Gonna have a pissed wife

**Y2KArcticSS** · 03-19-2012, 10:22 AM

Originally Posted by SiggyZ

My take on this? Some people are just born hard ass holes and don't realize when they have a good thing.

Why don't you tell him how you really feel Siggy

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**5.0THIS** · 03-19-2012, 12:56 PM

Originally Posted by chris1974

I used to do it too, that is, until my brother did it one night, and ended up killing someone and paralyzing another when he smashed their car head on at 60mph.

Is he in jail?

**TLS_Addict** · 03-19-2012, 03:34 PM

At least you know why she is pissed at you. Makes it easier to say you are sorry. lol

**whitetrashbird** · 03-19-2012, 03:43 PM

I'm betting she was nicer to you when you were acting like an ass in the relationship.

Dan

**TLS_Addict** · 03-19-2012, 03:47 PM

Your name is Dan, too? lol

**chris1974** · 03-19-2012, 04:27 PM

Originally Posted by 5.0THIS

Is he in jail?

He went to prison...he's out now. This was about 15 years ago. They found out the guy in the other car was drunk too. Not sure about the passenger.

**BrntWS6** · 03-19-2012, 05:02 PM

I don't know man....eat the "Y" then tell her your shit. I've been with my wife for 18 years....we worked all our crap out in the first 5.

**redls1** · 03-19-2012, 05:56 PM

Originally Posted by whitetrashbird

I'm betting she was nicer to you when you were acting like an ass in the relationship.

Dan

Actually no.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 03-19-2012, 06:00 PM

Nobody will ever fully understand what goes through a woman's head. As soon as you think you know, they throw you a curve ball. That's just how shit works. You basically have to decide for yourself how much you're willing to tolerate.

Sounds like you found yourself a good woman, but you keep fucking up. Learn from your mistakes or you're going to find yourself without her and then you'll really start to spiral downward.

**redls1** · 03-19-2012, 06:09 PM

Yep and I agree. I have changed alot since the start. Just have more to work on.

**Zapper2003** · 03-19-2012, 07:39 PM

Buddy of mine called me up and said he needed someone to talk to.. His wife told him she cheated on him 5 times with the same guy a year ago.. so he kicked her out..among a bunch of other shit..

**0rion** · 03-19-2012, 07:54 PM

Originally Posted by Zapper2003

Buddy of mine called me up and said he needed someone to talk to.. His wife told him she cheated on him 5 times with the same guy a year ago.. so he kicked her out..among a bunch of other shit..

good man.....I'd drink beer and burn her shit in the yard.

**5.0THIS** · 03-20-2012, 03:09 AM

Originally Posted by chris1974

They found out the guy in the other car was drunk too. Not sure about the passenger.

If your brother caused the crash, it is of little relevence that the other guy was drunk.

**chris1974** · 03-20-2012, 06:50 AM

Originally Posted by 5.0THIS

If your brother caused the crash, it is of little relevence that the other guy was drunk.

Yeah...I'm pretty sure that's why he went to jail...

**redls1** · 03-21-2012, 10:49 AM

You know now that I think about it more Im not sure I really want to be married anymore. As people say you change or things and I guess they have/we have. In the start of our marriage when she was gone as the time it didnt really matter because I was out and shit. Now she is gone even more and makes better money but I want more than that now. Guess I have to think about it or we need to talk in a couple of months when she has time. That or say fuck it and enjoy shit when we do. I say we never have to to really do anything but she says well Im off in the summer for 3 months. Fuck whatever..

**SiggyZ** · 03-21-2012, 10:52 AM

Being selfish and married go together like oil and water.

**redls1** · 03-21-2012, 02:22 PM

Originally Posted by SiggyZ

Being selfish and married go together like oil and water.

Yep she came home and I said I want a divorce. She asked me what is wrong and I said we really dont have the time needed to talk about it. She said tell me so I did. Im sick of being a house bitch and watching the damn dogs. She said what am I gonna do about my treatments/doctor appts. I said doesnt matter as that is no reason to stay married. Damn talk about bringing the topic back with a swing.

**KahanaReef** · 03-21-2012, 04:30 PM

Wow... just 4 days ago you were worried about her being pissed off because you reverted back to some old behaviors that had caused trouble in the past, and today, you asked her for a divorce... That went quick.

**chris1974** · 03-21-2012, 07:32 PM

I dunno man...I would probably sleep on that for a couple days. It's obvious that you care about her. Just make sure you think all of this thru really well. Some things can't be taken back.

**5.0THIS** · 03-22-2012, 12:17 AM

Originally Posted by redls1

Yep she came home and I said I want a divorce. She asked me what is wrong and I said we really dont have the time needed to talk about it. She said tell me so I did. Im sick of being a house bitch and watching the damn dogs. She said what am I gonna do about my treatments/doctor appts. I said doesnt matter as that is no reason to stay married. Damn talk about bringing the topic back with a swing.

First of all, a car forum is no place to be talking about this in all honesty. You and your wife need to go sit down with a counselor, talk about things, and decide if this is really the best thing for both of you. It might take more than one session too, so have some patience. You can take a little time now, and it will pay off in the long run either way. You will either decide that a divorce is the best thing for both of you, and for the right reasons, so that both of you can move on in a positive way...OR... you will decide that there are things that need to be worked on, likely with both of you, in order to make your marriage better and make both of you happier.