So what are ladies responsible for in a dating....

**95camaroZNC** · 07-05-2009, 11:54 PM

Originally Posted by korndawg

Lol, agreed!
Call me old fashioned, but when it comes to dating, I try to pay for the actual 'dating' such as dinners, movies, desserts, etc. My last ex, Erin, was always adament on paying, sometimes half of the bill, sometimes all of it. I actually let her do that a few times, but I was always wierded out by it. Looking back, I'm glad I let her pay, cuz now after she dumped me, I still have some money left in my account

This is just about the biggest reason ive not had a problem with it lately if she dumps you or vice versa you both take a hit instead of your wallet being super empty and hers being full. The last gf i had i payed for everything and even when i was broke she bitched and moaned when she wanted to go out and do something and she had to pay. That relationship ended because she was a cheater, and i bought the car.

**cuervo25_1** · 07-06-2009, 02:53 AM

Originally Posted by korndawg

Lol, agreed!
Call me old fashioned, but when it comes to dating, I try to pay for the actual 'dating' such as dinners, movies, desserts, etc. My last ex, Erin, was always adament on paying, sometimes half of the bill, sometimes all of it. I actually let her do that a few times, but I was always wierded out by it. Looking back, I'm glad I let her pay, cuz now after she dumped me, I still have some money left in my account

I hear ya man,I let a girl pay once. That made me feel so dang weird and useless I never let any girl do that again that I dated.......well until I got married. now it don't matter because her money is my money is our money and vice versa.

The only things I ever required a woman to do on a date is: let me know if she wanted to do something on our date,tell me I have something stuck in my teeth if she notices,and most importantly to calm the fuck down if i got too nervous. I had a big problem with the latter when I started dating. The woman I dated were all so pretty ,and soft, and lovable . just made me a nervous wreck. Then I met a damn good friend of mine and while we were never boyfriend/girlfriend she and I would go out alot, never even seen it as a date .seeing as she was in my book a friend (she is a total hottie as well) and that we was just "hanging out" she would pay sometimes, sometimes we split the cost and sometimes I would pay. she got me over the nervosness thing real quick.

**knightryda01** · 07-06-2009, 06:40 AM

I let em know they need to bring alot to the table. What guys need to do is enforce the equal policy early in the relationship... That way she can't say you changed and your just being a cheap bastard.

**third_shift|studios** · 07-06-2009, 06:48 AM

Originally Posted by cammed goat

My folks are old school. 50/50 to this very day. Should always be that way.

50/50 is hardly oldschool. old school would be like dad 90, mom stays at home and makes babies/food.

**SSwt00SS** · 07-06-2009, 06:58 AM

100% faithful, married or not is a good starting point...

If youre gonna cheat, at least respect the person you're with by ending it with them first...

Ive always believed in these 3 things: Belief, Suppport, Encouragement. In a relationship, you need to believe in each other (and the relationship), support each other (for goals, personal interests, personal development), and encourage each other because life at times is over whelming and hard...

time will answer the questions that are unknown...

**Mean Green Z28** · 07-06-2009, 07:01 AM

Originally Posted by SSwt00SS

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If youre gonna cheat, at least respect the person you're with by ending it with them first...

Well, then it's not cheating

**SSwt00SS** · 07-06-2009, 07:02 AM

Originally Posted by That Guy 2-1

Well, then it's not cheating

i know that...

thats the point, theres nothing to gain by doing it, cause you gonna get caught. i mean if you were to choose to cheat, would you really want to have to look over your shoulder everyday to make sure that you covered your tracks so you wouldnt get caught, called out, or found out by the person you are with? what if people you know, knew you cheated, then what? whats keeps them from 'spilling the beans'?

**cammed goat** · 07-06-2009, 07:02 AM

Originally Posted by SSwt00SS

100% faithful, married or not is a good starting point...

If youre gonna cheat, at least respect the person you're with by ending it with them first...

Ive always believed in these 3 things: Belief, Suppport, Encouragement. In a relationship, you need to believe in each other (and the relationship), support each other (for goals, personal interests, personal development), and encourage each other because life at times is over whelming and hard...

time will answer the questions that are unknown...

**anniversary30** · 07-06-2009, 07:51 AM

I don't mind paying but she has to make an effort to pay for something here and there. I don't have a money tree in the back yard!!!!

**rbob93** · 07-06-2009, 08:11 AM

As long the lady brings the pussy I'm good to go

**ls1camino** · 07-06-2009, 08:55 AM

Originally Posted by rbob93

As long the lady brings the pussy I'm good to go

"Oops, I think I forgot it at home, I'm sorry."

**JHayesLS1** · 07-06-2009, 09:06 AM

Originally Posted by ls1camino

"Oops, I think I forgot it at home, I'm sorry."

"Looks like I'm coming in the back door then!"

**basballny2** · 07-06-2009, 09:15 AM

how do you tell a girl to pay tho, ive been seeing this grl for 2 months now, she hasnt payed for a thing. Im not the type of guy who likes a grl to pay i kinda feel weird but she LOVES going out to clubs and bars all the time. Only working 2 days a week i cant afford that but for the last 2 months ive been paying for everything. How do you drop the hint like, oo hey wana chip in.

**cammed goat** · 07-06-2009, 09:17 AM

Originally Posted by basballny2

how do you tell a girl to pay tho, ive been seeing this grl for 2 months now, she hasnt payed for a thing. Im not the type of guy who likes a grl to pay i kinda feel weird but she LOVES going out to clubs and bars all the time. Only working 2 days a week i cant afford that but for the last 2 months ive been paying for everything. How do you drop the hint like, oo hey wana chip in.

Ya tell her outright. You prob already gave her the impression you are her "sugar daddy".

**Spaz** · 07-06-2009, 09:20 AM

Originally Posted by basballny2

how do you tell a girl to pay tho, ive been seeing this grl for 2 months now, she hasnt payed for a thing. Im not the type of guy who likes a grl to pay i kinda feel weird but she LOVES going out to clubs and bars all the time. Only working 2 days a week i cant afford that but for the last 2 months ive been paying for everything. How do you drop the hint like, oo hey wana chip in.

"oh shit... forgot my wallet... are you good with dishes???"

**anniversary30** · 07-06-2009, 09:35 AM

Don't hide it, just tell her either clubbing slows down or she starts picking up the tab a bit. Dude, you aren't made of money so if she can't handle it she isn't worth the time. She will either go with it or she will move on. If she jumps ship then she isn't worth the time.

**cammed goat** · 07-06-2009, 09:37 AM

Originally Posted by anniversary30

Don't hide it, just tell her either clubbing slows down or she starts picking up the tab a bit. Dude, you aren't made of money so if she can't handle it she isn't worth the time. She will either go with it or she will move on. If she jumps ship then she isn't worth the time.

Well said.

Going out every nite gets old REAL quick.

**SiggyZ** · 07-06-2009, 09:39 AM

I prefer to snuggle and.....

**basballny2** · 07-06-2009, 09:57 AM

i TRIED to drop the hint last night, went to the movies and she picked me up. As soon as i got in the car i was like oo i dont have any money on me so im guna need to stop at the ATM.......ok sure np what bank? I was like well that didnt work haha

**cammed goat** · 07-06-2009, 09:59 AM

Originally Posted by basballny2

i TRIED to drop the hint last night, went to the movies and she picked me up. As soon as i got in the car i was like oo i dont have any money on me so im guna need to stop at the ATM.......ok sure np what bank? I was like well that didnt work haha

Yup. Yer her "sugar daddy". Won't end well.