For the guys that got a divorce.............

[INMY01TA]

Naah, not really worried. She's great and a joy to have around.

[SS02]

Naah, not really worried. She's great and a joy to have around.

Congrats... I was just giving U a hard time!
I am divorced it ended kinda bad. Yet if I find
another right one, I will try it again!

One thing I have learned is Women always think that
they change you... not a good plan to count on!

[allbaugh_04]

Dumb and Dumber...quote..

[FORD RECOVERY EXPERT]

Married for 2nd time..... Have daughter and wife is wonderful....


the 1st time...

not so much...

[ARM5280]

I'm 32 and my second divorce was fianl on 4/13/09. The first one was just to young not that there was any more than a 2 year age diff. She just had never lived much life. Long story short with that one she became "good for the community" partly because I wouldn't fuck her anymore so I left her she got hooked on coke etc. etc. The second Marriage was real different I'm the type of guy who takes shit from no one(my arrest record can vouch for that) well she too was a take shit from no one person. This made us a great team against others but likewise terrible for us. Fights were terrible, keep in mind things were great in the beginning. however things were never let go so rather than get through a problem we would sweep it under the rug until the next fight. Fights got to be about two year old shit. Her family didn't help either. So got rid of her too.

Morale of all of this is:

Solve problems as they occur,
Change is gonna happen,
It is not how you get along when things are good but when they are tough!

Good Luck

P.S. Hopefully the third time is the charm cause I'm engaged again! That or I just never learn.

[nhraformula]

I just got engaged this morning. You guys are scaring me. Lol.

[nhraformula]

below website sums everything up in blunt terms.
http://www.nomarriage.com/

[bandit95]

people in general don't seem to be as genuine or committed anymore. i've been divorced from a chick who cheated on me after we were together 3 years. it's a crappy feeling but it opened the doors for me to meet someone who although we've been through more shit as a couple than probably 98% of other couple's will ever go through, we are still together and love each other and have a little girl together now. it's been an awesome experience. i think society has been demoralized so much that people just don't know how to truly handle the responsibilities it takes to make a true loving relationship last now. the older generations really didn't have as much to cloud their lives and i believe that's why they last a lot longer than the newer ones. guys are just as guilty as girls in newer relationships. there isn't a worse trend to either sex i don't think. bros do stupid stuff as much as the hoes do. you can be an ass or treat someone like royalty and there's no guarantee that it will last now. people just get too selfish in their own evil desires and let it tear their lives apart. it's sad but true.

[knightryda01]

Men today are weak.... it's like a majority of men base their manhood on the fact that their married. Their is nothing wrong with you if your not married. I myself will probally never married, because I know their is too much to lose if I should get divorced. Bottom line. I also know I will not be treated fairly in the process as well. Save the thousands you'll spend on a wedding and invest in yourself. If you do marry, unless you find someone wealthy pre-nup is the only way to go.

[rbob93]

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I've married 4 times.....I don't have ANY good advice on marriage except DON'T.....especially strippers!!

[LS1FirehawkWS6]

I've married 4 times.....I don't have ANY good advice on marriage except DON'T.....especially strippers!!

you were married to a stripper?

[INMY01TA]

below website sums everything up in blunt terms.
http://www.nomarriage.com/

Ya I've read that site before. If it means anything my fiance is not American.

[86 IROC-Z]

If you hold your assets in a personal corporation, they are safe from any divorce claims.

[toi tyme]

If you consider divorce as an option in your relationship you are more likely to get in a divorce. When you marry, you have to have the perception of you only marry once, so its gotta be the right girl.. cuz divorce really isnt an option....



Thats we discussed in my psyc/soci class.. I completely agree...

Ill wait however long cuz im not ever getting a divorce.. not an option!! Do it right, make it right the first and only time! Belong to one person in that way for the rest of your life.

[INMY01TA]

If you consider divorce as an option in your relationship you are more likely to get in a divorce. When you marry, you have to have the perception of you only marry once, so its gotta be the right girl.. cuz divorce really isnt an option....



Thats we discussed in my psyc/soci class.. I completely agree...

Ill wait however long cuz im not ever getting a divorce.. not an option!! Do it right, make it right the first and only time! Belong to one person in that way for the rest of your life.

Actually the best advise in here.

[toi tyme]

Actually the best advise in here.

ha thanks.. psych/cytology, double major (in process)

I got a lot of good advice..
but it seems to never go well when it comes to me with me!!

[ArcticZ06]

ha thanks.. psych/cytology, double major (in process)

I got a lot of good advice..
but it seems to never go well when it comes to me with me!!

ditto. Im exactly the same. Sometimes I think I'll never get married! I want it to be a one time thing so I may be waiting forever! lol

[SeVeReDiStOrTiOn]

No point in getting married...unless you're a chic and then the point is to get money.

[aeromachine]

I just got engaged this morning. You guys are scaring me. Lol.

Run away now... You can thank me in 20 years.

[rbob93]

you were married to a stripper?

Yep