How Is Your Marriage Going?

**SeVeReDiStOrTiOn** · 03-29-2006, 09:59 PM

Originally Posted by LS1Chris

I got a ? for all you married, hows the sex life after marriage?

I have a gf who's really mature, the kind you'd bring home to your parents but she doesnt seem to like hugging or kissing much. And the sex hasn't been much since.
I even had the nerve to ask her what the sex life is gonna be like when we're married, she said "I can't tell you that" I was basically asking her what is she gonna be like after getting married almost like a gaurnetee.

Sounds like you're about to get dumped bro...and it definatly doesn't sound like she wants to get married.

**BillyT** · 03-29-2006, 10:32 PM

Originally Posted by SeVeReDiStOrTiOn

Sounds like you're about to get dumped bro...and it definatly doesn't sound like she wants to get married.

I was thinking the same thing.

If you haven't SIIHP yet... Now's the time!

**LS1Chris** · 03-30-2006, 12:20 AM

Originally Posted by SeVeReDiStOrTiOn

Sounds like you're about to get dumped bro...and it definatly doesn't sound like she wants to get married.

Been going out for 4 yrs, she does want to get married and have kids when she's 25. I'm gonna have to say the sex is gonna have to be on the rise

**Sassy Cassie** · 03-30-2006, 04:47 AM

My mom just turned 50 and she still can't keep her hands off my step-dad so I guess its just the luck of the draw.

**NICKLE57** · 03-30-2006, 05:04 AM

Originally Posted by Bigrus

LOL reread my post. Your almost 40 dude.

I read your post. I gave you people in their 60's, 40's, 30's, and 20's. As far as I can see there is no difference in the older generation and the younger. Unless you consider someone in their mid 20's as old. According to your age you are only 2 years older than my wife's sister. I guess you're an old man as well.

**Sassy Cassie** · 03-30-2006, 06:49 AM

You see, I just think that a lot of women get it all wrong. IMO, men really don't care how clean you keep the house or how good of a cook you are. All of that wifely domestic shit is overrated. It’s better to focus your attention elsewhere. If my husband starts to complain about the pile of dishes in the sink or that he has no clean clothes to wear, I just pull down his pants and start slobbing the knob. End of discussion! He doesn't say another word about the shitty job I did scrubbing the floors. It’s plain and simple. A BJ is the best shut up tool ever!!!

**D!ck** · 03-30-2006, 07:01 AM

Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie

You see, I just think that a lot of women get it all wrong. IMO, men really don't care how clean you keep the house or how good of a cook you are. All of that wifely domestic shit is overrated. It’s better to focus your attention elsewhere. If my husband starts to complain about the pile of dishes in the sink or that he has no clean clothes to wear, I just pull down his pants and start slobbing the knob. End of discussion! He doesn't say another word about the shitty job I did scrubbing the floors. It’s plain and simple. A BJ is the best shut up tool ever!!!

wow sassy. :slapboobies:

**BIG D's SS** · 03-30-2006, 07:03 AM

Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie

You see, I just think that a lot of women get it all wrong. IMO, men really don't care how clean you keep the house or how good of a cook you are. All of that wifely domestic shit is overrated. It’s better to focus your attention elsewhere. If my husband starts to complain about the pile of dishes in the sink or that he has no clean clothes to wear, I just pull down his pants and start slobbing the knob. End of discussion! He doesn't say another word about the shitty job I did scrubbing the floors. It’s plain and simple. A BJ is the best shut up tool ever!!!

Damn when they get this cloning thing down we need you to be in line to one of the first. The divorce rate would drop in half.

**Zboner** · 03-30-2006, 07:06 AM

you should write this in a book

**Sassy Cassie** · 03-30-2006, 07:06 AM

Originally Posted by BIG D's SS

Damn when they get this cloning thing down we need you to be in line to one of the first. The divorce rate would drop in half.

Trust me, I'm still more trouble than I'm worth.

**BillyT** · 03-30-2006, 07:35 AM

Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie

If my husband starts to complain about the pile of dishes in the sink or that he has no clean clothes to wear, I just pull down his pants and start slobbing the knob. End of discussion!

Good Ole' Classy Cassie! Do you swallow or wear his "wad"?

**Sassy Cassie** · 03-30-2006, 07:46 AM

Originally Posted by BillyT

Good Ole' Classy Cassie! Do you swallow or wear his "wad"?

That depends on how much kissing up I have to do.

**NICKLE57** · 03-30-2006, 08:23 AM

Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie

You see, I just think that a lot of women get it all wrong. IMO, men really don't care how clean you keep the house or how good of a cook you are. All of that wifely domestic shit is overrated. It’s better to focus your attention elsewhere. If my husband starts to complain about the pile of dishes in the sink or that he has no clean clothes to wear, I just pull down his pants and start slobbing the knob. End of discussion! He doesn't say another word about the shitty job I did scrubbing the floors. It’s plain and simple. A BJ is the best shut up tool ever!!!

Do you work outside the home or are you a stay at home wife.

