telling my gf's mom and step dad about pregnancy

**Spaz** · 04-08-2008, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by Bigrus

Seriously

you are a fucking trip

how long did mommy and daddy hold your hand again?

17 years old without a care in the world happy to have a kid with a 21 year old when neither of them have careers or educations. How can he be a man and provide when he has not even lived on his own?

Oh right you must be one of those people who feel his mother and father after raising a kid should have to raise grandkids too? Lets ask jimmy about his insurance policy for this child and who is going to pay for the co-pays?

Im thinking more on his parents end how shitty it must be to have raised a kid hoping they would go to college only to see him bring his girlfriend of less than a year home to have his kid.

Yeah sucks for him but there are bigger things to worry about than a upset family member because i bet in about a year there will be plenty of those.

i've been on my own since 18 there fellow... mommy and daddy don't hold my hand and haven't... they rather have my brother and sister and myself to earn all our shit on our own...

i also think the whole basing his future off of college is a riot as well... i make a damn good amount of money with out it... while i have friends that are not doing so well and have some nice papers that say they are smart...

**Spaz** · 04-08-2008, 06:38 PM

Originally Posted by Bigrus

So because we used protection our penis must have been broken since we did not get anyone pregnant?

no... not at all... but i think you adept level of comprehension missed my point... let me illustrate a pop up book for you...

**DanWS6** · 04-08-2008, 06:41 PM

I thought april fools was last week.

**Bigrus** · 04-08-2008, 06:43 PM

Originally Posted by Spaz

i've been on my own since 18 there fellow... mommy and daddy don't hold my hand and haven't... they rather have my brother and sister and myself to earn all our shit on our own...

i also think the whole basing his future off of college is a riot as well... i make a damn good amount of money with out it... while i have friends that are not doing so well and have some nice papers that say they are smart...

You know i really love how people can act as if not going to college will work for everyone alot of people go so they can climb up the ladder at the career they choose and not hit a brickwall after a few years when they reach the limits before the company starts requiring higher education. This is not a down on people without college.

Again i can see where the mother of this girl is coming from her daughter in college is pregnant by a 17 year old. Gee tell me you would be running down with open arms if you had a child and they did something like this?

Regardless of what he "says" he is 17 and plenty of people watch this same shit happen over and over again and it ends with both being to dumb and not even knowing each other enough to stick this kind of shit out.

**jimmybling31** · 04-08-2008, 06:54 PM

Originally Posted by Bigrus

So sex before being married/you not using protection?

you know in today's society that part doesn't mean as much. It never has to me and I am the only guy she has ever been with. I never pressured her to or anything. she loves me and I love her. We hardly had sex the month she got pregnant too. we had sex all of... maybe 3 times. from what the doctor told her the night that that baby was conceived was very special anyways. That night was amazing in every way. I do not regret a thing.

**Bigrus** · 04-08-2008, 07:01 PM

Originally Posted by SpeedAddict38

I see this threads has brought out all the pricks..........maybe somebody needs to sweep them clean of this site

Only pricks when they do not agree with the mass ....gotcha

**310stanger** · 04-08-2008, 07:01 PM

Originally Posted by DanWS6

I thought april fools was last week.

that was awesome

**440 rwhp trans am** · 04-08-2008, 07:20 PM

*to all the jack asses on this thread.*

first off fuck you. this man is super happy he is having a kid. way better than " lets get rid of it" second who give a fuck if he used a rubber or not, or is married. and those asking about education. hmmm your fucking ingnorant for downing someone who is taking responsibility. and the house, insurance, car, baby food, ect. he can find help who cares if he rides his bike to mc d's making minimum wage to support his kid while living in his parents garage.

you can really tell the crowd that has not had a kid and are younger 16-25. they have no fucking clue.

as for the collage thing. not to sound like an ass but im 21 support 2 kids and a wife and have some nice ass shit and no education thank you. and yes i back my shit up

**DanWS6** · 04-08-2008, 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by 310stanger

that was awesome

**jimmybling31** · 04-08-2008, 07:48 PM

Originally Posted by 440 rwhp trans am

*to all the jack asses on this thread.*

first off fuck you. this man is super happy he is having a kid. way better than " lets get rid of it" second who give a fuck if he used a rubber or not, or is married. and those asking about education. hmmm your fucking ingnorant for downing someone who is taking responsibility. and the house, insurance, car, baby food, ect. he can find help who cares if he rides his bike to mc d's making minimum wage to support his kid while living in his parents garage.

you can really tell the crowd that has not had a kid and are younger 16-25. they have no fucking clue.

as for the collage thing. not to sound like an ass but im 21 support 2 kids and a wife and have some nice ass shit and no education thank you. and yes i back my shit up

well I do have more of an education than I use. I do have a microsoft, cisco, and some other networking certification that were all worthless. I used to work in those fields when I was 15 because I thought it was easy money and it was, but now I make just as much money making less per hour and working more hours at pps o&p

btw: nice cars. I like the gto you got there.

