For the guys that got a divorce.............

[FasstChevys]

if im 40 and getting married then ill be 40. I dont wanna be married just to be married.

100% same page - I'm with you there - same thing goes with having kids.

I might practice a lot, but it doesn't mean I want kids just yet!

[toi tyme]

100% same page - I'm with you there - same thing goes with having kids.

I might practice a lot, but it doesn't mean I want kids just yet!

haah hell yeah. Well im not planning on having kids, cuz i want project cars and.. im just too selfish on the subject.. Plus my career is too demanding and i dont think id be available enough for kids.


But yep gotta test drive your car before you buy it!!

[nhraformula]

If you consider divorce as an option in your relationship you are more likely to get in a divorce. When you marry, you have to have the perception of you only marry once, so its gotta be the right girl.. cuz divorce really isnt an option....



Thats we discussed in my psyc/soci class.. I completely agree...

Ill wait however long cuz im not ever getting a divorce.. not an option!! Do it right, make it right the first and only time! Belong to one person in that way for the rest of your life.

i never considered divorce and it happened. i really didnt like my ex doing another guy behind my back.

what you are taught in class and what happens in the real world are two different things.

[nhraformula]

That ideal is true until you realise how many people that have gotten divorced said that same exact thing. Which is basically the whole problem with marriage. if your husband/wife no longer wants to be in a relationship you for whatever reason... you have no choice in the matter. It's over bottomline.

College talk from a person whos never been married.

[INMY01TA]

Dumb and Dumber...quote..

Fuck you asshole!




























































Terminator...quote..

[408WS6]

If you fight or argue and get caught up in little things, little fights,, little walk outs but always come back, what are you gonna do when a actual big issue comes along? Youre not gonna make it, and youre gonna tear apart. If you cant make it through the little shit, youll never make it through the actual hard shit.

Not always true, sometimes fighting can be good if its done in a mature way. Conflict is a good thing sometimes because conflict can mean change. Its when you fight over the same things over and over again with no resolution thats a problem. Also, fighting over little things sometimes means that there is a bigger problem lying underneath it all that you and/or your significant other are not willing to talk about. Not a psych major, but at 42, I am alittle experienced at life. Another case where knowledge and experience wins out over youth and talent.

[Murder after Midnight]

Not always true, sometimes fighting can be good if its done in a mature way. Conflict is a good thing sometimes because conflict can mean change. Its when you fight over the same things over and over again with no resolution thats a problem. Also, fighting over little things sometimes means that there is a bigger problem lying underneath it all that you and/or your significant other are not willing to talk about. Not a psych major, but at 42, I am alittle experienced at life. Another case where knowledge and experience wins out over youth and talent.

well put 408, that's deep

[408WS6]

well put 408, that's deep

so deep that ya need boots to get through it all...

[Murder after Midnight]

So deep you need a navy seal to get the message................

[408WS6]

So deep you need a navy seal to get the message................

So deep that even Linda Lovelace couldn't swallow it...

[toi tyme]

Not always true, sometimes fighting can be good if its done in a mature way. Conflict is a good thing sometimes because conflict can mean change. Its when you fight over the same things over and over again with no resolution thats a problem. Also, fighting over little things sometimes means that there is a bigger problem lying underneath it all that you and/or your significant other are not willing to talk about. Not a psych major, but at 42, I am alittle experienced at life. Another case where knowledge and experience wins out over youth and talent.

Totally agree, im talking about the dumb immature pointless fighting,, leaving him, coming back.. all that nonsense..


But like you said a problem lying underneath, like this girl i know freaks out if her bf deletes his inbox on his cell phone.. She obviously doesnt trust him, but,, its stupid for how long theyve been together and hes never cheated nor thought about it. People need to get over their insecurities..


But also a relationship, along last one is a gamble. Sometimes what may appear is not what IS. People become more comfortable with a person the longer they are with them, so their "faulty" qualities come out later on in the relationship.. After the "newness" of a relationship passes thats where it gets tricky.. if you stick to it and communicate and keep the passion and the loyalty i think it will all be well!

[toi tyme]

i never considered divorce and it happened. i really didnt like my ex doing another guy behind my back.

what you are taught in class and what happens in the real world are two different things.

well of course that is like immediate dismissal. Her vows were broken, that is a circumstance that is unpredictable. the cheating bitch doesnt deserve a true marriage.

[JHayesLS1]

Some girls are very manipulative. You can try to talk to them about something and before you know it you're the one apologizing for something you don't even know you're sorry for.

[408WS6]

Some girls are very manipulative. You can try to talk to them about something and before you know it you're the one apologizing for something you don't even know you're sorry for.

Some girls? try ALL of them

[gwballin]

I’m 27 and the closest to marriage I’ve gotten is the handful of girls that would have said yes had I asked. I wouldn’t do it since I just do not want to be in that kind of relationship.

Actually, this one girl I’m seeing now has put a two year cap on how long we can be together before I propose. She should know that it is not going to happen since I’ve always been honest with her about how I feel about marriage so it looks like I have another 14 months to go before she is out of here.

[FasstChevys]

Some girls are very manipulative. You can try to talk to them about something and before you know it you're the one apologizing for something you don't even know you're sorry for.

This situation doesn't happen with me anymore - I've learned how to turn the tables.

[JHayesLS1]

This situation doesn't happen with me anymore - I've learned how to turn the tables.

You better share how lol

[408WS6]

This situation doesn't happen with me anymore - I've learned how to turn the tables.

thats exactly what you have to do. Again, experience wins.

[408WS6]

You better share how lol

It takes YEARS to master this art (I still have not mastered it )

[snaggeltooth]

It takes YEARS to master this art (I still have not mastered it )

your answers have to be vague or questions ...lol