Have u ever cheated on your wife/husband?

**Stevie** · 03-02-2008, 11:18 AM

Originally Posted by Blitzed

A whore is to blame for that

always someone else's fault.

**LETHALxLS1** · 03-02-2008, 12:20 PM

Originally Posted by Stevie

yea sure i would. so why did i file for divorce again??

You constantly bring up your husband. Seems a bit odd to me.

**ATCharming** · 03-02-2008, 12:22 PM

Originally Posted by tnthub

Cheating is disrespecting someone. Skewering anything with a split tail is normal. I'm just grateful I was 15-25 during years when aids wasn't even a blip, STDS we called VD, the pill was popular, and the attitude was "free love"....

lucky you

**310stanger** · 03-02-2008, 02:44 PM

Originally Posted by LETHALxLS1

You constantly bring up your husband. Seems a bit odd to me.

she had to file for divorce, between him wanting nothing to do with her and the restraining order im sure he has on her I'm sure she had no choice.

**issues** · 03-02-2008, 02:48 PM

Matrimony's always fascinated me. Couples who bear children, only to neglect them. Wives in hotel rooms with perfect strangers, husbands unable to look at their wives. Till death do us part, indeed

**Stevie** · 03-02-2008, 03:09 PM

Originally Posted by LETHALxLS1

You constantly bring up your husband. Seems a bit odd to me.

yea i gues you would think like that - but her just picute this:

I go to work - I see him there. Then I say high and go about my business. I stop in the shipping shack (part of my job) then I have to here one of the guys i work with proceed to tell me something about him - never fails. I ususlly just laugh it off. Go back to my desk - now thourh gout the day - I get a three or four e-mails from him. Weather I trash them or not still annoying. Go downstairs - oh there is his cousin who is my friend but he will tell me a story. Ok now I come home - go to the bus stop - oh the neighbor is friends with him so he will always ask me questions. Wiat I'm not finished. If I talk to my sister well her boss is my ex'es sister - so yep he gets brought up again. Or how about my friends will call to tell me stuff they here - sicne 14 years we tend to run in the same circles. then yea the kids are gonna keep telling me stuff. go out anywhere locally - yep gotta hear about him.

he has improved some with the e-mails and the phone calls -you know he has a bad day well gotta try and ruin mine.

so i do everything i can to push him out but day after day - but yea he does drive me crazy. even tried only talking to his mother or g/f - but nope he got worse with the phone calls. i have an answering machine that i never check messages - it just so i don't have to talk to him.

his mother gets pissed at his girlfrined she will start to call me. his girlfriend gets pissed at him about the kids so she tries to involve me.

all i want is to just do live my own life - but i am forever being dragged backwards by people around me. so yea i do alot odf bitching and dumping on ls1 - believe it or not is has helped me to control the visous cirlce - by not feeding into it and just bitching here??

**Stevie** · 03-02-2008, 03:23 PM

Originally Posted by 310stanger

she had to file for divorce, between him wanting nothing to do with her and the restraining order im sure he has on her I'm sure she had no choice.

so you have this in reverse

**310stanger** · 03-02-2008, 05:41 PM

Originally Posted by Stevie

yea i gues you would think like that - but her just picute this:

I go to work - I see him there. Then I say high and go about my business. I stop in the shipping shack (part of my job) then I have to here one of the guys i work with proceed to tell me something about him - never fails. I ususlly just laugh it off. Go back to my desk - now thourh gout the day - I get a three or four e-mails from him. Weather I trash them or not still annoying. Go downstairs - oh there is his cousin who is my friend but he will tell me a story. Ok now I come home - go to the bus stop - oh the neighbor is friends with him so he will always ask me questions. Wiat I'm not finished. If I talk to my sister well her boss is my ex'es sister - so yep he gets brought up again. Or how about my friends will call to tell me stuff they here - sicne 14 years we tend to run in the same circles. then yea the kids are gonna keep telling me stuff. go out anywhere locally - yep gotta hear about him.

he has improved some with the e-mails and the phone calls -you know he has a bad day well gotta try and ruin mine.

so i do everything i can to push him out but day after day - but yea he does drive me crazy. even tried only talking to his mother or g/f - but nope he got worse with the phone calls. i have an answering machine that i never check messages - it just so i don't have to talk to him.

his mother gets pissed at his girlfrined she will start to call me. his girlfriend gets pissed at him about the kids so she tries to involve me.

all i want is to just do live my own life - but i am forever being dragged backwards by people around me. so yea i do alot odf bitching and dumping on ls1 - believe it or not is has helped me to control the visous cirlce - by not feeding into it and just bitching here??

ever consider relocating? i think sarge recommended this months ago.

**LETHALxLS1** · 03-02-2008, 05:57 PM

Originally Posted by 310stanger

ever consider relocating? i think sarge recommended this months ago.

That would help considerably. The first thing I would do is get a new job.

**Neo** · 03-03-2008, 10:03 AM

Originally Posted by 310stanger

ever consider relocating? i think sarge recommended this months ago.

