i wish it was that easy haha, im looking in arizona right now tho, got alot of family out there and went out in april and the people there are TOTALLY differrent than the people in NY.Quote:
Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS
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i wish it was that easy haha, im looking in arizona right now tho, got alot of family out there and went out in april and the people there are TOTALLY differrent than the people in NY.Quote:
Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS
I never said I was against premarital sex, I said basicly if you have a child through prmarital sex you should be prepared for the responsibilities. which I was. And if you read the entire thing and could comprehend My now wife was told by DR's that she was strile, barren unable to bear children can you comprehend that. so why would I wear protection.Yes I got her pregnant yes we moved the date up it is called responsibilities.Quote:
Originally Posted by rideon1200
well lets put it this way the thinking now adays = slutty assed girls and irresponsible men that leave and don't pay child support or anything. so which in the hell do you want. do you want us to live by the old standards while you ladies live by the new standards? talk about double standards. it is the best if you stfu and gtfo you have no clue at your age. you can't comment on something about pregnancy when you never been there. pure absolute irresponsibility and immaturity.Quote:
Originally Posted by ls1blackbeauty98
OK. I thought I was being personally attacked so Cuervo backed me up seeing me confused at work. So if you want to be mad, BE MAD AT ME. I have some stuff to add and I HAVE MY FLAMESUIT ON. My folks had me when they were in college. They were engaged when they concieved me. My mother was on birth control, but I ended up being created anyway. My father was raised by an old fashioned southern black family and my mother was raised by her mother and other Puerto Rican family members. BOTH sides of the family believe that you should marry for love and ALWAYS be responsible. In these times, folks are having babies left and right and cannot afford to take care of them. Kinda like the saying I have heard about black and Latinos "multiplying like jackrabbits/cockroaches and cannot afford to take care of their families". My parents are the exception. They got married and took care of lil ol me while they were still in school. I DO NOT want to be put into ANY sterotypical category whatsoever. I don't even speak in Ebonics or wear my pants hanging off my @$$(parents would kill me) but sh1t, folks need to give more of a damn these days.
Oh, and by the way, MRWDJV and I have made amends. She knows the scenario. If the situation were her and I together and we ended up with child, YOU BET YER @$$ I would be on bent knee with the rock. THAT is what a REAL MAN does.
NOT this laid back "whatever" crap. If everyone lived life like "whatever", society would self-destruct.
But I am a "whitewashed" minority...what do I know? :shrug:
How did ethnics get thrown into this. I am supposed to be impressed because you do the right thing and a minority. Get the chip off your shoulder. Second, I have lived at the same address for 14 years. The childs mother lived with me here for over 6 months. I have tried to locate her and have been unable. I am the production manager for a large company and would like to make sure my kid needs nothing, but have been unable to locate the mother.
I don't have a chip on my shoulder, but here in NJ, there are ALOT of stereotypes. Believe me. I just don't want to fail in a relationship or marriage.Quote:
Originally Posted by rideon1200
It takes two... so failing would only be 50% your fault... no matter what you do sometimes you can change someone else. I'm 31 and not married, have had quite a few relationships and truthfully I feel like I failed because none of them have lasted more than 4 years.
Also the way I am is if I will sleep with a girl it's not just for sex but because I want to be with her. I passed up plenty of women I had no interest in because of that. So I get a girl pregnant I would marry her or at least do my best to work towards that. My parents got divorced when I was 18. I was lucky I got to live in a two parent home til I was 18. Although after 18 I was kind of on my own and wish I had a few more years because I think it effected alot of my life and decisions. So you better believe I would do whatever is possible if I ever had a kid on the way.
Buttsecks!
depends how much Im expected to pay for the night
I had two failed marriages on me by the time I was 24. I spent 2 years in the UK (usaf) and cameback stateside. It was 11 years before I got married again. Average relationship in those 11 years...6 mos. I used the ray system . One your activly dating and spend time with. One you talk to couple time a week, lunch here and there and one you call twice a month. Everyone moves up a notch when one ends. Any talk of future throws them out of the loop. Keeps you from getting attached if you remember it is a game. Doesnt look like your just out to get laid either. I screwed up because I fell for a woman, now I have been married 11 years. But, I would use the system again if I was ever single.
My feelings toward Rich.....:bigkiss:Quote:
Originally Posted by cammed goat