Relationship Advice...

[86 IROC-Z]

You really need to read the thread IROC lol.

This is a girl I was already dating...and now I want back.

She was EXTREMELY sexually attracted to me...it was me being the asshole and saying sarcastic, hurting comments often that strayed her away.

The same concept should still generally hold true.

Be really nice to all her friends or something. lol idk.

[35th-ANV-SS]

Honestly you cant say shes not. Who knows whats shes doing or not.
Question, why are not you going after local girls?

Local girls as in NWI?

I'm on 2 sites and no girls in NWI are even "considerable" that are on there...all not my flavor as far as physical attraction.

The only time I go out with friends where I might meet a girl locally is a bar or club...not really looking to find a g/f in a bar.

[nhraformula]

This should be an easy one.....

N/W Indiana has some nice looking women.

[35th-ANV-SS]

The same concept should still generally hold true.

Be really nice to all her friends or something. lol idk.

We have 0 common friends. I don't know any of her friends.

[stolenthunder]

You really need to read the thread IROC lol.

This is a girl I was already dating...and now I want back.

She was EXTREMELY sexually attracted to me...it was me being the asshole and saying sarcastic, hurting comments often that strayed her away.

Women already know we're sarcastic, hurtful assholes. They only bring it up when they want to use it to justify some completely different reason for breaking up with us.

[86 IROC-Z]

Local girls as in NWI?

I'm on 2 sites and no girls in NWI are even "considerable" that are on there...all not my flavor as far as physical attraction.

The only time I go out with friends where I might meet a girl locally is a bar or club...not really looking to find a g/f in a bar.

I feel you on this one. It's hard to find the right ones a lot of the time. This past friday night was the first time I've been around a high number of girls who are my type in almost my entire life. feltgoodman.jpg

[nhraformula]

.not really looking to find a g/f in a bar.

Why not? Quality people of all corners of life go to bars to be social.

[35th-ANV-SS]

Women already know we're sarcastic, hurtful assholes. They only bring it up when they want to use it to justify some completely different reason for breaking up with us.

Yeah I see what you mean thinking back. When I was not available to her or I took hrs to text her back I was sarcastic...and she always just rolled with the punches.

Later on as time went by she started playing the "that is mean" tactic and using it against me.

I feel I was the same the entire relationship...she is the one who changed.

[Mr. Luos]

N/W Indiana has some nice looking women.

Not what I was getting at.

I like that my current gf (well...maybe not after the last few days) lives 30 minutes from me.
She won't randomly be showing up....or spying on me.

[35th-ANV-SS]

One problem I have is I'm shy. I am not the type to approach a woman.

Ive been lucky enough in the past where all the women always approached me.

That's why i was trying the online dating thing. Fit my "style" better. Not having any luck with local girls being on there though that I like physically.

[Mr. Luos]

One problem I have is I'm shy. I am not the type to approach a woman.

Why I drink.

[stolenthunder]

Yeah I see what you mean thinking back. When I was not available to her or I took hrs to text her back I was sarcastic...and she always just rolled with the punches.

Later on as time went by she started playing the "that is mean" tactic and using it against me.

I feel I was the same the entire relationship...she is the one who changed.

This is a rhetorical question...were you really "needy" with her? It's not fair, but that is the biggest turnoff to chicks. They themselves are very "needy", I know- especially when commited. But for some reason, they're not designed to accept us that way. I could always get by with it to a degree in a relationship, but it gets old to them quick.

[86 IROC-Z]

We have 0 common friends. I don't know any of her friends.

up your stalk game then. With facebook and the internet it shouldn't be hard to create a planned "accidental" meeting with one of her friends... build rapport with her... then drop it causally in conversation and she'll be all "omg u know kaylerlee? she's like my BFF forevs lol! she must like you, you're so nice and un-sarcastic!"

Bam.

Game. Set. Match.



I started this post just writing bullshit but it actually scares me how this could actually possibly be used to effect, in real life for someone. wtf society.

[stolenthunder]

up your stalk game then. With facebook and the internet it shouldn't be hard to create a planned "accidental" meeting with one of her friends... build rapport with her... then drop it causally in conversation and she'll be all "omg u know kaylerlee? she's like my BFF forevs lol! she must like you, you're so nice and un-sarcastic!"

Bam.

Game. Set. Match.



I started this post just writing bullshit but it actually scares me how this could actually possibly be used to effect, in real life for someone. wtf society.

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[86 IROC-Z]

Not what I was getting at.

I like that my current gf (well...maybe not after the last few days) lives 30 minutes from me.
She won't randomly be showing up....or spying on me.

My brother's Ex lives 30 minutes away, she still stalks him.

Every now and then I see her "casually" drive by the house, you know, "just passing through".


WE LIVE IN A CUL-DE-SAC FFS. YOU'RE NOT SUBTLE.

One problem I have is I'm shy. I am not the type to approach a woman.

Ive been lucky enough in the past where all the women always approached me.

That's why i was trying the online dating thing. Fit my "style" better. Not having any luck with local girls being on there though that I like physically.

This. I've never tried online dating but I am introverted. Getting better though. Or at least that's what I tell myself.

Why I drink.

This also. With emphasis.

[Mr. Luos]

My brother's Ex lives 30 minutes away, she still stalks him.

Every now and then I see her "casually" drive by the house, you know, "just passing through".


WE LIVE IN A CUL-DE-SAC FFS. YOU'RE NOT SUBTLE.

Gee. Thanks.


Time for a girl in Wyoming. Although she may end up cheating on me with a goat.

[35th-ANV-SS]

up your stalk game then. With facebook and the internet it shouldn't be hard to create a planned "accidental" meeting with one of her friends... build rapport with her... then drop it causally in conversation and she'll be all "omg u know kaylerlee? she's like my BFF forevs lol! she must like you, you're so nice and un-sarcastic!"

Bam.

Game. Set. Match.



I started this post just writing bullshit but it actually scares me how this could actually possibly be used to effect, in real life for someone. wtf society.

Her FB is private and she actually blocked me from viewing it ...this was right after our last argument several weeks back. I have no idea who is friends with her, never met any of them. I remember a few names from when we dated, but they were all guys.

[86 IROC-Z]

Gee. Thanks.


Time for a girl in Wyoming. Although she may end up cheating on me with a goat.

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What do you mean I can't send her back?

[stolenthunder]

Her FB is private and she actually blocked me from viewing it ...this was right after our last argument several weeks back. I have no idea who is friends with her, never met any of them. I remember a few names from when we dated, but they were all guys.

[35th-ANV-SS]

I know she blocked me so I can't see what's going on with her. That was pretty evident