another rant about women

[LSCyaL8R]

For me... i'm not trying to manipulate nor am i indecisive. I know I want to be with this girl and i'm quite up front about that with her. I've been indecisive in the past. If you feel that way it's probably because you aren't "that" interested.

[SiggyZ]

That's true, but selfishness also comes into play. If a person is at a selfish stage in their life, no one else, no matter who they are is going to have success being in a relationship with that person until they decide to move passed that selfishness/self-centeredness.

If you feel that way it's probably because you aren't "that" interested.

[35th-ANV-SS]

I have no problem admitting I am "soft", but at the same damn time, I also have learned over the coarse of the last year with women that what I speak of above is "the truth". It's sad, but it's how relationships these days work.

Women want what they can't have and as soon as they know they can have you anytime they want you...guess what...they bail because the excitement of the chase and challenge is no longer there and they get bored.

[basballny2]

ya, im not her doormat even though thats what it seems but i think she pretty much understands she pulls this shit again and shes dunzo. she told me last night its all about the chase and i said to her, well now that the chase is over how do i keep u interested and she said tease me? grrrrr but anyway, she goes from last week telling me all that bs to last night telling me she wants me to go with her to her grandmas for some big family get-together they have every year and im the first guy shes ever brought.......but then tells me were not bf and gf.......do u see how im a little confused? haha

[67CamaroRSSS]

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[Blackbird WS6]

ya, im not her doormat even though thats what it seems but i think she pretty much understands she pulls this shit again and shes dunzo. she told me last night its all about the chase and i said to her, well now that the chase is over how do i keep u interested and she said tease me? grrrrr but anyway, she goes from last week telling me all that bs to last night telling me she wants me to go with her to her grandmas for some big family get-together they have every year and im the first guy shes ever brought.......but then tells me were not bf and gf.......do u see how im a little confused? haha

let me ask you something.... is she from NJ?? ,is so, dont touch it you have been warned

but it seems like alot of girls are pulling that stupid shit, i know offhand 3 other people are dealing with the same crap, what it comes down to is you take or leave it and deal with whatever happens

[Blackbird WS6]

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[basballny2]

na haha shes from long island.....i think shes just young and doing what most good looking young girls do.....and thats see as much as they can get until they grow up.....when i was 20 i was doing the same thing, i just wish she was a little more mature and realized what she has right now

[35th-ANV-SS]

The girl I had issues with was 28...it doesn't get much better with age boss.

[98Hardtop]

na haha shes from long island.....i think shes just young and doing what most good looking young girls do.....and thats see as much as they can get until they grow up.....when i was 20 i was doing the same thing, i just wish she was a little more mature and realized what she has right now

So you even admit you know what she is doing and still settle for it. Priceless

[basballny2]

im not settling for it. if she wants to see other people she can but i wont be around when she does. i think she was just confused and overwhelmed with everything going on. if we were dating as in bf/gf i wouldnt let this fly but were only "together" i guess you would say and agreed that were not guna see other people, so really what say in the matter do i have?

[cammed goat]

Couldn't be me. I was raised with the saying "all or nothing" when it came to relationships. Women live by that saying...so can men. I have been told that knowing what I want can be threatening/intimidating toward the opposite sex.

I say people need to grow the hell up.

[transamprincess98]

im not settling for it. if she wants to see other people she can but i wont be around when she does. i think she was just confused and overwhelmed with everything going on. if we were dating as in bf/gf i wouldnt let this fly but were only "together" i guess you would say and agreed that were not guna see other people, so really what say in the matter do i have?

What is the exact point of being "together" if you aren't really together?


From what I am reading from your posts you ARE a doormat to her. She is going to do whatever she wants, tell you something nice here and there, drag you along and you apparently are going to take it. You aren't proving otherwise. People like this whether they are male or female are gonna take you for whatever you can give them, boost their self esteem and leave you once the next bigger, better thing comes along.

You have made your mind up already so I don't quite understand why you came here for advice just to basically ignore it.

[tallnick]

She is young and immature.. She doesn't know what she wants and is most likely using you in some sort of pawn way by taking you to the family get together.

I still believe you need to kick her to the curb and have sex with one her best friends.. That will teach her to stop toying around with guys.

[suede]

Edit...play extremely hard to get until you have her emotionally attached to you...then change your demeanor.

confirmed... this is why the ex is still wanting back together after 6 months broke up...

Women want what they can't have and as soon as they know they can have you anytime they want you...guess what...they bail because the excitement of the chase and challenge is no longer there and they get bored.

thanks for the second on that one.... your pickin up what im putting down lol

ya, im not her doormat even though thats what it seems but i think she pretty much understands she pulls this shit again and shes dunzo. she told me last night its all about the chase and i said to her, well now that the chase is over how do i keep u interested and she said tease me? grrrrr but anyway, she goes from last week telling me all that bs to last night telling me she wants me to go with her to her grandmas for some big family get-together they have every year and im the first guy shes ever brought.......but then tells me were not bf and gf.......do u see how im a little confused? haha

it just makes me giggle knowing how dead on 35th and i are lol

She is young and immature.. She doesn't know what she wants and is most likely using you in some sort of pawn way by taking you to the family get together.

I still believe you need to kick her to the curb and have sex with one her best friends.. That will teach her to stop toying around with guys.

lol this always gets interesting.... the girl who lives below me and is my dd most days (has epilepsy and doesnt drink) and i have no intrest in whatsoever, but is still a good friend, she drives me to these chicks houses and what not and knows more of my secrets than most guys do but its all good, she just laughs and makes fun of how dumb they are and gives me shit about how i fuck one to meet her friends for the next one

[Blackbird WS6]

The girl I had issues with was 28...it doesn't get much better with age boss.

true dat....

[basballny2]

im not ignoring the advice, i just think maybe last week was a bad week and im hoping she realized it and it wont happen again. if i was on the other side of this id be saying the same things you guys are all saying right now but when your involved you think differently.

[Blackbird WS6]

im not ignoring the advice, i just think maybe last week was a bad week and im hoping she realized it and it wont happen again. if i was on the other side of this id be saying the same things you guys are all saying right now but when your involved you think differently.

the boobies make you think weird things lol

[CJREX]

ya, im not her doormat even though thats what it seems ...

The sex must be truly amazing to put up with all this BS she is slinging.

Dude, don't walk, RUN.

grrrrr but anyway, she goes from last week telling me all that bs to last night telling me she wants me to go with her to her grandmas for some big family get-together they have every year and im the first guy shes ever brought.......but then tells me were not bf and gf.......do u see how im a little confused? haha

You are being played like a Stradivarius solo.

You can see it, right?

You're right in that it may seem different when you are in it, but step back and look. You HAVE to be able to see it.

Trouble train is comin'. Don't be playin' on the tracks when it arrives.

[tallnick]

you are very young and naive if you don't run away from this situation and trust me there are always gonna be hotter better women out there..