Relationship Advice...

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-22-2011, 06:59 PM

My bro is having a house party Friday and I have a going away party to go to Saturday night. Following weekend I have a BBQ and the on the 10th I'm going to Indy for a huge house party that's also frat related.

I'll have some stories

**allbaugh_04** · 08-22-2011, 07:06 PM

I think I want a gf, can someone come over and slap me...

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-22-2011, 07:11 PM

no shit...go out...drink...have fun...have lots of sex...drive your car when you want...buy what you want...stay single.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-23-2011, 05:15 AM

Well holy mother of God...

She asked me out...

She'll prolly cancel

**SiggyZ** · 08-23-2011, 05:18 AM

Quit pretending like you don't want this chick. You want her bad and you know it.

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

Well holy mother of God...

She asked me out...

She'll prolly cancel

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-23-2011, 05:23 AM

I'll believe it when I see her face...

We've made plans before and it never came to fruition.

Maybe enough time has passed for her now to forgive and forget. I know it has for me.

**SiggyZ** · 08-23-2011, 06:10 AM

You just need to take that woman and make her yours. She's waiting for it, while at the same time being cautious due to you screwing the pooch before.

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

I'll believe it when I see her face...

We've made plans before and it never came to fruition.

Maybe enough time has passed for her now to forgive and forget. I know it has for me.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-23-2011, 06:23 AM

Well it's verified she's single. I am 100% of that.

There's a reason she keeps coming back to ME. She seen something and experienced something with me that she hasn't with other guys. Why else would she keep coming back and contacting me?

We'll see how it goes...if it does at all. I have ZERO expectations.

Maybe this is our second chance...maybe not.

Just going with the flow at this point. This woman taught me just about everything I've learned about relationships in the last year...what NOT to do.

If she lets me...I'm going to...and she won't be walking away this time because I'm going to make her on cloud 9 24/7.

**allbaugh_04** · 08-23-2011, 06:34 AM

I make a good groomsman FYI...

**SiggyZ** · 08-23-2011, 06:37 AM

Good man. I hear Zales is having a sale on princess cut diamond rings right now.

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

Well it's verified she's single. I am 100% of that.

There's a reason she keeps coming back to ME. She seen something and experienced something with me that she hasn't with other guys. Why else would she keep coming back and contacting me?

We'll see how it goes...if it does at all. I have ZERO expectations.

Maybe this is our second chance...maybe not.

Just going with the flow at this point. This woman taught me just about everything I've learned about relationships in the last year...what NOT to do.

If she lets me...I'm going to...and she won't be walking away this time because I'm going to make her on cloud 9 24/7.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-23-2011, 07:30 AM

Biggest hurdle is her letting me.

Everything in my life for the last year has kept bringing me back to her though...almost seems like a sign to me.

Maybe there is a reason after all of why we were brought together from over 2,000 miles away.

**suede** · 08-23-2011, 12:55 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

Well it's verified she's single. I am 100% of that.

There's a reason she keeps coming back to ME. She seen something and experienced something with me that she hasn't with other guys. Why else would she keep coming back and contacting me?

We'll see how it goes...if it does at all. I have ZERO expectations.

Maybe this is our second chance...maybe not.

Just going with the flow at this point. This woman taught me just about everything I've learned about relationships in the last year...what NOT to do.

If she lets me...I'm going to...and she won't be walking away this time because I'm going to make her on cloud 9 24/7.

even if youmake her happy, be a pushover sally will get old after while, you know well enough tho from learning

Originally Posted by allbaugh_04

I make a good groomsman FYI...

debs best man

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-23-2011, 02:11 PM

I am definitely not the pushover sally I used to be with her. I am 100% changed in that regard. That came off as a total weakness and a loss of confidence. Not who I am at all when it comes to women.

She texted me at 1AM last night, but I didn't respond until today. Kept it witty and funny. Then she immediately asked me out for dinner.

I casually responded and made her laugh again. She asked about this weekend or a day next week...what worked best for me.

I told her Tues/Wed of next week as I have plans this Friday/Saturday.

Haven't checked my phone as of lately.

Stay tuned for the drama story known as 35th's life...

**suede** · 08-23-2011, 02:59 PM

damn it make me smille to se e you learning soo wlel, woot woot, i need to star t a consult compenny for guys to get wat they want from sit u ations

**TLS_Addict** · 08-23-2011, 07:06 PM

Originally Posted by allbaugh_04

I make a good groomsman FYI...

Im in as well.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-23-2011, 08:31 PM

Game on...next week she's penciled in. Made plans on a weekday for dinner. I picked out the place. We'll see what happens from now until then.

**suede** · 08-24-2011, 05:54 AM

wow... lol lord i apologize for that drunken post.....

hope i still get dibs on best man tho lol

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-24-2011, 06:01 AM

Am I playing my cards right here? I mean, I know she's looking and on the prowl. Typically girls get 100's of messages on there. At least my attractive gf's who tried it did.

I know girls are a little more reluctant to meet a guy from online than guys are willing to meet girls. It didn't take us long to meet though after we first started to talk back when I was on there last year.

I don't want her to meet another guy and hit it off with him and then cancel on me because of that.

Like I said, she's hinted to the idea in the past to meet up with me...then she disappeared. Hoping this time around is different.

It's been almost a year since we've seen one another.......

**TLS_Addict** · 08-24-2011, 07:36 AM

Women = crazy

If I had them all figured out I wouldnt be here.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 08-24-2011, 08:08 AM

So the truth came out today from her...

Casual texts turned into her saying she's heart broken right now...

Ugh...

Seems like a very bad situation for me.