Yeah i hear ls1tech is chock full o' psychologists and such.

**Stevie** · 03-03-2008, 03:11 PM

Originally Posted by LETHALxLS1

That would help considerably. The first thing I would do is get a new job.

not an option - i have younge children and my family is here. i own my own house and it is all remolded easy to maintain, i know everything abou tthis house - so it is easy for me to maintain.

I live in a nice neighborhood where my daughter has friends her age and i know all the neighbors which gives me security in allowing my children to play in the neighborhood. and i am mostly tied to the school district now since their dad also lives in this school district.

and yes many times i 've considered finding another job - but 10 years in and have flex-time and it is good money only 10 minutes from my house.

i have my resume' on monster.com but so far haven;t found anything worth leaving where i am for.

i am in school now - but that is a long road since i work full-time and have two kids who are demanding of my time.

so yea in about 5 years i can quit my job and possible get the hell out of this town - but i won't cut my nose to spite my face either.

**Stevie** · 03-03-2008, 03:13 PM

Originally Posted by Neo

Yeah i hear ls1tech is chock full o' psychologists and such.

yeah they are the best kind, lol. nothing better at blowing of steam then fighting - and for some reason even when i ain;t looking for it - i always get a fight on ls1 - don't I??

**LETHALxLS1** · 03-03-2008, 11:05 PM

Originally Posted by Stevie

not an option - i have younge children and my family is here. i own my own house and it is all remolded easy to maintain, i know everything abou tthis house - so it is easy for me to maintain.

I live in a nice neighborhood where my daughter has friends her age and i know all the neighbors which gives me security in allowing my children to play in the neighborhood. and i am mostly tied to the school district now since their dad also lives in this school district.

and yes many times i 've considered finding another job - but 10 years in and have flex-time and it is good money only 10 minutes from my house.

i have my resume' on monster.com but so far haven;t found anything worth leaving where i am for.

i am in school now - but that is a long road since i work full-time and have two kids who are demanding of my time.

so yea in about 5 years i can quit my job and possible get the hell out of this town - but i won't cut my nose to spite my face either.

Yeah I see your point. No way in hell I could look at my ex everyday fuck that shit.

**AKIRA** · 03-04-2008, 07:07 AM

People still lying their asses off in here?

I am on my second run in with someone elses wife. People, do not get married!

**Justin23454** · 03-04-2008, 08:48 AM

Me and my mife are still together (no cheating) even though it has been only 3 years :O We also have talked about if we ever do lose feelings for each other just say so. I myself could never cheat on my wife, or anyone for that matter. I would feel way to guilty if I did that. I also believe my wife would never cheat on me, BUT if for some reason she did, the guy she is cheating on me with would have to worry about his life, Nuff said!

**hoss 2000 z-28** · 03-04-2008, 08:55 AM

I've had the opportunity and didn't take it. It made it much worse when she started crying because I wouldn't. In hindsight I wish I did because the girl I was with turned out to be... less than ideal. Yeah, we'll leave it at that.

I'd never cheat on someone I love.

**LETHALxLS1** · 03-05-2008, 09:26 AM

Originally Posted by Justin23454

Me and my mife are still together (no cheating) even though it has been only 3 years :O We also have talked about if we ever do lose feelings for each other just say so. I myself could never cheat on my wife, or anyone for that matter. I would feel way to guilty if I did that. I also believe my wife would never cheat on me, BUT if for some reason she did, the guy she is cheating on me with would have to worry about his life, Nuff said!

I never understood the logic or reason why a man whose wife cheated would go after the man she cheated with. I mean-you cant really blame him-he is just trying to get his fuck on. The wife is who is really to blame-noone else. I am not the kind of person whp messes with another mans wife by the way-I think thats a real shitty thing to do.

**Blitzed** · 03-05-2008, 12:18 PM

Originally Posted by LETHALxLS1

I never understood the logic or reason why a man whose wife cheated would go after the man she cheated with. I mean-you cant really blame him-he is just trying to get his fuck on. The wife is who is really to blame-noone else. I am not the kind of person whp messes with another mans wife by the way-I think thats a real shitty thing to do.

word up on that shit

**SeVeReDiStOrTiOn** · 03-05-2008, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by LETHALxLS1

I never understood the logic or reason why a man whose wife cheated would go after the man she cheated with. I mean-you cant really blame him-he is just trying to get his fuck on. The wife is who is really to blame-noone else. I am not the kind of person whp messes with another mans wife by the way-I think thats a real shitty thing to do.

Sitting here at the computer all calm and having never been in that situation I agree with you. But I also know if I actually saw/heard about my wife banging some other guy i'd need a way of releasing my anger...the other guys face is the first thing that comes to mind. I'm sure it does for most guys..

**Justin23454** · 03-05-2008, 01:52 PM

ANyways when I think about cheating I always think for some reason the guy knows she is married, and if this is the case or even if not the case, I can beat his ass and get in less trouble then if I beat my wife?