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04-03-2011, 09:10 AM #1
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Dating chicks...... that have kids.......
Yeah so I met this new chick i've been out with a couple times with and I'm really liking her alot. After talking with her she tells me she has two kids.......I never have dated seriously that has had kids before. So this is kind of new to me, I still unsure how i feel about, but it's not really bothering me right now or anything.......so what's your take on dating chicks with kids?
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04-03-2011, 09:35 AM #2
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I met my wife when I was 23, she was 33, separated, and had 3 kids. It has worked out great for me. Biological father was an ass and oldest two kids had ill feeling for him. Youngest was too young to remember he was a dick. He lived a fair distance away and rarely came around to see his kids. That makes a relationship work soooo much better. He was in a car accident and died about 7 years after my wife and I met.
I'd take it slow and go in with an open mind. If her ex is heavily involved, that may cause issues. Don't try to do too much ..like replace their father. Just be a positive role model and a friend...good things could happen. My (step) kids refer to me as "dad"! Good luck!
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04-03-2011, 09:36 AM #3
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I did it once, it didn't work out.
Thie chick was awesome, I actually kinda miss her, but the kid thing threw a damper on it.
Of course I don't like kids in the first place, and have no desire to have any of my own. That pretty much doomed it from the start anyway.
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04-03-2011, 09:40 AM #4
I dated 2 girls that had kids back when I was single. 1 of them was really cool and probably would've went a lot further but just circumstances at the time didn't let that work out. The second one down talked her Ex all the time. There was not one time I was around her she didn't talk about her Ex....got old real quick. I never really spent much time with their kids just because I wanted to see how me/her worked out before getting the kids attached to me or something and then having to deal with that.
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04-03-2011, 09:59 AM #5
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thanks for the comments guys
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04-03-2011, 10:09 AM #6
I hope my ex-wife finds someone who makes her happy and thinks our 2 kids are just an added benefit, but doesn't try to replace me, as I am their FATHER.
hope that helps
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04-03-2011, 10:38 AM #7
I couldn't do it... I just wouldn't wanna deal with it. The kids from the same dad?
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04-03-2011, 10:43 AM #8
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04-03-2011, 11:44 AM #9
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As you get older and play in the dating field, you will find more and more chics with kids..
so you will have to learn how to handle it or forever be alone or date girls that are younger all the time.
I dated two chics both had one kid. I had no issue with it. I was 23 at the time and both of them early to mid 30s. Great sex and lots of fun...
REMEMBER CHICS WITH KIDS, PUT OUT!!!!
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04-03-2011, 12:25 PM #10
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04-03-2011, 01:16 PM #12
No pussy is worth the hassle of kids that aren't yours. Unless shes willing to keep you under the radar i'd walk away.
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04-03-2011, 01:24 PM #13
Some good solid advice and then some crap advice in this thread
Girl I'm dating right now has 1 son (9 years old) and I'm loving it. Her son and I get along great and he loves hanging out with me. Only problem I've had was when and how to discipline him if he is out of control (Which is very rare) Other then that, here are some pointers:
Get to know her first before the children are even brought into the mix
Don't try to replace their father (Fathers)
Don't be all "Balls to the Walls" when you meet them and expect them to take to you instantly
Slow and steady pretty much wins the race
Now if you don't want kids or hate them, get out now and save her the troubles. Also be sure to watch you're back and make sure she isn't trying to get a sugar daddy that will take care of her kids if their father is a dead beat
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04-03-2011, 01:35 PM #14
if you want some kids of your own i wouldnt get involved.........
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04-03-2011, 01:37 PM #15
This is good advice.
I've never dated a Woman with 2 kids, just 1. My GF said she is willing to have 2 more (Way down the line for me) which would allow me to have 2 kids of my blood. This chick may be done with the whole children thing. They may be from different fathers and she doesn't want the magic
3 kids = 3 different dads
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04-03-2011, 02:27 PM #16
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04-03-2011, 02:30 PM #17
Shhhhhhh, don't say that
People will start to see the "real" me around here and the mods will expect more from me
Back on topic, if you love kids and get along with them like I do......it shouldn't be a bad experience. Just remember the pointers that people gave you to watch out for
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04-03-2011, 02:38 PM #18
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04-03-2011, 02:41 PM #19
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04-03-2011, 02:43 PM #20
it really depends on the woman.... to me personally it's a red flag for any girl to bust her child on you on the first date.... Depending on how quickly she wants you to meet her kid is another big consideration. I could also be overlooking some great women who are just looking for a family life but I am not trying to walk into a instant daddy situation.
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