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05-07-2006, 08:37 PM #81Originally Posted by Bigrus
Yeah, a video would be great and even if she wasn't acting out, it may show her affect or other signs a shrink would know to pick up on, or stand as a comparison to behavior presented during an evlauation.
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05-07-2006, 08:40 PM #82Originally Posted by Bigrus
There may of been some type of underlining issue prior to the accident and this may of made things worse. To just chaulk it up with her just being a LOONEY is ignorant....especially if you have kids.
I had an employee that had a husband that all of a sudden started acting out. Off the charts kind of behavior. She was starting to think after 7 months of this, she thought FOR SURE that he was having an affair. She started plotting and planning....getting ready for the right day and she was going to leave him.
One day while she was working in my office she got a call stating that her husband passed out at work and they were transported to the ER. 10 hours later he was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Apparently this tumor had been growing, they suspected, for the last 7 or so years. Apparently if this had been caught earlier, there may of been a better chance that it would of turned cancerous. His behavior was due to this HUGE tumor in his head!
Somethings are worth investagating prior to 'jumping ship'.Last edited by sassy; 05-07-2006 at 08:44 PM.
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05-07-2006, 08:45 PM #83
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Originally Posted by 98-LS1Eugenio_SS
almost stock triple-black 2000 SS convertible with 17x11s on all 4 w/ 315s at the track or on the street with 18x10.5s on all 4 w/ 315s: (1), (2)
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05-07-2006, 10:24 PM #84
Sounds like she has a bad temper with a touch of looney in her. Let's face it...mostly women attack guys cars/personal items...and why is that? Because that's all they feel like they can do....it's not like she can say come home right now or i'm gonna kick your ass. Also you two have kids together, it would be a lot harder on them if she kicked you out of the house instead of messing up your car....i'm sure she knows this.
Maybe try getting her some anger management...
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05-08-2006, 02:15 AM #85
Yes.......finding the root cause should definitely be number one on the priority list for now. If it was me(and I realize that it is not) I would try to see a psychiatrist and find out what is going on and see if they can get her some medical help(drugs probably or maybe just counseling) Obviously she doesn't understand the severity of what she did to your car or why you feel the way that you do about the situation. I would also lean towards depression and/or bipolar. I don't know what happened with the car accident but it seems that she has gone way overboard with her response. What has she done with your wife(the one you remember anyway)? Leaving her won't solve anything in the long run but at some point she has to understand that she can't act that way and go on a rampage whenever she wants. If this type of thing continues she has to be held accountable and pay the consequences(after given a chance with medical treatment) If she continued down that road, I could not be with someone that did not respect me and/or my property. With you cleaning it up, she didn't suffer any consequence and doesn't get it yet and worse off, let's just hope that she doesn't take this as a sign that it wasn't wrong of her to do it and next time do something worse, please for the sake of you and your children and hers as well, get her some help ASAP. ..........................my .02
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05-08-2006, 04:13 AM #86
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Thanks for the responses, lot's of good things to think about. I'm doing my best to see what's up with her. She has an appointment today to see a doctor about her behaivior so we'll see what he says, I'll let ya'll know too. I had a long talk with her this weekend about everything and she seemed to get the point I was trying to cross. Now that she's outta school for summer break maybe she can relax and not be so stressed out.
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05-08-2006, 04:14 AM #87
I hope everything works out for the best.
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05-08-2006, 04:39 AM #88
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Originally Posted by 98-LS1
Once he gets honest answers from all of you then he can make a diagnosis. Call the doctor and ask to have a meeting either in his office or via the phone. He cannot do a complete evaluation with only her statements. He will also order blood test.
Call NOW, immediately.
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05-08-2006, 05:13 AM #89
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Originally Posted by 98-LS1
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05-08-2006, 09:28 AM #90
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Originally Posted by myss
I'm sorry about that, misread that post! Been irritable lately which I'm sure you understand. It's all good though so disregard that reply I posted
I don't care what anyone says, there is a good group of people on this board. Thanks for all the advise and help, I'll keep what's going on updated. She's at the doctors office right now, I went this morning and explained what was going on and he was concerned. We'll see how this evaluation goes, she was in a pretty good mood today.
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05-08-2006, 11:51 AM #91Originally Posted by 98-LS1
Sounds like you're married to someone who should still be in elementary school.
Here's a nickel's worth of free advice. Get out now. Don't waste your life on a woman who is willing to take out the frustrations in her life and low self esteem out on you. If she pulls BS like this now, there's no telling what she's capable of. Life is too damn short, and there are better women out there.
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05-08-2006, 12:01 PM #92Originally Posted by gjb
"Elementary school"....how old are you? Great advice, Beevis!!
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05-08-2006, 01:13 PM #93Originally Posted by sassy
I like how you seem to attack anyones advice in this thread if it does not fit in with you "prize car" post. Seriously it must be true about women and bad relationships....they become man eaters.
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05-08-2006, 02:31 PM #94
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Originally Posted by Bigrus
This guy is married with children and has history with this woman.
What will he be teaching his children if he leaves? Do you know for a FACT that EVERY child suffers permenant emotional scars as the result of Divorce.
The Divorce rate for children of divorce is 50% higher than children who's parents stay married.
Children suffer the most, what part don't you children understand?
Do any of you believe in your Marriage Vows? Are you all Hypocrites?
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05-08-2006, 02:40 PM #95Originally Posted by ZO6Guy
So we are children because we know when we are kicking a deadhorse? or are we children because we do not agree with immature replies and obsessed bitter ex replies?
Who suffers more children raised in a family where the parents fight all the time or children who are raised around parents who live in different homes but are happy.
Unless you have proof to backup your statement about the children i would suggest you crawl back onto your high horse.
Also for you to say that about people who are divorced is going against alot of member who are divorced and happy on this site with healthy smart children.
From what i see it is usually children who are clingy who do not realize when to let go. Not the other way around.Last edited by Bigrus; 05-08-2006 at 02:54 PM.
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05-08-2006, 03:05 PM #96Originally Posted by ZO6Guy
Your opinion is wrong.
I've been where he's at, and I gave advice as to what worked for ME and MY children based on my past. Luckily, I had the wisdom to leave and it was the best thing I could have ever done.
No one deserves to live in disfunction, and there's disfunction in the relationship described in his initial post. He can heed the advice given by others, but there's nothing saying he MUST. He's a grown man and can make decisions on his own; simply reminding him that the Right Decisions are made with his Big Boy Brain, not his Emotional Brain.
Just because you don't agree from a fundamental standpoint doesn't mean that we're wrong, it's just wrong for you. If you choose to live your life in a hopeless, high-stress "game" war ONLY because you've had children with that person and your twisted sense of what it MIGHT mean to their mental health, I wish you luck. Better you than me.
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05-08-2006, 03:08 PM #97Originally Posted by gjb
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05-08-2006, 03:14 PM #98Originally Posted by gjb
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05-08-2006, 04:11 PM #99Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie
*sigh* No ones situation is exactly alike.
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05-08-2006, 06:55 PM #100Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie
Thank you!!!
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