question for everyone money or love?

[Spaz]

i want a divorce!!! you're not the Spaz i fell in love with...

EAT MY SHIT!!!

[ls1blackbeauty98]

Or on one of her dad's ties.



What happened to women wanting men that worked hard and were good to their famillies but didn't have alot of cash. I don't mean you but alot of women will dump a "good" guy for one that can buy her some nice shit. My wife and I have been together since we were 17/19. She always believed in me and saw me for the man I was trying to be. We worked hard in our careers and our relationship and today, we have alot of nice stuff and 2 great kids. We started with nothing and at the bottom of our career fields. The decent guys often get overlooked.
A female friend of mine said "Ambition is sexy" so I guess you have a point there.

Amibition is a very attractive quality, i had to break up with a guy because i asked him what he wanted to do with his life, and he said "win the lottery" and he was dead ass serious. I cant take that, i go to work everyday planning on going back to college, to be able to teach someday.. and make good money. i want someone who is looking to better themselves, on thier own and not by someone else's money. I dont look at money at all when dating a guy, if hes not making alot it doesnt bother me, but if hes ok with the minimum pay.. and isnt willing to work for something..thats a huge problem. Im going to find success with or without a man, so money isnt an issue when im dating someone.

[Spaz]

Amibition is a very attractive quality, i had to break up with a guy because i asked him what he wanted to do with his life, and he said "win the lottery" and he was dead ass serious. I cant take that, i go to work everyday planning on going back to college, to be able to teach someday.. and make good money. i want someone who is looking to better themselves, on thier own and not by someone else's money. I dont look at money at all when dating a guy, if hes not making alot it doesnt bother me, but if hes ok with the minimum pay.. and isnt willing to work for something..thats a huge problem. Im going to find success with or without a man, so money isnt an issue when im dating someone.

i'd rather win the lotto and never have to work again...

[Silver Streak]

i'd rather win the lotto and never have to work again...

Even if I won the lottery and would be set for life.. I'd still have to work.. I would go nuts not having something to do... to keep being challenged...

[Crimson Sin]

This is the reason guys hate women. We are either lazy bastards who don't deserve them or if we do work hard and try to make life better we aren't spending enough time with them and don't care about their needs.

I hate women.

Erm, did I miss something. This thread was started by a guy asking if he should stay with a chick to milk her dry. And by reading what I did of it, seems more then enough guys were willing to lie in wait to bleed her penniless without even having met or knowing a thing about her. Guess I just don't get what you mean. This is why Guy's hate women ? Not that I give a rat's ass what happens in the end. A Fool and their money are soon separated. Look at whatthefuckwashisname MC Hammer. F00L+Lots of Cash = Bankrupt Idiot. If you can live with yourself bleeding someone that trusts you dry, that's your call. If the chick trusts you enough to let you, well, that's a lesson she needed to learn anyway. Same goes for the guys that work their asses off and let the woman clean them out in divorce. All proves that Money did not really bring happiness. I was raised dirt poor. Hand me downs. First set of Levi's and Nikes I bought myself when I was 15. I can tell you that Lack of Cash sure as shit don't bring HAPPINESS either. Money brings power and comfort. Happiness comes from within.. period. My wife and I take down near 150k a year. More money means more crap, I don't love her more cause she makes 90k a year. I loved her to tears when she was poor as hell in college on a scholarship. Sometimes, heh, not very often tho, I miss the poor kids eating ramen and watching the small ass TV on a milk crate.
Good F-ing times those were. Can't say I am significantly happier on my king sized Sleep Number bed watching my 52" Plasma. More comfortable, sure.. Happier ? Don't think so.

[Spaz]

Even if I won the lottery and would be set for life.. I'd still have to work.. I would go nuts not having something to do... to keep being challenged...

i wouldn't... i'd simply take up hobbies that challenge me...

[Silver Streak]

i wouldn't... i'd simply take up hobbies that challenge me...

I need interaction with people... I need to get out and do things with others... hobbies generally you are alone most of the time.. I can't do that...

[Spaz]

I need interaction with people... I need to get out and do things with others... hobbies generally you are alone most of the time.. I can't do that...

interaction at that point is only what you make of it... you can choose to go out and meet people how ever you wish...

[Silver Streak]

interaction at that point is only what you make of it... you can choose to go out and meet people how ever you wish...

Good point.