**Bigrus** · 04-08-2008, 08:00 PM

Originally Posted by 440 rwhp trans am

*to all the jack asses on this thread.*

first off fuck you. this man is super happy he is having a kid. way better than " lets get rid of it" second who give a fuck if he used a rubber or not, or is married. and those asking about education. hmmm your fucking ingnorant for downing someone who is taking responsibility. and the house, insurance, car, baby food, ect. he can find help who cares if he rides his bike to mc d's making minimum wage to support his kid while living in his parents garage.

you can really tell the crowd that has not had a kid and are younger 16-25. they have no fucking clue.

as for the collage thing. not to sound like an ass but im 21 support 2 kids and a wife and have some nice ass shit and no education thank you. and yes i back my shit up

Grats on having a silverspoon. Oh and its really not "ignorant" to tell people its a bad idea to have kids when they themselves have never lived on their own.

Also thats the attitude im talking about your little one liner "He can find help" it really shows you earned everything you have

Why does he have to find help? He was man enough to play adult and have sex he should be man enough not to rely on anyone but himself.

Good luck telling your own parents jimmy.

**jimmybling31** · 04-08-2008, 08:06 PM

Originally Posted by Bigrus

Grats on having a silverspoon. Oh and its really not "ignorant" to tell people its a bad idea to have kids when they themselves have never lived on their own.

Also thats the attitude im talking about your little one liner "He can find help" it really shows you earned everything you have

Why does he have to find help? He was man enough to play adult and have sex he should be man enough not to rely on anyone but himself.

Good luck telling your own parents jimmy.

I am doing all I can on my own, but I am getting all the government aid that I can. I think that for me and my girlfriend it will be money well spent by the government. we are both trying to finish college and we both will, so from an economic stand point it would be good for us to get all the help we can right now. If we had to we could make tons of sacrifices, but we have already made a ton.

**Bigrus** · 04-08-2008, 08:11 PM

Originally Posted by jimmybling31

I am doing all I can on my own, but I am getting all the government aid that I can. I think that for me and my girlfriend it will be money well spent by the government. we are both trying to finish college and we both will, so from an economic stand point it would be good for us to get all the help we can right now. If we had to we could make tons of sacrifices, but we have already made a ton.

Fantastic so the few bucks for condoms was a waste but govt aid is money well spent because you decided to have unprotected sex?

**Blue_01_Z28** · 04-08-2008, 10:28 PM

I don't see what the deal is here. Jimmy is not asking any of us for help to stay on his feet. He's not taking money from us...The man just wants advice on how to handle some things and maybe he wants comfort too. I understand everyone has their own opinions but don't use them to bring a guy down, thats fucked up.

Hell he's probably more of a man than most of us. At least hes not running like some punk ass bitch!!

**jimmybling31** · 04-08-2008, 10:41 PM

Originally Posted by Blue_01_Z28

I don't see what the deal is here. Jimmy is not asking any of us for help to stay on his feet. He's not taking money from us...The man just wants advice on how to handle some things and maybe he wants comfort too. I understand everyone has their own opinions but don't use them to bring a guy down, thats fucked up.

Hell he's probably more of a man than most of us. At least hes not running like some punk ass bitch!!

thanks.

**Eugenio_SS** · 04-08-2008, 10:58 PM

just ask your girlfriend's mom if her words is something that Helen White would say and wish upon both of you... that'll make her think and regret what she said.
You can also tell her that as a Christian, you're supposed to portray love... I guess she has no clue about the christian life.

**jimmybling31** · 04-08-2008, 11:00 PM

Originally Posted by Eugenio_SS

just ask your girlfriend's mom if her words is something that Helen White would say and wish upon both of you... that'll make her think and regret what she said.
You can also tell her that as a Christian, you're supposed to portray love... I guess she has no clue about the christian life.

actually, that is great advice. I am going to try that. I am going to talk to her on my own, without my girlfriend, tomorrow. I'll post how that turns out.

**Eugenio_SS** · 04-08-2008, 11:10 PM

for some information, Hellen White was a pioneer to the Adventist movement... it'll struck a cord for sure.
just take a few seconds to know about some history:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ellen_G._White
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seventh...ventist_Church

basically, they have the same values as other christian denominations, but follow more the "sabbat" instead of the sunday.
Some ppl get to be extremist on the eating, health, etc... and lose focus on the big picture, unfortunately.

**jimmybling31** · 04-08-2008, 11:32 PM

Originally Posted by Eugenio_SS

for some information, Hellen White was a pioneer to the Adventist movement... it'll struck a cord for sure.
just take a few seconds to know about some history:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ellen_G._White
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seventh...ventist_Church

basically, they have the same values as other christian denominations, but follow more the "sabbat" instead of the sunday.
Some ppl get to be extremist on the eating, health, etc... and lose focus on the big picture, unfortunately.

I actually think most sda's are like that. unfortunately. I just read both of those. I kinda think they are both kinda crazy, but that's just me. the whole church to me is crazy. I have been independent christian for a long time and don't regret the change at all

**Eugenio_SS** · 04-08-2008, 11:36 PM

let's not put all in the same bucket and start with faulty generalisations. each has their own opinion, values, etc. just a matter of respecting the differences... and it's clear your "mom in law" has no clue on that kind of respect, or even any other, for that matter fact.
In the end, what counts is your personal relationship and your beliefs.