20 Years Old, Never had a Girlfriend. Loser?

**Hi-Po** · 04-07-2010, 07:15 AM

Stop trying to understand a females thought process. You are doomed from the beginning going at it from that angle.

Have you tried moving out of your mothers house? Maybe a cheap apartment or something? That will change the ballgame for sure.

Stop looking for love. Your 20 years old. I'm not saying go out and tag every whale and female linebacker out there, but the object is to get laid a few times. Relationships at a young age are too time consuming, you have the rest of your life to realize the majority are crazy. You'll break out of your shell sooner or later, but you really need to put yourself out there and at least fail a few times or you'll never succeed.

**knightryda01** · 04-07-2010, 07:19 AM

jump on the dating websites. Their are girls there with your same issues. date some fat ones for practice if you have too.

**Blackbird WS6** · 04-07-2010, 07:20 AM

Originally Posted by 0rion

dude...if you can answer that then you need to write a book. No one knows what they want.....not even them. They're crazy.

someone give this man a beer, he talks the truth

Originally Posted by Elimin8tor Z28

I am starting to think all girls are mean, lying, manipulative little monkey stump fucking whores.

I am tired of this shit.

If a girl came up to me, and was a little nervous or something I would still talk to her.

If you act a little nervous in front of a girl they wont go out with you. WTF is that shit?

Stupid bitches making me feel like shit.

Pretty soon I am going to give up.

lol you just wasted 3mins of your life writing that lol

one word.............BIPOLAR............is what they are lol

**Blackbird WS6** · 04-07-2010, 07:23 AM

oh yea lol BTW..........nice guys finish last NEVER forget that

**redbird555** · 04-07-2010, 07:26 AM

Women are completely crazy indecisive, mood swings, nagging are just a few of the qualities. If these qualities were found in a guy he'd be locked up in the wacky shack, dont put the pussy on a pedestal. When your single sometimes you want a gf when you do have one you usually wanna be single lol. Lets review the facts here....http://www.heaven.org.au/blogs/heret...s_are_evil.jpg

**SiggyZ** · 04-07-2010, 07:31 AM

That's a load of bullshit right there and I can personally back it up.

Originally Posted by Blackbird-WS6

oh yea lol BTW..........nice guys finish last NEVER forget that

**Blackbird WS6** · 04-07-2010, 07:32 AM

Originally Posted by SiggyZ

That's a load of bullshit right there and I can personally back it up.

haha im not the first one to say that in this thread BUT have fun lol

**walterchang** · 04-07-2010, 07:35 AM

You need to be able to pull the trigger! I have made the mistake several times with girls that were interested in me. I kinda didn't push the issue for a couple weeks then you become friends, that's it you are done. Girls want to be led, you need to show confidence. A couple chicks I railed in college just gave me a look, I knew right then that I would see them naked. Clubs blow to meet girls, college was like a never ending supply of poon.

**SiggyZ** · 04-07-2010, 07:36 AM

Then you and this other one in the thread suck at whatever you're doing.

Originally Posted by Blackbird-WS6

haha im not the first one to say that in this thread BUT have fun lol

**Blackbird WS6** · 04-07-2010, 07:39 AM

Originally Posted by SiggyZ

Then you and this other one in the thread suck at whatever you're doing.

ummm...couldnt be anymore wrong lol

but if it works for you, good luck.................

**SiggyZ** · 04-07-2010, 07:40 AM

I don't need any luck bud as it does work for me.

Originally Posted by Blackbird-WS6

ummm...couldnt be anymore wrong lol

but if it works for you, good luck.................

**LeadFarmer** · 04-07-2010, 07:41 AM

dude I'm on the same boat as you...minus the hurting myself and self esteem problems. I've basically just learned to accept myself for being the "nice guy" no matter how much I hit the gym or change try to change my personality..etc. Some of my friends are the exact opposite of me and get chicks left and right even though they're aren't nearly as athetic/intelligent/friendly/drive a sweet camaro

. and I've learned from them that if you want girls u just need to be a bit more dickish in general and stop being nice and just get out that and try your luck at every chance you get. Plus you don't need to go to clubs to pick up chicks. None of my friends go either yet they don't have problems finding girls. I've discovered the best way is to just get out more and get involved in things your friends participate in which involve exposure to people/girls. Plus my parents also try to keep me locked up to even though I'm 19, honestly imo they have no right to do that at our age so just use that excuse to justify sneaking out and doing shit randomly. Just don't worry about it, you've got plenty of time, just go enjoy the little things u do on a day to day basis and don't give a shit about anything else.

**Blackbird WS6** · 04-07-2010, 07:42 AM

Originally Posted by SiggyZ

I don't need any luck bud as it does work for me.

**SiggyZ** · 04-07-2010, 07:45 AM

I take that back. Many of you are still kids and girls at your age are generally attracted to self absorbed ass hats. At my ripe old age? Not so much.

**SiggyZ** · 04-07-2010, 07:47 AM

Nope, no dating here. Just the same woman who keeps coming back for more.

Originally Posted by Blackbird-WS6

**Blackbird WS6** · 04-07-2010, 07:49 AM

Originally Posted by SiggyZ

Nope, no dating here. Just the same woman who keeps coming back for more.

very nice, nothing wrong with that in my book

lol

**SiggyZ** · 04-07-2010, 07:49 AM

Damn straight!

Originally Posted by Blackbird-WS6

very nice, nothing wrong with that in my book

lol

**Blackbird WS6** · 04-07-2010, 07:55 AM

Originally Posted by SiggyZ

Damn straight!

the girl at the nextel dealer had nice eyes

**SiggyZ** · 04-07-2010, 08:05 AM

So does the 'woman' i spend nearly every night in the sack with. As well as many other quality assets.

Originally Posted by Blackbird-WS6

the girl at the nextel dealer had nice eyes

**KahanaReef** · 04-07-2010, 08:10 AM

Originally Posted by Elimin8tor Z28

I even have emotional problems from this.

I have an extremely bad temper. Because I feel worthless.

My Mom is making me see a Psychologist because I have hurt myself.

Here is a list of the stupid shit I have done because of my temper and being depressed.

Gave myself a concussion by banging my head against a steel door.

Punched out a windshield.

Punched a hole in almost every room of the house.

Completely ripped the bathroom door off of the hinges.

Punched out my bedroom window.

Dented my left quarter panel by punching it.

Cut my forearm with a steak knife and left a scar. Nice battle scar! LOL

Broke random things in the house.

I think that’s about it. LOL

I am 20 years old and stuck at home all of the time. The only thing I do is go to the gym. I never go out and have fun. That is why I am slightly crazy. LOL

I didn't even continue reading past this point.

3 words... Mom knows best

Get help sorting out your issues and the rest will fall into place.

Good luck.