Marriage and Divorce

[nhraformula]

toneloc60 lives in fantasy land.

agreed.
wait till he finds the one he thinks that will be mrs. everything, finds out a year after getting married that shes sucking someother guys dick.
then she takes him to court wanting a divorce and the judge gives her half of everything, when she brought nothing .

[nhraformula]

Undoubteldly his setting up a safety net ahead of time was because in some way or another he had reservations about getting married. Which likely lead to the divorce in the first place. If you have any reservation about getting married. Don't get married. Enjoy your life as a single person. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

you assume way to fuckin much.
she had not one clue that i stashed money away to this day.
she didnt care about my condo being in my mothers name.
neither she or i had any reservations about getting married.

[BillyT]

Ok ok. Let's all mellow out a bit here.

neat: Sorry about your misfortune.

nhraformula: Good job looking out for yourself.

toneloc60: Good luck in what I hope is a blissful marriage that lasts to the end.

[nhraformula]

Have I insulted you? At what point did I make a personal attack on you?

I'm sure you have catagorized me into a neat little mold that you probably classify all believers into. One of Bible beating Jesus freaks, right? Well, what has any true believer ever done to you? You likely think if someone believes in God they are simply looking for a crutch to get through life, or they are naive. That's okay. You have the right. I don't care what your beliefs are.

Why would I bring up religion when talking about marriage? Well, marriage is a religious institution.

So, I will look for your reply and I'm sure we can debate this more. But for now, Peter Pan, signing out.

marriage is a legal contract nowadays.
without a marriage permit from youre local city, you cant get married.
jesus this and jesus that. where is he when all these people are getting divorced?
i know what youll say to that question, the devil made them do it

[toneloc60]

please spare us the jesus christ bullshit.
it has nothing to do with real life. talk to a person whos been divorced, where was jesus christ then??

Wow! So you're saying because your relationship ended in divorce, there is no Jesus Christ. He never existed. He never lived. Not even speaking from a religious standpoint. Just, historically, the man never lived. Is that what you're saying?

So, there is no God because you had a divorce. Got it.

[nhraformula]

My fiancee and I are going to make it because we believe the same things. We talk to each other. We've been together for three years now and have lived with each other for two. We've seen the good and the bad in each other. We've had our share of troubles in a relationship, but have worked through them because being together is what is important to us. .

we believed in the same things, talked to each other, were together for almost 5 years before getting married.
we seen good/bad, and had our troubles. we were no different from what you have posted and are divorced.

[nhraformula]

Wow! So you're saying because your relationship ended in divorce, there is no Jesus Christ. He never existed. He never lived. Not even speaking from a religious standpoint. Just, historically, the man never lived. Is that what you're saying?

So, there is no God because you had a divorce. Got it.

i just dont want religious babble thrown in.
whos to say that the bible and all other books are nothing more than fiction.
why doesnt jesus christ appear if hes so real??

show me and anybody proof that he lived, not what some book says.

[toneloc60]

Ok ok. Let's all mellow out a bit here.

neat: Sorry about your misfortune.

nhraformula: Good job looking out for yourself.

toneloc60: Good luck in what I hope is a blissful marriage that lasts to the end.

Sorry, I started writing that last post before you posted and didn't see your attempt at a truce. I'll chill. And thanks for the well wishes on my marriage.

[nhraformula]

Ok ok. Let's all mellow out a bit here.

neat: Sorry about your misfortune.

nhraformula: Good job looking out for yourself.

toneloc60: Good luck in what I hope is a blissful marriage that lasts to the end.

thanks billy. i just have seen way too many guys get screwed over.
any man with half a brain will somewhat protect himself if he has anything of value that HE owns.

[nhraformula]

where was god when FATHER chester the molester was doing shit with kids he should of not been doing??
why do soo many innocent people suffer??
the list can go on and on but ill stop there.

[toneloc60]

I told BillyT I'd chill nhraformula.

[nhraformula]

I told BillyT I'd chill nhraformula.

i didnt.
what you cant answer a few simple questions?

[YoMommasTA]

So, you married a woman with the predetermination to have a divorce? That's what it looks like. I understand protecting yourself, but why the hell would you marry a person who you believe it may ever be neccesary to protect yourself from financially? Seems to me that you were trying to live life with a safety net. How can you ever really dive into love with all of your heart when you have a safety net? Seems like a waste to me.

In all seriousness, if you want to avoid a woman taking everything from you when you get divorced all you need to do is find a woman that you can live happily with, and she can live happily with you for the rest of your lives. You know, the way marriage is supposed to be.

Don't marry a woman because you have great sex. Don't marry a woman because she's beautiful. Don't marry a woman because you have history. Don't marry a woman because you have a good time when you are together, most of the time.

Marry a woman who you have respect for. Marry a woman who you are able to have conversations with. Marry a woman who you care about more than yourself. Marry a woman who cares about you more than herself. Marry a woman who loves you for you and doesn't want to change you. Marry a woman who you do not want to change. Marry a woman who has the same values and beleifs you do. Marry a woman who you can picture being the mother of your children. Marry a woman who you picture being happy with once she's put on weight. Marry a woman who is your best friend.

Then you can keep your stuff.

wow are you in for it!

[86 IROC-Z]

Moral of the story: Marry a woman richer than you.

Jessica Simpson made over $13 million last year.

Nick Lacheys' band is still 'officially' together, but how long has it been since they released an album?

Guess who gets the money?

[MassGaskets]

Moral of the story: Marry a woman richer than you.

The odds are against you there. I think the statistic was around 90% at nomarriage.com that women marry someone that makes more than them. Women know what they are doing, they are genetically bred to seek someone more stable than they are.

[sonnyred]

My momma always said-- Life is like a box of chocolates,you never know what your going to get.

[KC&97TA]

I don't have a pre-nump, never saw a point in it. I told my wife, to death do us part and slapped a $3k ring on her, then turned around a year latter and gave her a 10 year anniversary band, told her to death do us part again, for my B-day she bough a 1911 .45 and for her B-day she got a NM AR-15... so far, life has been good, when my ass ain't sitting in Iraq.

My wife gave me 2 Rules, and I gave her 2 Rules

rule #1 - no stick'n the dick in other chicks
rule #2 - no smokeing in the house

her rules

rule #1 - no dick besides my dick
rule #2 - don't spend over $1,000 w/o talking to me

So far she's broke her rule #2. Three times, $1700, $5k and $1770 over a 2 1/2 year period and she's paid for all of it w/o touching my money... So I think I got a keeper.

In contrast I've broke my Rule number #2 but she hasn't caught me yet

Just remember that all women are Whores and you'll be alright, not all of them sell thier p*ssy for cash, but they're all in it for something... my uncle told me this and he's been married 5 times

[1fastcamarosss11]

The odds are against you there. I think the statistic was around 90% at nomarriage.com that women marry someone that makes more than them. Women know what they are doing, they are genetically bred to seek someone more stable than they are.

i guess i'm good then see makes about 10 k more then me a year. and works 3 months less to. dam to be a teacher.

[Sprfstz28]

i guess i'm good then see makes about 10 k more then me a year. and works 3 months less to. dam to be a teacher.

I hear ya there, my wifes a teacher also.. they don't know how good they have it with all that time off.

[1fastcamarosss11]

I hear ya there, my wifes a teacher also.. they don't know how good they have it with all that time off.

not only time off but 36- 40 hours at most a week. then there's the pay. well my wife has her master in counciling. so when so does that if she does. she looking at another 5 k a year. but will have to work 2 extra weeks a year. it is nice in the summer i get to do what i want pretty much, from golf to softball to racing my car so i like it.