Update on the 10/10 waitress

**28Marcos** · 07-26-2011, 12:22 PM

booo! lock thread then lol

**35th-ANV-SS** · 07-26-2011, 12:37 PM

You know the rules. Post a pic.

**TLS_Addict** · 07-26-2011, 12:47 PM

I would hound her for some punaner.....lol Honestly, if she is giving her number/facebook crap out to a guy when she has a man she wants some "strange".

I would tip toe around it but makes jokes in regards to it. Seriously, its what she wants............so give it to her. If he shys away from it leave her alone and wait for her to get back to you. I will bet $10 that if you go after her and then she doesnt play in, that if you dont contact her and wait and go back in say 3 weeks later she will either talk your ear off or she will ignore you 100%. However, if she ignores you she will most certainly message/text you that evening.

Girls like her are good for just a few things and none of them involve speaking.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 07-26-2011, 02:46 PM

Dan has some valid points. If she is in a relationship though, it could very well be that she's using the OP as a "pick me up" to build her own self-confidence. When guys want her, it makes her feel good about herself and is only going to strengthen her current relationship.

**CamaroFan71** · 07-26-2011, 05:32 PM

I'm thinking that if you need a buncha sausages from a car forum to explain it to you, you need to let it go and buy a plant.

**allbaugh_04** · 07-26-2011, 06:00 PM

Rule number 1, never hit on or attempt to date your waitress.

**TLS_Addict** · 07-26-2011, 06:42 PM

Originally Posted by allbaugh_04

Rule number 1, never hit on or attempt to date your waitress.

I have slept with a bar tender (yes, it was a she) and I had two waitresses. Not to mention the girl from Blimpie and even some Asian pursuasion. Yes, you CAN get them to go out with you because they want to STAY in the states.

**allbaugh_04** · 07-26-2011, 06:51 PM

Waitresses are hit on 24/7, unless they are a complete attention whore or just a whore, they don't enjoy it.

A lot of family members have waitressed at some point in their life and there is nothing worse to them.

**justinmc978** · 07-26-2011, 10:02 PM

Originally Posted by Murder after Midnight

u know i can't post pics come on..lol

just sayin'

**28Marcos** · 07-26-2011, 11:08 PM

Originally Posted by TLS_Addict

I have slept with a bar tender (yes, it was a she) and I had two waitresses. Not to mention the girl from Blimpie and even some Asian pursuasion.

its hella lot easier when u work with them

the good old days. it was my pond.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 07-27-2011, 05:16 AM

By far the best job I ever had for meeting girls was a gas station clerk. Worked there 7 years and met some of the hottest girls I've ever seen.

**TLS_Addict** · 07-27-2011, 06:52 AM

I bartended at a tiny golf course for 3 years. However, we did a lot of outside parties. Lots of drunk middle-aged women that were easy pickins!

This waitress I think is up to something. She might think perhaps that the OP is in some way better than what she has. I would play it out a litle bit.

**allbaugh_04** · 07-27-2011, 09:05 AM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

By far the best job I ever had for meeting girls was a gas station clerk. Worked there 7 years and met some of the hottest girls I've ever seen.

Welp, I'll go put in some apps.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 07-27-2011, 09:08 AM

They paid for my college tuition in the process (the gas station, not the girls)

**allbaugh_04** · 07-27-2011, 09:10 AM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

They paid for my college tuition in the process (the gas station, not the girls)

Oh, I was thinking about escorting

**tnthub** · 07-27-2011, 12:51 PM

First, "every" hot looking waitress is always taken or has a boyfriend at all times in regards to her status. Hot looking servers are hit on all the time so dating any customer
is something they try to avoid at all costs because as soon as they date one person there is a line of potential suitors...

I have dated many waitresses in the past and have worked as a waiter and bartender. I wasn't bad looking when I was younger and I had no problem hooking
up as much as I wanted, but regular customers I always kept at a distance because they would talk and sooner or later there would inevitably be "drama" which
would be bad for my reputation, bad for my employer, and not very classy in general.

As far as dating waitresses, performers, bartenders, or other professionals I would find a way to "do them a favor" off work and well away from work, like changing a tire,
or fixing something they wanted fixed. This removed the pressure of a "date" scenario and built trust so when I would ask them out the next week they would not feel
pressured or feel like they were breaking their own golden rule because they had already established some sort of relationship with me away from their work.

**310stanger** · 07-27-2011, 01:14 PM

Originally Posted by Ls1_385hp_T/A

She's taken, but she's interested. Add her and chat for a bit ..keep it flirty but mild and see what happens. Her relationship with whomever must be coming to an end in her eyes. I've been in your situation, 2 years strong now with a 10/10 as well. Anddd don't rush things.

This. Assuming the variable of her just giving out her "whore card" ie contact method, phone number, whatever that is low risk but enough to make you think you are getting somewhere, is out of the question. Theres the possibility that what 385 said is whats going on. Shes currently with someone, someone she might still end up just staying with, but she has a now hiring ad shes putting out for the dudes prospective replacement. One thing about women you must remember is that they are ALWAYS looking for the BIGGER, BETTER DEAL. So she already knows you like her, now the next time she sees you, you must be around your friends or other people and project the image that whatever you are involved with or who you are around, you are a good time, and those people are having a good time. The fucking curiosity she will have will make her wanna know what you are about for one thing and number 2, a fun neutral situation puts them at ease and makes it way easier for both you and her. If you hit on her alone and shit, just forget it.

**TLS_Addict** · 07-27-2011, 01:17 PM

Originally Posted by allbaugh_04

Oh, I was thinking about escorting

My friend and I thought of starting a male escort business. We would screen the people prior and we would go out on the town with them for terms of 4 hours. After that the evening has only to do with the woman and the guy and the business is not liable. lol We were going to get a Caddy SUV and car.

We figured there are some women out there who would pay for some male company.

**310stanger** · 07-27-2011, 01:18 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

I'd personally not put too much effort into her. She knows that you're interested. If a girl "really" likes you, she'll come after you. Guarantee that.

I'll cosing 150,000% on that. I've chased girls that were either neutral or semi interested and then I know what its like to get chased by someone that really wants you, or digs you. This person was someone that I was presenting a challenge to and was aloof to a point. Believe me when they have you as their target and they want you or wanna conquer you, you fucking know. Its as easy as pie on your end. They can become virtual putty in your hands