Just caufght my girlfriend cheating on me

**SteelCityTA** · 04-27-2009, 09:32 AM

Talk about a flashback...bro my heart goes out to you man...The part where you say you'll take her back until you get bored is a mistake man and it is also a sign of dependency on her...dude I dont care what anyone says...that is a mistake becasue you will just continue to remain a a dysfunctional relationshi w her, and the trust that is gone will bring up so many fights that its not worth the time and effort...it will never work with her...every guy will say yea I am gonna stay w her to use her as a piece of ass, and it is rarely the truth. I am just being real...time heals all wounds dude...best thing to do is get with some good buddies, go out, pimp that muther f'n car and act like and asshole(girls love it)

**310stanger** · 04-27-2009, 09:41 AM

Originally Posted by SteelCityTA

Talk about a flashback...bro my heart goes out to you man...The part where you say you'll take her back until you get bored is a mistake man and it is also a sign of dependency on her...dude I dont care what anyone says...that is a mistake becasue you will just continue to remain a a dysfunctional relationshi w her, and the trust that is gone will bring up so many fights that its not worth the time and effort...it will never work with her...every guy will say yea I am gonna stay w her to use her as a piece of ass, and it is rarely the truth. I am just being real...time heals all wounds dude...best thing to do is get with some good buddies, go out, pimp that muther f'n car and act like and asshole(girls love it)

That part about thinking you are gonna just use the girl as a piece of ass is a good point. Ya might hit it again, but its also highly likely she aint gonna be giving it up at all to ya, specially if shes trying to go with the other dude. Oh you end doing is dealing with bullshit. You might get to take her out to dinner, she'll get free grub and then go off and fuck the other guy all night.

**SteelCityTA** · 04-27-2009, 09:45 AM

Originally Posted by 310stanger

That part about thinking you are gonna just use the girl as a piece of ass is a good point. Ya might hit it again, but its also highly likely she aint gonna be giving it up at all to ya, specially if shes trying to go with the other dude. Oh you end doing is dealing with bullshit. You might get to take her out to dinner, she'll get free grub and then go off and fuck the other guy all night.

The only thing that I would do in revenge is get back w her just to bang her one time...hit it from the rear and when she isnt expecting it throw it in her a$$ , cum on her face and tell her to roll out...or and awesome thing to do is offer to drive her home and just drop her of somewhere random like a crazy ass biker bar or strip club lol! Stip Club would work you can tell her she'll fit right in HAHA

**86 IROC-Z** · 04-27-2009, 10:49 AM

Originally Posted by SteelCityTA

pimp that muther f'n car

**waldo** · 04-27-2009, 12:53 PM

Sucks, don’t dwell on it, just move on with your life and don’t look back……ever. Once trust is gone there can be no healthy relationship!

**SteelCityTA** · 04-27-2009, 01:06 PM

Originally Posted by waldo

Sucks, don’t dwell on it, just move on with your life and don’t look back……ever. Once trust is gone there can be no healthy relationship!

Its the truth, IROC take it from some peeps that already have been there done that, happened to me around ur age...You learn alot from that shit and some shit about yourself...It wont work because it will be driving u crazy... she will wanna go out one night and you will be all sorts crazy...you will never be happy that way.Move on...learn from it and go get some strange bro!!!!!

**gwballin** · 04-27-2009, 01:20 PM

Last time a girl cheated on me I spent a few days listening to "I Could" by ICP and all was well

I could buy you a Lexus Truck, with a white leather interior, I could
I could kill off some bears and dogs and shit, just to make you a fur coat.
I could love you and treat you with class, and have babies fallin all out your ass,
but thinkin about that, i feel i'd rather kill you,
cause i got you in my car and you ain't goin nowhere bitch you dead.

(Chorus) x2

I'd rather cut that neck in half,
I'd rather choke out that bitch ass
I'd rather chop and never stop;
BECAUSE YOU FUCKED MY HOMIE!

**SteelCityTA** · 04-27-2009, 01:26 PM

Originally Posted by gwballin

Last time a girl cheated on me I spent a few days listening to "I Could" by ICP and all was well

**Tonik** · 04-27-2009, 01:57 PM

I can't say I've ever been cheated on (as far as I know) but if I were in your situation I'd say you handled the night correctly.

Give it a week, if you're still upset about it, revenge. It's gotta be good though, embarrassment is always a plus... give it some thought. Fucking up her new boyfriend/car/house works... but there are repercussions... try posting nudes.

**86 IROC-Z** · 04-27-2009, 02:35 PM

Just throwing this tid bit out there... He's not her 'new' boyfriend. I'm better than him in every way, and shes desperately trying to get back with me.

**Sarge** · 04-27-2009, 02:41 PM

Do what you want man. But always keep in mind we (guys) fuck up ALOT>

**Tonik** · 04-27-2009, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by 86 IROC-Z

Just throwing this tid bit out there... He's not her 'new' boyfriend. I'm better than him in every way, and shes desperately trying to get back with me.

In that case, you know what to do.

Originally Posted by 310stanger

Pretend you made up with her right like you are some sap, and get her to give you make up sex. You fuck her brains out and then cum all over her face and tell her that shes a whore and thats all shes good for. Then walk out. In a short time she'll be on an internet messageboard hating men blackbeauty style

**cammed goat** · 04-27-2009, 02:59 PM

Now I know why my parents said "WE TAUGHT YOU BETTER THAN THAT!!!" when they scolded me when I was younger. Words still ring in my head when I step foot out my door.

**anniversary30** · 04-27-2009, 03:14 PM

You'll see it as you get older, Be the bigger man and move on. You'll find much better things to do and another will come along. Once you have let her go you might even feel like a weight has been lifted. If she cheated , it couldn't have been going that great in the first place. Not saying you did something wrong but, something was missing for her to do it. Move on, don't look back. Take a break for yourself , enjoy that car and time just hangin with your friends. Your a young man enjoy your life and don't start making stupid mistakes.

**iam_dale** · 04-27-2009, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by Sarge

Do what you want man. But always keep in mind we (guys) fuck up ALOT>

LOL...ain't that the truth. There's a lot of advice out there...but I bet there's more than one guy that's replied on here who's cheated, too! don't make it right, but it happens.

dale

**Sarge** · 04-27-2009, 03:42 PM

Originally Posted by cammed goat

Now I know why my parents said "WE TAUGHT YOU BETTER THAN THAT!!!" when they scolded me when I was younger. Words still ring in my head when I step foot out my door.

Yeah....your parents screamed at me too! WTF was that all about man?

**cammed goat** · 04-27-2009, 03:50 PM

Originally Posted by Sarge

Yeah....your parents screamed at me too! WTF was that all about man?

Anyone here listen to Eric Clapton? "Dont want no allllll-uuuuuuh-biiies...."

**ztrouble** · 04-27-2009, 03:58 PM

Originally Posted by Sarge

Yeah....your parents screamed at me too! WTF was that all about man?

you arent supposed to be there when his dad is home

**Spikito** · 04-27-2009, 04:08 PM

Originally Posted by Sarge

Do what you want man. But always keep in mind we (guys) fuck up ALOT>

sarge does have a point...I cant remember everything that went on...if shes been fucking him awhile, id say drop her ass, if it was drunken making out, and he was on top. Id give it some consideration...Remember, you were the pants now.