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04-03-2011, 02:50 PM #21
I guess I come from the other perspective when I say I am so thankful that Pac has been an amazing father to both of our children; my son from a previous marriage and the daughter we made together. Our life hasn't always been perfect but we are learning as we go. I am a pretty lucky girl and could stand to remind myself of that more often.
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04-03-2011, 02:54 PM #22
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04-03-2011, 02:57 PM #23
Without getting into a crap shoot, if you like the girl.....kids are not a deal breaker unless you:
A: Hate kids
B: Don't want kids
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04-03-2011, 03:00 PM #24
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04-03-2011, 03:03 PM #25
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04-03-2011, 03:20 PM #26
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Just to take above quote a little further, single women with kids treat men better than their single no kids counter parts. Lets be honest and not politically correct for a moment, they know its going to be harder for them to score a "good guy" when in competition with women that dont have kids.
Ill date women with kids and have in the past, but ill never get serious with them as i dont want to deal with others kids.
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04-03-2011, 03:44 PM #27
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04-03-2011, 03:48 PM #28
How are kids headaches
I guess I could see that if the kid was undiciplined and running amuck (Spell?)
I can see if you don't want kids.......good, your opinion.
OP said he likes this girl and the children thing hasn't scared him away and at this moment it doesn't really affect him.
In the end, opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and they all stink.
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04-03-2011, 03:49 PM #29
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04-03-2011, 05:36 PM #31
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04-03-2011, 06:12 PM #32
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04-03-2011, 06:16 PM #33
A few thing.....
I've noticed we are in the midst of another fucking baby boom imo. What my point? My point is that if you are 23 and older, you are gonna encounter lots of girls that got knocked up and have a kid or more. If you arent open to dating a girl that might have a kid, it can get really difficult to have all the variables that need to be in place when you date someone.
There 2 kinds of women that have kids and are on the market..... There the ones that are sluts that are looking for the current wallet to drain to support their kids from different dads and think men aint shit. Then theres the women who might have a kid that was conceived in a serious relationship or even marriage and it didnt work out. They have a job and support both themselves and the kid just fine. But they want to and deserve to meet someone nice. Often these said girls WONT even let you meet their children till far down the line anyways.
A red flag is when the girl is persistent you have immediate constant contact with their kid and they constantly bitch about funds in relation to them and the kid.
Some women totally respect you not being ready just yet to meet their kids and are cool with you getting to know THEM first.
Chicks with kids PUT OUT!Last edited by 310stanger; 04-03-2011 at 06:19 PM.
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04-03-2011, 06:17 PM #34
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Very true. This was the problem in my case. The girl was actually super cool, and hot, but I couldn't get past the kids thing.
We actually dated close to two months and I never even met the kids, she wasn't trying to push me into the "new daddy" role.
What killed it was that I was only around on her every other weekend and one night a week when she didn't have the kids. She wanted someone who'd be around more.
I understood that.... and being honest with myself, she deserved alot more than what I could give her.
Too bad I'm a bit of a selfish prick, because other than the kids, she was almost perfect for me.
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04-03-2011, 06:27 PM #35
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04-03-2011, 07:57 PM #36
It was the other way around for me. I was the one with 2 kids and hooked up with a single girl that's been never married or had kids. She never categorised me as having baggage, or worried about me putting the kids before her or vice versa, me having to pay child support, etc...
I'm sure there are bitches out there with kids, but I'm sure they were probably bitches before they had kids.
For the record, we are now married, have one of our own and looking at having another. It isn't all bad...
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04-03-2011, 08:02 PM #37
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04-04-2011, 06:28 AM #38
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It doesn't bother me one bit. My lady friend has two boys and I spend a great deal of time with them and they both really like being around me.
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04-04-2011, 06:35 AM #39
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04-04-2011, 11:57 PM #40
ok while i know im not dating this chick, im gonna try to point out some things maybe?
Background: girl is 23, has a kid who is now 9 months, she lives in the apartment below me, the kids dad is worthless, signed over his rights 100%, wants nothing to do with the lil guy... and im sure she will find a guy who does love her and the kid, shes cute and has alot going for her... but my point, im not ready to settle down with this, yet i do like to help her out as much as possible, ill watch him from time to time when she cant pick him up from work or what not.... and while i do like to take care of him, it is nice to not HAVETO care for him... and she does a great job for the both of them, i just figure it he can use some male influence (bring on the jokes of how good of a infuence lol), so i guess my opinion is A. how serious you are about staying with the girl, bc it can be rough on an older kid too..... and B. worry about how you work with the girl, then once that is established, then worry about your relationship with the kid.... all and all every situation is different and no one bit of advice is going to apply to all situations.....
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