Love or Happiness?

**Spaz** · 03-09-2007, 04:47 PM

Originally Posted by eronswife

Honesty is the best policy (PERIOD). Please don't lie to your current girlfriend. And please don't go have a couple drinks with your ex. Your Ex will pull out alll the stops and try her best to bring you home. If my husband ever and I mean EVER had drinks with his ex, I would hang him by his toes in a room full of flesh eating insects. How would you feel if your girlfriend had drinks with another guy? Do onto others as you want done to you

have you no trust? that is a major part of any relation ship...

**DrMilhouse** · 03-09-2007, 05:07 PM

I haven't read any responses. Stick with the hispanic chick if things are going well. The white chick is a time bomb and she'll be "scared" again. What a waste that would be.

Things are probably going well for you with the other girl because it's a comfortable place for you to be in. That's a good thing so stick with it.

**eronswife** · 03-09-2007, 05:13 PM

Originally Posted by The Real Spaz

have you no trust? that is a major part of any relation ship...

Complete trust I have for my husband thats why we are married. Without trust there is no love..that was part of our vows. He knows better than to lie to me therefore he will never hang by his toes. As I will never lie to him or fain his affection in anyway. All I am saying is if he goes out with his ex he will hurt his girlfriend if he hooks up with the ex or not. He will be lieing to her either way.

**eronswife** · 03-09-2007, 05:16 PM

Originally Posted by nhraformula

by not telling her everything, hes not lieing.

Withholding any information is the same as lieing. It is not being honest with her or himself for that matter.

**snaggeltooth** · 03-09-2007, 05:36 PM

SS is right ... Never get back together with a EX .....

**nhraformula** · 03-09-2007, 05:39 PM

Originally Posted by eronswife

Withholding any information is the same as lieing. It is not being honest with her or himself for that matter.

agreed, but alot of people like sneaking around nowadays.

hell, the topic of this post says it all.
i do agree if you are dating somebody thats a S.O, you shouldnt be sneaking around.
now if hes only seeing women, alls fair.

**eronswife** · 03-09-2007, 05:48 PM

Originally Posted by nhraformula

agreed, but alot of people like sneaking around nowadays.

hell, the topic of this post says it all.
i do agree if you are dating somebody thats a S.O, you shouldnt be sneaking around.
now if hes only seeing women, alls fair.

A lie is a lie no matter who she is or the relationship. If he wants to be a man whore than so be it. Lies are never fair to anyone.

BTW I saw that you are a northwest sider. What part, I'm from gladstone park.

**Spaz** · 03-09-2007, 05:52 PM

Originally Posted by eronswife

Complete trust I have for my husband thats why we are married. Without trust there is no love..that was part of our vows. He knows better than to lie to me therefore he will never hang by his toes. As I will never lie to him or fain his affection in anyway. All I am saying is if he goes out with his ex he will hurt his girlfriend if he hooks up with the ex or not. He will be lieing to her either way.

but you contradict your self... you said... "If my husband ever and I mean EVER had drinks with his ex, I would hang him by his toes in a room full of flesh eating insects."

if he told you about it... and you trusthim... then how can you type/post/say/mean that?

**eronswife** · 03-09-2007, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by The Real Spaz

but you contradict your self... you said... "If my husband ever and I mean EVER had drinks with his ex, I would hang him by his toes in a room full of flesh eating insects."

if he told you about it... and you trusthim... then how can you type/post/say/mean that?

He just would never do it period. I trust him I just don't trust other wemon. And if he wanted to have a drink with his ex he would invite me. We have nothing to hide from on another. I am possitive if I betrayed his trust he would hang me by my toes too.

And another thing why would you chose between love or happiness? Why wouldn't you want both with the same person?

**Spaz** · 03-09-2007, 06:00 PM

Originally Posted by eronswife

He just would never do it period. I trust him I just don't trust other wemon. And if he wanted to have a drink with his ex he would invite me. We have nothing to hide from on another. I am possitive if I betrayed his trust he would hang me by my toes too.

And another thing why would you chose between love or happiness? Why wouldn't you want both with the same person?

judging by your typing you are flustered... are you sure about that....

**eronswife** · 03-09-2007, 06:03 PM

Originally Posted by The Real Spaz

judging by your typing you are flustered... are you sure about that....

Absolutly I am sure and no I am not flustered

**Zboner** · 03-09-2007, 06:04 PM

here is the best advise you will recieve, bang both of them untill it blows up in your face and see who wants to be with you

**Spaz** · 03-09-2007, 06:05 PM

Originally Posted by eronswife

Absolutly I am sure and no I am not flustered

really... you got mad and were typping fast and mad mistakes that you don't normaly do...

**Spaz** · 03-09-2007, 06:06 PM

Originally Posted by Zboner

here is the best advise you will recieve, bang both of them untill it blows up in your face and see who wants to be with you

neither... they'd both end up in love with each other and he'd be pissed because he made two women in to homosexuals and can't hit either of them any more...

**Zboner** · 03-09-2007, 06:07 PM

that would be awesome though

**Zboner** · 03-09-2007, 06:07 PM

by the way, i did that exact same thing, and it really does work

**eronswife** · 03-09-2007, 06:09 PM

Originally Posted by The Real Spaz

really... you got mad and were typping fast and mad mistakes that you don't normaly do...

Sorry I mistyped SIR SPAZ. How do you know I was typing fast and how do you know what normal is for me? In the future I will check my spelling and type slower if you feel I am getting "flustered" in anyway.

**nhraformula** · 03-09-2007, 06:11 PM

Originally Posted by eronswife

A lie is a lie no matter who she is or the relationship. If he wants to be a man whore than so be it. Lies are never fair to anyone.

BTW I saw that you are a northwest sider. What part, I'm from gladstone park.

im down the street, norwood park, right by the metra train stop

**Zboner** · 03-09-2007, 06:12 PM

there is a spell check on here

**Spaz** · 03-09-2007, 06:13 PM

Originally Posted by eronswife

Sorry I mistyped SIR SPAZ. How do you know I was typing fast and how do you know what normal is for me? In the future I will check my spelling and type slower if you feel I am getting "flustered" in anyway.

basic phsycology... no offense... you gust gave me the answers and reactions i was looking for... i was just messing with you...