Might ask my wench to marry me...

**transamprincess98** · 03-29-2007, 06:54 PM

I didn't read your crappy posts

**Spaz** · 03-29-2007, 06:56 PM

Originally Posted by transamprincess98

I didn't read your crappy posts

eww!!! now your stalking me...

**transamprincess98** · 03-29-2007, 06:56 PM

Shut up Stupid!

**Spaz** · 03-29-2007, 06:58 PM

Originally Posted by transamprincess98

Shut up Stupid!

MAKE US!!!

**joerockhead** · 03-29-2007, 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by Firebug

We are going away next week for a getaway here >> http://www.bangalowwaters.com.au/ in Coffs Harbour, and I am thinking it might be a nice place to pop the question. We have been going out for over 5 years and the wench has been hastling me out about it for ages.

She is a high maintenance girl that likes everything to be 'special', so I cant stuff this up. Asking her while at the pub just wont cut it. I have been throught this before, but she hasn't. So she is still dreaming of that 'fairytail' wedding and the special proposal story she can tell everyone...

If it all goes to plan, I'll let you know how I get on in about a week's time...

You listed more reasons NOT to do it, then to do it.

Originally Posted by Firebug

I've already been through it once. I worked permanent nights so my ex had a 'friend' visit her on a regular basis unbenowns to me. Watched her cheat, then take my 2 kids and most of what I worked for away in the blink of an eye. Went through the drinking and depression stage. So I have had some experience there. I think I can stand by my avatar, though when I put that up I thought it was funny, not serious.

This was not supposed to be a thread about if I should or not, it was just an announcement... oh well...

You have not learned.

If you go forward, good luck, and may you find happiness with this woman.

**Dax** · 03-29-2007, 08:37 PM

"A second marriage is the triumph of Hope over Experience"

**superchargedblackgto** · 03-30-2007, 12:24 AM

Hey Bug,
You being a buddy, I would have to say do it. You have been together for a long time, Might as well do it........PS.....where's my scotch.....My 2cents worth.......lol

**SSwt00SS** · 03-30-2007, 05:51 AM

Go for it, sounds like she makes you happy and vice versa...

Wish you the best!!!

**nhraformula** · 03-30-2007, 06:59 AM

if you live with her already, why fuck things up and get married.
over 60% of people who live together before they get married, get divorced.

**SexOnWheels** · 03-30-2007, 07:05 AM

Originally Posted by The Real Spaz

MAKE US!!!

You are like Golem and Smeagle? My preeeesssuuushhhh! We liiikkkessss iiittt?

Go for it Bug! I have never been married so I am not jaded like some others and I would be willing to give it a go someday as well!

I am curious as to how you will pop the question so keep us updated!

**transamprincess98** · 03-31-2007, 05:36 AM

Mark stop being such a cynical bastard! When you come out here to NJ I'm gonna slap you upside your big nogan for the Bug

**nhraformula** · 03-31-2007, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by transamprincess98

Mark stop being such a cynical bastard! When you come out here to NJ I'm gonna slap you upside your big nogan for the Bug

you call me cynical, i call me truthfull

**transamprincess98** · 03-31-2007, 12:16 PM

You are Capt Cynical!

**nhraformula** · 03-31-2007, 12:22 PM

Originally Posted by transamprincess98

You are Capt Cynical!

nooooo not me

**Firebug** · 03-31-2007, 05:18 PM

Originally Posted by JonB

Yeah something about asking the wench to marry me might have sent the wrong vibe.

Originally Posted by JonB

I actually find the title of the thread hilarous. Just was not to sure how serious the dude was after calling the women he's going to marry a wench. For some reason women don't like being called that.

I have called her 'Wench' for as long as we have been going out. She doesn't mind, and thinks it's cute. Maybe wench has a slightly less harshness to it here?

Collins Australian English Dictionary: wench n Faceticious young woman.

**snaggeltooth** · 03-31-2007, 05:23 PM

I guess most people cant speak ...Crazy ass Aussie ...lol

**JonB** · 03-31-2007, 05:35 PM

Originally Posted by Firebug

I have called her 'Wench' for as long as we have been going out. She doesn't mind, and thinks it's cute. Maybe wench has a slightly less harshness to it here?

Collins Australian English Dictionary: wench n Faceticious young woman.

Well then its all good then if she does't mind.

**Firebug** · 03-31-2007, 05:36 PM

Originally Posted by Hi-Po

Do it BIG bugg. Best of luck to you buddy. Its obvious you think you can make it work with this chick, even though shes "high maintenence". You have my vote, But you gotta invite me, fly me down to aussy for your bachelors party. Otay? See ya then.

Originally Posted by Dax

You should do it. IMO it sounds like the biggest thing holding you back is your past experience, and that has nothing to do with her.

Have fun, sometimes, marriages do actually work out.

Originally Posted by Kmcrlyn

Eh Fuck it then. Congrats!! It sounds like you consider yourself married already and are happy about it - if its super important to her to get married then - good for you to give her the wedding and vows that are important to a lot of people including her, even if the formality isnt such a big deal for you

Good luck with the proposal sounds like youre on the right track!

Originally Posted by The Real Spaz

GO BUG!!! you'll do just fine buddy

just make sure that the whole high maintenace thing does get in the way... she either loves you for who you are or doesn't love you at all... you'll make her happy and in return you will be happy...

oh yeah... and in the small chance that she says "no" do it near some crocs, so you can push her in to thier mouths...

Originally Posted by transamprincess98

WAHOO!!!! GO for it Bug

Originally Posted by SSwt00SS

Go for it, sounds like she makes you happy and vice versa...

Wish you the best!!!

Originally Posted by SexOnWheels

Go for it Bug! I have never been married so I am not jaded like some others and I would be willing to give it a go someday as well!

I am curious as to how you will pop the question so keep us updated!

Thanx guys, we are leaving tomorrow to head up the coast. I'll wait until we settle in and relax before I do anything. She is out shopping ATM for some clothes and just rang to tell me she just had a car accident! Som other woman just rear ended her, luckily everyone is ok though...

I would have to say I'm more than a little nervous about it all. I just want it to be as good as it can be...

**Firebug** · 03-31-2007, 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by snaggeltooth

So your going to mess up a perfectly good relationship by getting married ..,,,,I guess you need to go to Chopper Marriage Counselor service first .... Ayeee????

So may people that need a good stabbing... yet so little time...

**Firebug** · 03-31-2007, 05:42 PM

Originally Posted by superchargedblackgto

Hey Bug,
You being a buddy, I would have to say do it. You have been together for a long time, Might as well do it........PS.....where's my scotch.....My 2cents worth.......lol

I sent it to you already, I swear... I sent to ~

To: Mr superchargedblackgto

Address: USA

You didn't get it yet??