**LS1Chris** · 03-30-2006, 01:54 PM

Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie

IMO, men really don't care how clean you keep the house or how good of a cook you are. All of that wifely domestic shit is overrated. It’s better to focus your attention elsewhere. If my husband starts to complain about the pile of dishes in the sink or that he has no clean clothes to wear, I just pull down his pants and start slobbing the knob. End of discussion! He doesn't say another word about the shitty job I did scrubbing the floors. It’s plain and simple. A BJ is the best shut up tool ever!!!

I do care if things are kept clean, not to the point like covering the couches with a clear cover! Just a spill would need to clean the spot.

my motto is if you use something in the kitchen, wash it and put it back where it's supposed to be when you're done with it.

Hell floors aren't important, clean it a minimum once every 2 weeks. Got a party or a few people coming over? clean it the night before.

If there was a pile of dishes in the sink, i'd open the dishwasher and throwm em in there

It really comes down to the woman and the depth of love.

If there was nothing better to do when I'm home, it's time for sex!

ironically my gf doesn't like to slob the knob but prefer's sex over that...go figure.

**LS1Chris** · 03-30-2006, 01:57 PM

Originally Posted by 98 Purple TA

Also, do not expect her to be able to maintain her figure all her life. Children are very damaging to the female body. If you can not handle her with several extra pounds then you are not going to be happy latter in the marrige.

Not a problem with me, more cushion for pushin!

An important point to remember is that a marrige is a union between a man and a women (or other possible arrangements). Nothing should ever be allowed to come between this union. This means that your spouse if more important that your job, children, money and possesions. You must sacrifice to preserve this union. This is where most marriges will suffer.

Agreed. There needs to be a point where you need to work and afterwards to see her.

**LS1Chris** · 03-30-2006, 02:10 PM

Originally Posted by SeVeReDiStOrTiOn

Sounds like you're about to get dumped bro...and it definatly doesn't sound like she wants to get married.

She's in college, has full time classes monday thru friday. And since she went to college she's been stressed out.

She's 19 and I'm 23. And right now I'm working in aircraft maintenance with a airline.

She's gonna be in college for 2 more years majoring in preschool teaching and she said she keeps feeling that she's trying to catch up to me since I finished college in May '05 and already working.
I told her it will take time, once we're on the same level, we'll see what it will be like.

I did ask her why she doesn't like to kiss me much, and she said my lips are chapped most of the time and it's to the point that I do it too much to her....well duh that's what love is. I ain't gonna put chapstick on my lips every fuckin morning, that's one more shit to do when I get up.

My friend tells me don't get married for a long time, first get settled in and decide on what you want to do for the future then when everything is good, it'll be time.

And my dad went to NYU for 4 years then to medical school for another 4 years, then got married when he got out. He told me before I started dating "whatever you do, don't get married right out of college like I did"

For hell I ain't gonna get married for at least 5 years. I'm livin the dream!

**nhraformula** · 03-30-2006, 03:04 PM

Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie

Trust me, I'm still more trouble than I'm worth.

all women are.
being married isnt about love, its about how much shit you can put up with from the other.

**RainMan** · 03-30-2006, 04:02 PM

Originally Posted by BillyT

Marriage used to provide access to sex. Now it provides access to celibacy

http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/prem/200301/flanagan

No argument there. "I Do" becomes "I Won't"

BIGRED Z · 03-30-2006, 04:40 PM

LOL Sassy Cassie, a good BJ does do the trick. But I'm a bit anal about housework. I can't stand clutter. Now closets and drawers are different, they can't be seen.

As far as I'm concerned, as long as the woman (or man) doesn't hold sex as a tool to get what they want...it's all good. I'll give a damn fine BJ anyday over having to mop a floor. It's just more fun.

As to the folks who are married and not getting as much in the bedroom...some decline can be expected, but if it drastically changes, there is something wrong. Providing the couple are happy, there should be a healthy sex life, if not, somethings wrong. People just don't stop having sex for the hell of it. Women like sex just as much as men do, providing they are getting off, which admittedly takes longer than the average guy. If you are doing her right, then there should be no probs.

If she's using it as a tool, then you are with the wrong female, period. And might I add...FUCK THAT. Same goes for men. Yep, some men do that. And fuck that too.

Point being, healthy people in love enjoy sex. Hell, unhealthy people not in love enjoy sex, but I digress.

If your sex life has drastically declined, find out what's wrong BEFORE you get the dear john letter, or divorce notice, or news that she's cheating.

Lori

**Vette4LIFE** · 03-30-2006, 05:52 PM

Ladies, Cassie n RedZ, you guys are the reasons those guys are still married to you. We like our women to be freaky sexually(read: willing and fun) and willing to please at the drop of a hat without all that "I got a head ache" shit. That's how you keep a man faithful, too. If he's gettin all he can stand without any griping and complaining why would he need to cheat (some would just for the thrill of the hunt)? It's just human nature for a man to be a roving dog, but if the bitch dog is constantly sniffing his balls and licking em clean, he can't very well shag the neighbors' poodle, can he?

We all know that women truly rule the world, how'd you think ole dubbya gets any sleep finally? He has to make the old FIRST LADY happy. So, all the women have to do is keep us fed bred and cloth-ed and we be happy to buy whatever bedroom suite or go to whatever movie you want.

I love being a man.