Relationship Advice...

[Smittro]

So I finally just let it go. She made more excuses and I caught her in more lies. I'm done with her.

On the flip-side, I met a new girl who is probably the prettiest girl I've ever been on a date with to date. Has her shit together too. Finishing up her MBA, has a great job, and she gets me. Been seeing her a week now and she told me today she wants to see me and me only and doesn't plan on dating anyone else until she see's how this is going to work out.

Oh yeah...

Toldya bro..

[Packy]

Women are crazy.

I second that!

[35th-ANV-SS]

Where the hell you meeting women? I never see any around here.

I actually know her from grad school. We had a class together last year.

Thanks to everyone for the words of advice and encouragement. Everything happens for a reason. I knew the truth and what I needed to do the whole time, I just didn't want to see the light. Had my blinders on!

This new girl isn't into cars....YET. We'll get that squared away soon though

[95camaroZNC]

What's the best way to get a girl back you fucked up with?

We broke up a few months back and now I want her back.

We are at a point now where we don't even talk anymore...well she ignores my texts and any work e-mails, etc I send to her, which happened recently.

We were talking/texting almost daily until about a week or 2 ago.

Basic background info is we had a VERY intense relationship.

I have a sarcastic side and it got the best of me and because of my frequent comments and questioning of shit, she bailed.

Any advice?

Dunno what everyone else has said but this makes it sound like she was talking to you until she found someone else to keep her options open incase she changed her mind. Think you might be too late on this one.

[KahanaReef]

Dunno what everyone else has said but this makes it sound like she was talking to you until she found someone else to keep her options open incase she changed her mind. Think you might be too late on this one.

This is page 15... He's already found someone else

[c5z28]

Now go back and read this thread from the beginning

[98Hardtop]

Dunno what everyone else has said but this makes it sound like she was talking to you until she found someone else to keep her options open incase she changed her mind. Think you might be too late on this one.

You got that right.

This is page 15... He's already found someone else

[Sarge]

Since this thread started......
1. His girlfriend married some other guy and they have had 6 kids and live in a trailer down by the river.
2. Our hero (The OP) won the lottery and married Lady GaGa and they do heroin together in a trailer down by the river.
3. We elected an idiot President.

[35th-ANV-SS]

6 months later....

I stopped talking to her about 2 months ago. No contact at all.

She e-mails me last Wednesday. Sends me just a "hey, how have you been e-mail". She wrote about 10 sentences.

I responded, and then she sends another few paragraphs. We go back and forth a few times.

I haven't heard from her since Wednesday.

Today I log into g-mail chat and she is online. She hasn't been online in over 8 months.

What is she up to?

I'm just playing it cool and NOT contacting her at this point unless she contacts me.

[jiveass]

6 months later....

I stopped talking to her about 2 months ago. No contact at all.

She e-mails me last Wednesday. Sends me just a "hey, how have you been e-mail". She wrote about 10 sentences.

I responded, and then she sends another few paragraphs. We go back and forth a few times.

I haven't heard from her since Wednesday.

Today I log into g-mail chat and she is online. She hasn't been online in over 8 months.

What is she up to?

I'm just playing it cool and NOT contacting her at this point unless she contacts me.

yea just feel it out....see what shes tryin to pull here....dont act too eager to talk to her....

[35th-ANV-SS]

her e-mails to me were VERY upbeat...happy...lol's...hehe's...she was VERY interested in what I've been up to and the things happening in my life.

She also asked if I was excited of the things happening in my life because I found a g/f.

I didn't answer that directly. I just played it cool and said I have been traveling, getting my car stuff in order, chillen with friends, etc.

[jrbonds]

her e-mails to me were VERY upbeat...happy...lol's...hehe's...she was VERY interested in what I've been up to and the things happening in my life.

She also asked if I was excited of the things happening in my life because I found a g/f.

I didn't answer that directly. I just played it cool and said I have been traveling, getting my car stuff in order, chillen with friends, etc.

Stay away. Do not talk to her much at all. She's lonely and pulling the black book out. Period.

[mrwdjv]

Stay away. Do not talk to her much at all. She's lonely and pulling the black book out. Period.

Love this advice!

[silverWS6]

Stay away. Do not talk to her much at all. She's lonely and pulling the black book out. Period.

Love this advice!

Coming from woman themselves...



Yeah, WOMAN, not girls!

[35th-ANV-SS]

I figured that much.

She's probably the only girl I've ever been in love with.

I'm letting her come to me at this point and continuing to just enjoy MY life.

JR - have you read the whole thread? Just curious.

[jrbonds]

I figured that much.

She's probably the only girl I've ever been in love with.

I'm letting her come to me at this point and continuing to just enjoy MY life.

JR - have you read the whole thread? Just curious.

I scanned thru most of it. I can go back and read it tonight. Did I miss something important?

[35th-ANV-SS]

To summarize...

This girl was AMAZING to me. She has ALL the qualities I ever wanted in a woman.

I said some things to her that weren't very nice. I was into another girl when I met this girl and she put up with me talking about this other girl to her for like over a month.

She finally walked away.

I kept trying to win her back AFTER all this happened. That is when I realized I loved her.

She had moved on and probably was dating other guys.

I am now at a VERY happy stage in my life. I am single. I am happy. I have been enjoying life. I wasn't in this stage before when I met her.

That about sums it up to some degree.

[jiveass]

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[jrbonds]

To summarize...

This girl was AMAZING to me. She has ALL the qualities I ever wanted in a woman.

I said some things to her that weren't very nice. I was into another girl when I met this girl and she put up with me talking about this other girl to her for like over a month.

She finally walked away.

I kept trying to win her back AFTER all this happened. That is when I realized I loved her.

She had moved on and probably was dating other guys.

I am now at a VERY happy stage in my life. I am single. I am happy. I have been enjoying life. I wasn't in this stage before when I met her.

That about sums it up to some degree.

Then I suspect she still loves you also and is trying to feel things out. If anything take it slowly. I am not there watching this in person so only you know whats best for you. But if things do start progressing, DO NOT talk to other girls. This one and this one only til you know for absolute sure you want her or you don't.

[FasstChevys]

6 months later....

I stopped talking to her about 2 months ago. No contact at all.

She e-mails me last Wednesday. Sends me just a "hey, how have you been e-mail". She wrote about 10 sentences.

I responded, and then she sends another few paragraphs. We go back and forth a few times.

I haven't heard from her since Wednesday.

Today I log into g-mail chat and she is online. She hasn't been online in over 8 months.

What is she up to?

I'm just playing it cool and NOT contacting her at this point unless she contacts me.

To me, it's pretty simple. It hasn't worked out with whomever she's been dating/seeing. She's single too, and probably still cares about you too.

Here's how I 'think' I know I'm right. Here's your quote:

"She also asked if I was excited of the things happening in my life because I found a g/f."

Obviously she's assuming you're with someone else, and is asking to find out. This isn't the last you'll hear from her.