So what are ladies responsible for in a dating....

**ls1blackbeauty98** · 07-08-2009, 05:48 AM

Originally Posted by korndawg

Did u find a different corner to stand on then?

aw someone is upset i called them out for being a drama queen

its ok, ill note you as being sensitive from now on

**korndawg** · 07-08-2009, 05:50 AM

Lol, nope, not sensitive at all. I can take it but I also dish it out

**ls1blackbeauty98** · 07-08-2009, 05:51 AM

Originally Posted by DrMilhouse

Oh, and back to the OP question...

They're not responsible... for anything. They can't be counted on for anything.

Anything they give is a bonus.

If they're giving enough bonus to keep you around, awesome. Hopefully, like I have, you can find a great girl who is great about everything. She helps keep things scheduled or keep me on track to get stuff done. She cleans up around the house. She does the dishes. She even makes some of the money. Maybe even as much as she spends. It's great that she does all this. She makes me feel loved. She does about anything I ask her to do. Does she have to? nope. She's not responsible for it at all. She just does it and it's awesome. Everything is a bonus to me. Even being around her is a bonus. I learned a long time to not count on her for things, but to be happy when I get them. It goes much further that way.

We're celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary next month. We've been together for 14 years. I don't need all my fingers on one hand to count the number of "fights" we've had. People constantly tell us they admire us for how happy we are together.

it's nice to hear a good story every now and then! Happy early Anniversary!

**DrMilhouse** · 07-08-2009, 08:55 AM

Originally Posted by ls1blackbeauty98

it's nice to hear a good story every now and then! Happy early Anniversary!

Thanks hun!

**mrwdjv** · 07-08-2009, 11:58 AM

Originally Posted by DrMilhouse

Oh, and back to the OP question...

They're not responsible... for anything. They can't be counted on for anything.

Anything they give is a bonus.

If they're giving enough bonus to keep you around, awesome. Hopefully, like I have, you can find a great girl who is great about everything. She helps keep things scheduled or keep me on track to get stuff done. She cleans up around the house. She does the dishes. She even makes some of the money. Maybe even as much as she spends. It's great that she does all this. She makes me feel loved. She does about anything I ask her to do. Does she have to? nope. She's not responsible for it at all. She just does it and it's awesome. Everything is a bonus to me. Even being around her is a bonus. I learned a long time to not count on her for things, but to be happy when I get them. It goes much further that way.

We're celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary next month. We've been together for 14 years. I don't need all my fingers on one hand to count the number of "fights" we've had. People constantly tell us they admire us for how happy we are together.

I like your anwser, I feel as if I can be counted on however. I think that goes both ways. Some men can't be counted on either? I think you are just lucky to find someone who is even tempered all the time and you know what you are getting. Seems like a lot of people now suffer from serious bi-polar issues!!

**Mean Green Z28** · 07-08-2009, 12:02 PM

Originally Posted by mrwdjv

Seems like a lot of people now suffer from serious bi-polar issues!!

WHAT!??? YOU SHUT THE HELL UP YOU!!! HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT!!!!

lol ...

**mrwdjv** · 07-08-2009, 12:03 PM

Originally Posted by That Guy 2-1

WHAT!??? YOU SHUT THE HELL UP YOU!!! HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT!!!!

lol ...

I see you have met a few!!!

**cammed goat** · 07-08-2009, 12:14 PM

**Spaz** · 07-08-2009, 12:19 PM

Originally Posted by mrwdjv

Seems like a lot of people now suffer from serious bi-polar issues!!

no...

**Spaz** · 07-08-2009, 12:19 PM

Originally Posted by Spaz

no...

yes...

**Spaz** · 07-08-2009, 12:19 PM

Originally Posted by Spaz

yes...

no...

**Spaz** · 07-08-2009, 12:20 PM

Originally Posted by Spaz

no...

fuck you...

**cammed goat** · 07-08-2009, 12:21 PM

Thank God for Spaz.

**Mean Green Z28** · 07-08-2009, 12:37 PM

Originally Posted by mrwdjv

I see you have met a few!!!

I meet the same one once a month

lol @ Spaz

**mrwdjv** · 07-11-2009, 04:38 PM

Originally Posted by That Guy 2-1

I meet the same one once a month

lol @ Spaz

I am so so so so so so so glad I do not have that problem. I am always even tempered.....could be the meds!!!!!

**gd1996** · 07-11-2009, 04:54 PM

4 years with an ex it was 50/50, we were both broke! Then met a new one and it was 99/1 lol. However she got a 2nd job and can afford stuff now, so its like 80/20... I'll take that over before. But she did pay for half the vacation next week. Women want to be equals so why should the guy pay for everything. I never really understood that.

**mrwdjv** · 07-11-2009, 04:59 PM

Originally Posted by gd1996

4 years with an ex it was 50/50, we were both broke! Then met a new one and it was 99/1 lol. However she got a 2nd job and can afford stuff now, so its like 80/20... I'll take that over before. But she did pay for half the vacation next week. Women want to be equals so why should the guy pay for everything. I never really understood that.

Every guy on here is going to hate this statement.....such is life.......I do not want to be treated as your equal....I want to be treated better!!!

**Murder after Midnight** · 07-11-2009, 05:52 PM

Originally Posted by gd1996

4 years with an ex it was 50/50, we were both broke! Then met a new one and it was 99/1 lol. However she got a 2nd job and can afford stuff now, so its like 80/20... I'll take that over before. But she did pay for half the vacation next week. Women want to be equals so why should the guy pay for everything. I never really understood that.

ftmfw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!

**cammed goat** · 07-11-2009, 05:55 PM

All I know is if I am dating a woman, I want exclusivity, calm, and security in knowing if we are having

and the rubber breaks and she wants to keep our child, we had BETTER plan to marry. I want my children to have a safe and happy home 100%

**SiggyZ** · 07-11-2009, 06:16 PM

That I don't agree with. I don't think anyone should get married over a pregnancy alone. I think marriage should be done for the right reasons. If you actually are in love with that person and they're in love with you and you want to spend the rest of your lives together, than great. Be there for your child, definitely. But if you're unsure about spending the rest of your life with the mother of your child, don't get married.

Originally Posted by cammed goat

All I know is if I am dating a woman, I want exclusivity, calm, and security in knowing if we are having

and the rubber breaks and she wants to keep our child, we had BETTER plan to marry. I want my children to have a safe and happy home 100%