[ls1blackbeauty98]

Erm, did I miss something. This thread was started by a guy asking if he should stay with a chick to milk her dry. And by reading what I did of it, seems more then enough guys were willing to lie in wait to bleed her penniless without even having met or knowing a thing about her. Guess I just don't get what you mean. This is why Guy's hate women ? Not that I give a rat's ass what happens in the end. A Fool and their money are soon separated. Look at whatthefuckwashisname MC Hammer. F00L+Lots of Cash = Bankrupt Idiot. If you can live with yourself bleeding someone that trusts you dry, that's your call. If the chick trusts you enough to let you, well, that's a lesson she needed to learn anyway. Same goes for the guys that work their asses off and let the woman clean them out in divorce. All proves that Money did not really bring happiness. I was raised dirt poor. Hand me downs. First set of Levi's and Nikes I bought myself when I was 15. I can tell you that Lack of Cash sure as shit don't bring HAPPINESS either. Money brings power and comfort. Happiness comes from within.. period. My wife and I take down near 150k a year. More money means more crap, I don't love her more cause she makes 90k a year. I loved her to tears when she was poor as hell in college on a scholarship. Sometimes, heh, not very often tho, I miss the poor kids eating ramen and watching the small ass TV on a milk crate.
Good F-ing times those were. Can't say I am significantly happier on my king sized Sleep Number bed watching my 52" Plasma. More comfortable, sure.. Happier ? Don't think so.

thats the only clapping smilie i could find.
i completely agree

[ibanez7]

money can buy happiness with financial security.. however money also causes fights and breaks ups

if you two already have BS problems, those problems will continue no matter how much money is involved. take your loss and move on. or if you feel you are getting along better and it will stay better then stay with her. Just dont put to much into "her potential/ relationship potential" and dont put alot into being optimistic that it will get better.

Once the problems are seeded they are there to stay, why avoid the invetible.

I've been in relationships with the thought of "it will get better and it didnt"

my current gf, Ive been with for four years and not one fight... fucking awesome.

[Crimson Sin]

money can buy happiness with financial security.. however money also causes fights and breaks ups

if you two already have BS problems, those problems will continue no matter how much money is involved. take your loss and move on. or if you feel you are getting along better and it will stay better then stay with her. Just dont put to much into "her potential/ relationship potential" and dont put alot into being optimistic that it will get better.

Once the problems are seeded they are there to stay, why avoid the invetible.

I've been in relationships with the thought of "it will get better and it didnt"

my current gf, Ive been with for four years and not one fight... fucking awesome.

Grats man, that's awesome.
I read somewhere once, Men enter a relationship hoping the woman won't change. She will.
Women enter a relationship hoping the man will change. He won't.
Dunno how true that is. Seems about right tho.

[DrMilhouse]

Erm, did I miss something. This thread was started by a guy asking if he should stay with a chick to milk her dry. And by reading what I did of it, seems more then enough guys were willing to lie in wait to bleed her penniless without even having met or knowing a thing about her. Guess I just don't get what you mean. This is why Guy's hate women ? Not that I give a rat's ass what happens in the end. A Fool and their money are soon separated. Look at whatthefuckwashisname MC Hammer. F00L+Lots of Cash = Bankrupt Idiot. If you can live with yourself bleeding someone that trusts you dry, that's your call. If the chick trusts you enough to let you, well, that's a lesson she needed to learn anyway. Same goes for the guys that work their asses off and let the woman clean them out in divorce. All proves that Money did not really bring happiness. I was raised dirt poor. Hand me downs. First set of Levi's and Nikes I bought myself when I was 15. I can tell you that Lack of Cash sure as shit don't bring HAPPINESS either. Money brings power and comfort. Happiness comes from within.. period. My wife and I take down near 150k a year. More money means more crap, I don't love her more cause she makes 90k a year. I loved her to tears when she was poor as hell in college on a scholarship. Sometimes, heh, not very often tho, I miss the poor kids eating ramen and watching the small ass TV on a milk crate.
Good F-ing times those were. Can't say I am significantly happier on my king sized Sleep Number bed watching my 52" Plasma. More comfortable, sure.. Happier ? Don't think so.

[Spaz]

Grats man, that's awesome.
I read somewhere once, Men enter a relationship hoping the woman won't change. She will.
Women enter a relationship hoping the man will change. He won't.
Dunno how true that is. Seems about right tho.

bingo!!!!

[B34M3R]

Grats man, that's awesome.
I read somewhere once, Men enter a relationship hoping the woman won't change. She will.
Women enter a relationship hoping the man will change. He won't.
Dunno how true that is. Seems about right tho.

The wisdom of this statement is epic.

[ls1blackbeauty98]

Grats man, that's awesome.
I read somewhere once, Men enter a relationship hoping the woman won't change. She will.
Women enter a relationship hoping the man will change. He won't.
Dunno how true that is. Seems about right tho.

id have to agree..

[Hi-Po]

Grats man, that's awesome.
I read somewhere once, Men enter a relationship hoping the woman won't change. She will.
Women enter a relationship hoping the man will change. He won't.
Dunno how true that is. Seems about right tho.

Thats perfect.

[Zboner]

I guess I gave the wrong title to the thread, I deffinately like the chick a lot and the reason were having problems is because she is going through a really tough time. And it was just starting to eat at me a ton. this is just more like a bonus, I would never enter into a relationship with someone that I dont think is an asset to me. And this just reassures me that she is an Asset and not a lilbility to me.

[SeVeReDiStOrTiOn]

What's up with her dad trying to sue you over your b-day drinks? The guy sounds like a douche..

[Zboner]

What's up with her dad trying to sue you over your b-day drinks? The guy sounds like a douche..

yea he is kinda weird about shit, anyways about that money situation she came over yesterday and gave me money to give him so its all good.