My girl said if I dont marry her she's leaving me.

[2000 SS Beast]

She sent me a email after she went out of town stating this. Honestly I was shocked, any of you guys ever have a girl say this to you?

I havent read the rest of the posts but
when she gets back tell her: F that noise and make me a sammich

[nhraformula]

True, but it is the same for the woman. We are responsible for half of the mans debt too. Now we are more likely in a court to get out of it, but either way once you have a ring on the finger and that paper you are screwed and the screwing stops.

true it sticks the women with half of his debt, but considering every women i ever dated and same for my friends, they never had as much as we did, meaning they had a bunch more debt and nothing to show for it.

[Smurfvette05]

true it sticks the women with half of his debt, but considering every women i ever dated and same for my friends, they never had as much as we did, meaning they had a bunch more debt and nothing to show for it.

true so true. We buy things that we use right away and then don't have the things to show for it. Its not like car parts.

[Redstaff]

She sent me a email after she went out of town stating this. Honestly I was shocked, any of you guys ever have a girl say this to you?

Just once.......can't remember her name...........I THINK I miss her......No hang on I miss part of her!!!!!! ( you guess which part?????) Seriously.... I went to visit her one last time....left my suitcase out back of the house....got all I could .... told her I had to go to the store-be right back. Went to the airport....one way ticket to the other side of the country.......Never saw her again I'm on my fifth woman since!!!!!!LOL

[35thLS1]

She sent me a email after she went out of town stating this. Honestly I was shocked, any of you guys ever have a girl say this to you?

I have not read what any one ells has posted. So here we go...

I don't know what kind of relationship you are in and I don't know how long you have been with her and I don't know if you have any kids. What I DO KNOW is if she is giving you an ultimatums now then you are going to be screwed later on down the road.

1. If you do marry her she will see she has the power to make you fold and she can hold the "card" if you don't I will leave you bull shit routine!!!!!!

2. you need to compromise with her, (I don't know if you want to marry her but maybe say you need a little more time to get financially secure for both your futures and you don't want to just jump into this.)(but I do love you...)

3. Tell her your not going to be in a relationship that is based off of an ultimatum because they will never work. You both need to agree on this issue.

4. Tell her to fuck off in a nice what (you need to figure out how to say that, you know her not us.)

This comes from a guy that has been in your shoes. Hope this helps. I'm just a guy trying to help out another guy hoping someone can learn from my mistakes so you don't have to take the hard road!!!!

Jordan

[nhraformula]

true so true. We buy things that we use right away and then don't have the things to show for it. Its not like car parts.

im not talking about car parts, im talking about material things like houses and condos.
me and all my buddies owned either or, yet the g/f soon to be wives didnt.

[Hurley711]

nomarriage.com

[mogs01gt]

She sent me a email after she went out of town stating this. Honestly I was shocked, any of you guys ever have a girl say this to you?

Say "see ya!"

[ls1blackbeauty98]

generalizing women. BUT

most women would rather wait to have a man marry her and then have a house/condo whatever that he mainly pays for. id rather buy my own house, that way i dont owe a dick anything.

[DrMilhouse]

Just curious, how long you been datin' this girl?

[nhraformula]

generalizing women. BUT

most women would rather wait to have a man marry her and then have a house/condo whatever that he mainly pays for. id rather buy my own house, that way i dont owe a dick anything.

why the mountain of debt ?

[Hurley711]

punch her in the cunt, aim for the clit

[hoss 2000 z-28]

I've found that some women want a dream wedding more than they want to be married...

There are so many women out there... don't settle!

[tnthub]

Receiving this type of ultimatum before the wedding is a blessing. Receiving ultimatums of this severity after a wedding is profitable for divorce attorneys.