressure from the low testosterone too.

The doctor said he wants to put me on Testosterone Shots.

I think that will solve my blood pressure and depression problems.

**ztrouble** · 04-07-2010, 12:24 AM

chloroform has always worked well for me

"excuse me darlin, does this smell like chloroform?" Gets em every time

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-07-2010, 12:28 AM

Also, because I look like this, people dont believe me when I tell them I have never had a girlfriend. They think I am lying or something.

**ztrouble** · 04-07-2010, 12:37 AM

low test, high bp, and rage fits? hmmmmm

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-07-2010, 12:41 AM

Originally Posted by ztrouble

low test, high bp, and rage fits? hmmmmm

Hmmmmm, What? LOL

I dont take steroids, if thats what you mean.

**ztrouble** · 04-07-2010, 12:46 AM

ok then. in my unprofessional opinion i just think that you are trying to hard. women pick up on desperation/insecurities.

Read some stories by Tucker Max if you really want to prove to yourself that the confident asshole gets the girl almost every time over the shy sweet guy

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-07-2010, 12:53 AM

Originally Posted by ztrouble

ok then. in my unprofessional opinion i just think that you are trying to hard. women pick up on desperation/insecurities.

Read some stories by Tucker Max if you really want to prove to yourself that the confident asshole gets the girl almost every time over the shy sweet guy

My one friend acted like a complete ass everywhere we went, and he always got TONS of girls.

He runs around yelling and singing really loud in the gym, and at a club he would dance around like a maniac and rub his ass on girls, and just act stupid.

One girl at the club actually kept begging him for his number, and he just kept ignoring her.

He gets more girls than anybody I know.

**ztrouble** · 04-07-2010, 01:00 AM

Originally Posted by Elimin8tor Z28

My one friend acted like a complete ass everywhere we went, and he always got TONS of girls.

He runs around yelling and singing really loud in the gym, and at a club he would dance around like a maniac and rub his ass on girls, and just act stupid.

One girl at the club actually kept begging him for his number, and he just kept ignoring her.

He gets more girls than anybody I know.

take notes lol... sucks but that's the way it is. as far as teh nervousness goes.... maybe join an online dating site and talk to some chicks without the awkward face to face nervousness?

**Elimin8tor Z28** · 04-07-2010, 01:15 AM

Originally Posted by ztrouble

without the awkward face to face nervousness?

That is also a big problem, because I have high blood pressure, so sometimes my face turns red. The doctor called it flushing not blushing.

So I get really self conscious because I dont want the girl to think I am nervous and blushing, it is really just because of the bp, but they dont know that.

The doctor suggested that I wear a thin layer of makeup to cover the redness, and I said hell no! LOL

I aint gonna be no fairy.