Relationship Advice...

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 08:06 AM

Small frame, but an amazing ass. She also has a really pretty face. Her personality is what I cannot find again.

**TLS_Addict** · 08-25-2011, 08:16 AM

Ok Jon, depending on the woman situation perhaps we need to do an LS1 Tour De Europe next year summer.

Bring back some of them thar no-english-a-speakin ladies. lol

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 08:58 AM

I'm sure I'll still be single

**FasstChevys** · 08-25-2011, 09:03 AM

So, did you send her that "message"? (from page 27)

**TLS_Addict** · 08-25-2011, 09:05 AM

All I know is I cant stay in limbo forever. Something has GOT to give.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 09:14 AM

Originally Posted by FasstChevys

So, did you send her that "message"? (from page 27)

Not yet. We haven't talked today at all. I was going to wait awhile and see what transpired first. I really think I need to give this girl a nudge though.

There's a reason why she keeps contacting me. I think she has reservations deep down that she may want to be with me. I am not going to keep letting her continue to do what she has been though. This is the 2nd time now. 3 strikes and you're out.

If she doesn't meet me, I plan on sending it. After that point, I won't contact her or respond to her again. She needs to shit or get off the pot.

**TLS_Addict** · 08-25-2011, 09:24 AM

Maybe she is constipated.

**FasstChevys** · 08-25-2011, 09:35 AM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

Not yet. We haven't talked today at all. I was going to wait awhile and see what transpired first. I really think I need to give this girl a nudge though.

There's a reason why she keeps contacting me. I think she has reservations deep down that she may want to be with me. I am not going to keep letting her continue to do what she has been though. This is the 2nd time now. 3 strikes and you're out.

If she doesn't meet me, I plan on sending it. After that point, I won't contact her or respond to her again. She needs to shit or get off the pot.

If it were me, I'd bring that with me next Wednesday if the form of a hand written letter and lay it on the line. No more fuckin' around.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 09:45 AM

It's almost like (to me at least, and I'm by no means an expert)....that she comes back to me to see if she still has me on a leash. Like to see if she can still have me anytime she wants me. When she gets that feeling or vibe...she moves on to find another guy.

I'm not saying this is the case by any means...but sure as hell feels like it.

When I don't contact her for months...she pokes at me and sends me a message to remind me she is still there.

**TLS_Addict** · 08-25-2011, 09:49 AM

Pokes at you? Is this more facebook bullshit? Hence why I dont mess around with that garbage.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 09:53 AM

No, she writes me via work e-mail or sends me a text.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 09:54 AM

I need to take charge of this situation.

The main problem I am struggling with is whether or not I can just be her friend. I don't think I can. Too much history and emotion there. She has FINALLY opened up to me though and confided in me. She's a very private person. She finally trusted me enough to tell me something going on in her life that was very private to her. Only her best friends know about it.

**TLS_Addict** · 08-25-2011, 10:00 AM

Take charge! Like I said, I would go FIND HER and figure this shit out. Tell her just that, if she is in she is in but if she isnt than she is done for good. Dont call, dont text, e-mail or even think of you.

**FasstChevys** · 08-25-2011, 10:55 AM

Originally Posted by TLS_Addict

Take charge! Like I said, I would go FIND HER and figure this shit out. Tell her just that, if she is in she is in but if she isnt than she is done for good. Dont call, dont text, e-mail or even think of you.

Absolutely - I wouldn't wait until "next Wednesday". Fuck that. Tell her you need to talk to her face to face, and that's just how it is. "When can we meet?"

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 12:11 PM

I sent her a text. Told her I wanted to see her face to face, this weekend. That enough was enough. After several text messages back and forth she said she would agree to see me Saturday...for lunch.

He contacted her today.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 12:57 PM

Found out he's older than me...and never been in a committed relationship. I think the odds are good that he won't be back.

**FasstChevys** · 08-25-2011, 01:08 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

I sent her a text. Told her I wanted to see her face to face, this weekend. That enough was enough. After several text messages back and forth she said she would agree to see me Saturday...for lunch.

He contacted her today.

Excellent -

Here's your chance to lay it on the line - tell her you aren't going to be anyone's 2nd choice and how much you truly care about her and potentially want to go for 'round two' as you put it, etc, etc. Words will have to be chosen carefully.

**allbaugh_04** · 08-25-2011, 01:19 PM

I think it's good you are making her make a choice. I wouldn't want to be poked every couple days or weeks. I've been through that. I had to block her number etc. If she chooses no, then cut all ties for good since it doesn't sound like you want to be friends because of your past together. I think you know that though.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-25-2011, 01:57 PM

I'm laying it all on the line "if" we do meet Saturday for lunch. Still not getting my hopes up for it. She's cancelled several times in the past and has always had an excuse...

If we meet, I'm telling her everything. No bullshitting around. We've been doing this for a year now almost.

If she cancels, I'm going to her apt and leaving that note on her door, the card she first gave me saying she wanted to take a chance with me, and the letter she wrote me when we broke up that told me I was the best thing to ever come into her life. That will be it.

**FasstChevys** · 08-25-2011, 04:24 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

I'm laying it all on the line "if" we do meet Saturday for lunch. Still not getting my hopes up for it. She's cancelled several times in the past and has always had an excuse...

If we meet, I'm telling her everything. No bullshitting around. We've been doing this for a year now almost.

If she cancels, I'm going to her apt and leaving that note on her door, the card she first gave me saying she wanted to take a chance with me, and the letter she wrote me when we broke up that told me I was the best thing to ever come into her life. That will be it.

Yep, that sounds about right.