am i an asshole? or is my gf a B***h

**third_shift|studios** · 05-31-2007, 10:56 AM

what? it's dubbed in spanish?! or did you just get the wrong one?

**djvaly** · 05-31-2007, 10:56 AM

Originally Posted by ATCharming

really? haha. is that blue? whats witht he whole POINT system? i have a couple green and a couple blue. in which case im assuming, ones good and one's bad... ?

mine is a green... I just gave it to you...

**ATCharming** · 05-31-2007, 10:59 AM

Originally Posted by third_shift|studios

what? it's dubbed in spanish?! or did you just get the wrong one?

nope the movie is in spanish. its a movie made for mexicans. it has english subtitles. if it was dubbed in english it would be a little more tolerable.

i hear enough spanish at work, i work for fricken illegals. this movie would drive me nuts watching it

**ATCharming** · 05-31-2007, 11:00 AM

Originally Posted by djvaly

mine is a green... I just gave it to you...

ohhhh u JUST gave it to me. ok gotcha. lmao

but i got a green one from this thread also. does that mean someone is an asshole?

**djvaly** · 05-31-2007, 11:02 AM

green is good, blue neutral, red is negative/dissaproval. who cares really!...

**djvaly** · 05-31-2007, 11:02 AM

ok guy gotto do some work here, good luck either way!

**ATCharming** · 05-31-2007, 11:04 AM

ohhh ok cool. thanks for clearin it up. so blue is not bad, cool.

i got no red, so its all that matters

**ATCharming** · 05-31-2007, 11:04 AM

Originally Posted by djvaly

ok guy gotto do some work here, good luck either way!

thanks dj

**Ted_Dallas_WS6** · 05-31-2007, 11:22 AM

Originally Posted by ATCharming

so we jsut hit 13 months. wohoo...
been a bumpy fuckin ride.

today, she wants to hang out with my parents for once, since we always just go to my room and shut the door... my whole family agreed we should rent a movie. so my dad gives me a few dollars and me and sarah go to the movie store to pick one out that is for me, her, and both of my parents. theres this one movie i wanted to see for a while, so i texted my dad askin him and he goes "yea i really wanna see that, grab it"... plus its along the lines of what my mom would really like.

sarah comes back from the other movie aisle and goes "i dont wanna watch that" and im like "well, me, my dad, and my mom all do. and my dads paying for it, so cant u just deal with it so me and u can spend time together?" (we were getting along fine until now)
and she says "why dont u just take me home. cuz i am definitely not watching it."

WHAT THE FUCK
could she be any more fuckin selfish? me and her both have very busy schedules so we dont see each other as often as we'd like, and NOW, we get time to hang out and she wants to go home without me cuz she doesnt get her fucking way.

(i wanted to do this:

"ur walking home") but, instead i just said, "ur unbelievable, im watching this movie, just deal with it" (nice as possible)
her: "fine, whatever"

shes been bitchy all night and hasnt said a word to me. we actually turned on a different movie, but i left her in the living room to watch it without me cuz im fuckin pissed off. i told her to fuckin go home if she really wants to. she'd miss out on seeing me, and she'll look like a total bitch when i tell my parents its cuz she didnt get her way.

shes never been such a selfish bitch

so, am i an asshole?

Damn. Tell her to watch "The Break-up" with Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Anniston. She could probably learn something from that. If you're in a relationship then there needs to be compromise.

**TMF** · 05-31-2007, 11:27 AM

AT, you seem like a reasonable and mature person for 16, so why change now. Talk to her, see if there's a reason why she was being selfish, no reason to throw away 13 months worth of relationship huh ? At this point in my life, I try to build relationships, not tear them down. You mine as well start now, it works out better in the long haul. We all have bad days, why judge her for 1 bad day, when you've had alot more good ones.

**Ted_Dallas_WS6** · 05-31-2007, 11:30 AM

I don't know man, do whatever makes you happy. If she makes you happy then stick with her. If not, get out.

**djvaly** · 05-31-2007, 11:39 AM

Originally Posted by ATCharming

thanks dj

**SexOnWheels** · 05-31-2007, 11:51 AM

Originally Posted by ATCharming

the absolute perfect response to this thread.
post of the day.

You know it little brother!

Originally Posted by ATCharming

...btw, i spend alot of time on here, but im pretty secretive. as far as she knows, im on here once or twice a day for a few minutes talkin to a guy (01raptorta) about buying a car. she has no idea there is any conversation other than cars on here. she doesnt even know what the site is, she just doesnt care lol.

If she only knew you are going for the posting record here you would be in big trouble.

I am at a point where I refuse to change for anyone and vice versa.

If you want to race cars make it happen.

I know that was a dream of mine and I am currently living it. It is not a cheap sport but with enough dedication and drive it can be done, as I am living proof.

**DrMilhouse** · 05-31-2007, 01:37 PM

Run!!!!

**94z28l** · 05-31-2007, 02:48 PM

Originally Posted by DrMilhouse

Run!!!!

**ATCharming** · 05-31-2007, 02:51 PM

Originally Posted by Ted_Dallas_WS6

Damn. Tell her to watch "The Break-up" with Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Anniston. She could probably learn something from that. If you're in a relationship then there needs to be compromise.

thats my favorite movie. i love watching it with her, and every once in a while, pointing to the screen going "see..."

lol

**ATCharming** · 05-31-2007, 02:52 PM

Originally Posted by TMF

AT, you seem like a reasonable and mature person for 16, so why change now. Talk to her, see if there's a reason why she was being selfish, no reason to throw away 13 months worth of relationship huh ? At this point in my life, I try to build relationships, not tear them down. You mine as well start now, it works out better in the long haul. We all have bad days, why judge her for 1 bad day, when you've had alot more good ones.

thats probably one of the most reasonable responses ive gotten. like i said, alot of this thread was a joke. it started out with me being angry, and im irrational when im angry. then everything got really really bad, so it turned into a joke.

ur completely right, im going to talk to her tonight, see what happens.

**ATCharming** · 05-31-2007, 02:53 PM

Originally Posted by SexOnWheels

You know it little brother!

If she only knew you are going for the posting record here you would be in big trouble.

I am at a point where I refuse to change for anyone and vice versa.

If you want to race cars make it happen.

I know that was a dream of mine and I am currently living it. It is not a cheap sport but with enough dedication and drive it can be done, as I am living proof.

yea its funny. highest post average (as far as i know lol) but she thinks i barely go on. its cuz whenever im with her, i stay away from this site, knowing that its probably safer lol

**ls1blackbeauty98** · 05-31-2007, 02:59 PM

hhhm i havent really read the thread so im not sure how off topic we are here... haha ill throw in my opinion either way...

if a girl isnt willing to compromise... honestly... its only gonna get worse. she showed a little bit of her true self to you by being a selfish bitch. stay with her if that will make u happy... but keep in mind you might have to deal with that kinda attitude. good luck

ps- u are 16 so dumpin her and finding another girl thats fun isnt such a bad idea, i was tied down from 15-20 and i lost some of the most fun years of my life to a relationship i shouldnt have been in after the first three years... when ure a teenager ure supposed to be livin it up!!

*plus if this does last more than likely once yall hit college its going to be over anyway sorry for the bad news but its true*

**MegaMan** · 05-31-2007, 03:43 PM

The Breakup is possibly the worst "comedy" I have ever seen. It is awkward and tense. Who likes watching people break up because they can't get along and always fight?

Anyways, if this never happens to you guys then don't worry about it. If it happens often then end the relationship. Why would you want to be with someone that is selfish like that?