Wow just curious.. what would you do?

**toi tyme** · 10-29-2009, 06:29 PM

Originally Posted by SeVeReDiStOrTiOn

So instead of being a cheating cunt she's now a retarded cheating cunt? Ehhh yea..

no shes mentally fine.. the child they already share has mental disabilities

**nhraformula** · 10-29-2009, 06:50 PM

Originally Posted by toityme

yeah trust is a big thing with me.... even if a guy messes up. Ill have more respect and trust in him if he can have the courage to tell me the "painful" truth rather than pussy up and hide it.

Trust is very important with me. While i may forgive, i wont forget.

**toi tyme** · 10-29-2009, 07:43 PM

Originally Posted by nhraformula

Trust is very important with me. While i may forgive, i wont forget.

bingo!!

**tallnick** · 10-29-2009, 07:44 PM

i would probably be the worlds fastest packer and get the f out of dodge asap.. once a cheater always a cheater..

**Mikat1** · 10-29-2009, 11:27 PM

kick rocks beezy!!

**shady milkman** · 10-30-2009, 05:04 AM

id go to prison again if i found out the wifey was cheating

**odinsonthor** · 10-30-2009, 05:49 AM

Originally Posted by toityme

You're married for x amount of years... more than 13 lets say...

and your wife cheated on you, even got prego ( the affair went on for 3 months when she decided to stop it)

but since she was prego she got attacked by the son of the guy she was having the affair with, because she was breaking up their family....- she almost died and lost the baby

She lost all memory of the past 6 months - permanently. So before she ever met the guy she cheated with and before she ever cheated - always faithful.

Well you have a kid with your wife that has some mental disabilities.... would you stay with her knowing she cheated, even though she has no memory of it and never will again?

Or would you leave her standing by the principle that she did cheat whether she was aware or not?

People claim that they know and understand love. Well most today do not.
There is nothing set about it. If you trully love someone its unconditionally.

**odinsonthor** · 10-30-2009, 05:50 AM

Originally Posted by nhraformula

Trust is very important with me. While i may forgive, i wont forget.

LOve is unconditional. You dont have to forget but be cautious.

**nhraformula** · 10-30-2009, 05:53 AM

Originally Posted by odinsonthor

People claim that they know and understand love. Well most today do not.
There is nothing set about it. If you trully love someone its unconditionally.

Above is a novel idea, but things change. Unless you have had shit happen a person cannot claim that its unconditional

**86 IROC-Z** · 10-30-2009, 08:42 AM

Originally Posted by shady milkman

id go to prison again if i found out the wifey was cheating

wut

**00LS12LS6Z28** · 10-30-2009, 09:28 AM

Tough call. I'd have to go to the replay booth for this one....Kind of like that women who was giving up the goods for some tickets to the World Series for her husband and he knew about it, but an undercover officer answered her ad on craigslist. I don't think I would be happy with the decisions these ladies made. I think I would cut her loose...13 years is a long time though and something had to be going right to be married that long.

***SMWS6TA*** · 10-30-2009, 10:48 AM

Originally Posted by odinsonthor

LOve is unconditional. You dont have to forget but be cautious.

The only love that is unconditional is love of a child.

**cammed goat** · 10-30-2009, 01:56 PM

Note to self:

Watch the destruction from a distance.

**Mieux97** · 10-31-2009, 01:48 AM

Originally Posted by toityme

You're married for x amount of years... more than 13 lets say...

and your wife cheated on you, even got prego ( the affair went on for 3 months when she decided to stop it)

but since she was prego she got attacked by the son of the guy she was having the affair with, because she was breaking up their family....- she almost died and lost the baby

She lost all memory of the past 6 months - permanently. So before she ever met the guy she cheated with and before she ever cheated - always faithful.

Well you have a kid with your wife that has some mental disabilities.... would you stay with her knowing she cheated, even though she has no memory of it and never will again?

Or would you leave her standing by the principle that she did cheat whether she was aware or not?

Everyone deserves a chance to be forgiven tho it would stir in your mind for the rest of your days. One can make the argument that the relationship could be salvaged, but in reality there are many people out there who would quickly look for the exit. It's good that she is alive but someone with a more twisted mind may say that she had it coming to her. True love should always be unconditional, but the people that are more likely to relate to unconditional love are loving parents IMO.

**shady milkman** · 11-02-2009, 05:57 AM

Originally Posted by 86 IROC-Z

wut

you caught it. i havent went to prison..........

yet

**loasdrums** · 11-02-2009, 09:07 AM

Lets change the scenario:
Girlfriend goes out with friends and gets drunk. She blacks out and sleeps with a guy. No date rape drugs just drunk sex. She wakes up in her bed not remembering a thing. You find out through a friend what happened. What then?

**shady milkman** · 11-02-2009, 09:09 AM

Originally Posted by loasdrums

Lets change the scenario:
Girlfriend goes out with friends and gets drunk. She blacks out and sleeps with a guy. No date rape drugs just drunk sex. She wakes up in her bed not remembering a thing. You find out through a friend what happened. What then?

um this one is even more cut and dry...blackout drunk is a horrible excuse

**toi tyme** · 11-02-2009, 09:44 AM

Originally Posted by loasdrums

Lets change the scenario:
Girlfriend goes out with friends and gets drunk. She blacks out and sleeps with a guy. No date rape drugs just drunk sex. She wakes up in her bed not remembering a thing. You find out through a friend what happened. What then?

^^for this.. id tell her shes a dumbass and to learn her ffing limits

Ive been blackout drunk before..... but the worst ive ever done was almost take the waitress home.. lol

Honestly when Im that loaded and I have a man, even subconsciously I dont look for other men to get with - i look at the ladies

Ive always figured if youre drunk, at a party...etc.... Its much better if a girl is feeling "horny" to go make out with a chick rather than a man who would probably have further intentions.

**86 IROC-Z** · 11-02-2009, 09:56 AM

Originally Posted by toityme

^^for this.. id tell her shes a dumbass and to learn her ffing limits

Ive been blackout drunk before..... but the worst ive ever done was almost take the waitress home.. lol

Honestly when Im that loaded and I have a man, even subconsciously I dont look for other men to get with - i look at the ladies

Ive always figured if youre drunk, at a party...etc.... Its much better if a girl is feeling "horny" to go make out with a chick rather than a man who would probably have further intentions.