So what are ladies responsible for in a dating....

[toi tyme]

i TRIED to drop the hint last night, went to the movies and she picked me up. As soon as i got in the car i was like oo i dont have any money on me so im guna need to stop at the ATM.......ok sure np what bank? I was like well that didnt work haha

hahanope that wont work....


Like If i date a guy and he lives like kinda far, I usually drive out to his place then we go on the date from there....

Like ive dated a lot of guys that lived 30 or a little more minutes away. I drive to him, then he takes me out.


Cuz in these days its ridic for him to dive 30 min to my place, then on the date, then back to my place then 30 min back to his..

As long as he asked me to tell him if I make it home ok, then ill keep driving to him.

[basballny2]

i always have her text me when she gets home, and i usually drive to her but she slept over the night before and i had to drive her home yesterday morning before my baseball games so i was beat played 5 hours of baseball yesterday so she drove. I can pay when we go out, movies, dinner etc. but if we go to a bar or club she expects me to buy her drinks.....even if im not drinking

[toi tyme]

Yeah honestly, when it comes to roles in a relationship,, they both just need to compromise.... the gal needs to listen, and be open to things that work with these times..

[silverWS6]

"Looks like I'm coming in the back door then!"

[rbob93]

Dropping hints doesn't work for anything.
You have to explain you like her very much & enjoy her company, but you're not able to pay for everything on your salary.
If she's worth a shit, she'll at least try to understand & kick in. Her reaction will let you know.

[knightryda01]

man you guys are f'n up bigtime... lol

I might be a librool, but I ain't sharing my wealth with no woman... lol

You messed up by giving her the option of taking you to an atm. I don't mind paying for a first date and if the woman offers I'd probally take her up on it. Put it this way... If a woman offers to pay, she's probally into you, or don't want to owe you anything... Both senerios are a win/win.

I refuse to buy women drinks at the bar unless they buy me one first. I met this one hot chick at the bar and I was going to have to make an exception to my rule when I did my patented got to much stuff in my pocket/ can't find the money hesitation move and she quickly pulls out the money and says I beat ya... So she pays for the first drinks. Any longer of a hesitation on my part would probally look awkward.

Or next time you go out, don't say anything about having no money. Offer to drive and place your wallet between your door and seat (like it fell out of your pocket) go out and eat a nice dinner. when the bill comes you must have lost your wallet.... If the chick trips out at this one time inconvience and does not offer to pay for the meal... You better run... and run fast.

If she has no means to pay for it, why are you wasting your time dating her?

To put an end to an evening and a relationship say I'm gonna go look in my car and she will politely wait there...... Peace out!!!!

[cammed goat]

I've hung out with women who offered to pay if I drove. But I still felt weird when they paid.

[rbob93]

man you guys are f'n up bigtime... lol

I might be a librool, but I ain't sharing my wealth with no woman... lol

You messed up by giving her the option of taking you to an atm. I don't mind paying for a first date and if the woman offers I'd probally take her up on it. Put it this way... If a woman offers to pay, she's probally into you, or don't want to owe you anything... Both senerios are a win/win.

I refuse to buy women drinks at the bar unless they buy me one first. I met this one hot chick at the bar and I was going to have to make an exception to my rule when I did my patented got to much stuff in my pocket/ can't find the money hesitation move and she quickly pulls out the money and says I beat ya... So she pays for the first drinks. Any longer of a hesitation on my part would probally look awkward.

Or next time you go out, don't say anything about having no money. Offer to drive and place your wallet between your door and seat (like it fell out of your pocket) go out and eat a nice dinner. when the bill comes you must have lost your wallet.... If the chick trips out at this one time inconvience and does not offer to pay for the meal... You better run... and run fast.

If she has no means to pay for it, why are you wasting your time dating her?

To put an end to an evening and a relationship say I'm gonna go look in my car and she will politely wait there...... Peace out!!!!

Waaaaaaaaay too complicated!

"We're going Dutch Treat."
Simple & effective.

[knightryda01]

Waaaaaaaaay too complicated

LoL... I get results though.


Honestly I think women respect you more if they know your no pushover. I tell my girl now that I have Power over the Puss-e. She knows it too. The guys who take women out and pay for everthing are always the ones who get dumped for the guys with more money and more treating power.

I seriously had some out of my league women shocked that they could not play me out like they would any random guy.

[TransAm11973]

Putting out?

Did you really have to ask that question?

this thread should have been closed after this comment was made....there is no better answer then that

[Mean Green Z28]

this thread should have been closed after this comment was made....there is no better answer then that

but this be the internext yo! we all have to give out opinions and tell our stories!!!

[SSjunior]

[Bowtie_girl30]

It's 50/50 in my book, first date with my boyfriend I paid for dinner he paid for the movie. When we go on vacation it is literally split down the middle. If we go out to dinner one night and he pays the next time we go out I pay. It's about respecting and taking care of each other and carrying your own weight in the relationship.

[SeVeReDiStOrTiOn]

It's 50/50 in my book, first date with my boyfriend I paid for dinner he paid for the movie. When we go on vacation it is literally split down the middle. If we go out to dinner one night and he pays the next time we go out I pay. It's about respecting and taking care of each other and carrying your own weight in the relationship.

exactly

[cammed goat]

It's 50/50 in my book, first date with my boyfriend I paid for dinner he paid for the movie. When we go on vacation it is literally split down the middle. If we go out to dinner one night and he pays the next time we go out I pay. It's about respecting and taking care of each other and carrying your own weight in the relationship.

[ls1camino]

this thread should have been closed after this comment was made....there is no better answer then that

[cammed goat]

^^BACK TO THE GARAGE WITH YA...GET THAT T/A FIXED DAMMIT!!

j/k

[basballny2]

problem in NY, especially on long island and on the north shore is ANY club/bar you go to theres always those guido faggs who have never worked a day in their life with a brand new M6 or 745i BMW mommy and daddy bought them parked outside with $100's falling outta there wallets. Girls on LI dont need a guy who cant buy em a drink. They just move on to the next, not their fault just the way the culture is here on long island. I hate it personally. I went to this club thursday night called body english, there were 18 year old grls falling all over 35+ year old guys who were buying them w.e they wanted. Its sad and disgusting at the same time.

[95camaroZNC]

how do you tell a girl to pay tho, ive been seeing this grl for 2 months now, she hasnt payed for a thing. Im not the type of guy who likes a grl to pay i kinda feel weird but she LOVES going out to clubs and bars all the time. Only working 2 days a week i cant afford that but for the last 2 months ive been paying for everything. How do you drop the hint like, oo hey wana chip in.

Hey i work 2 days a week and this is making things really tuff on me, we can split the bills or go out alot less

Honestly you dont want a woman like that, your money is not all shes going to take for granted.

[Y2KPewterSS]

I prefer being single, plan to stay single too. Quality of life has been much better