Girl situations..

**manxk** · 01-12-2007, 07:09 PM

Have to ask this before i go out..

There's this girl who i've been 'with' for the past 2 months. When i say 'with' i mean have been sleeping together like 4 times a week, buying shit for each other, and basically just have a weird relationship going on. We've been friends for a WHILE now, we just recently started the sex thing. So she says she wants to keep it casual and leave it at that. This is all cool for me, but seeing her with another guy will fuck me up in the head a little bit.

So for the past 2 weeks she's been seeing this other guy, i dont even know if they've slept together yet. Reason i dont know is because i was with her 2 days ago and she didnt mention anything.

Problem is, i have to see her tonight with this other guy. I have a few options here.

A) walk in there as the alpha male with pure confidence and kinda show this guy up.
B) go in there, accept the fact she's with this guy, be nice.. and leave it at that.
C) just avoid the whole situation all together.

I'm leaning towards A. I dont know though. Dont want to make an ass out of myself and/or ruin a good thing.

**ZAPFOOL!!** · 01-12-2007, 07:12 PM

Originally Posted by manxk

Have to ask this before i go out..

There's this girl who i've been 'with' for the past 2 months. When i say 'with' i mean have been sleeping together like 4 times a week, buying shit for each other, and basically just have a weird relationship going on. We've been friends for a WHILE now, we just recently started the sex thing. So she says she wants to keep it causual and leave it at that. This is all cool for me, but seeing her with another guy i think will fuck me up in the head a little bit.

So for the past 2 weeks she's been seeing this other guy, i dont even know if they've slept together yet. Reason i dont know is because i was with her 2 days ago and she didnt mention anything.

Problem is, i have to see her tonight with this other guy. I have a few options here.

A) walk in there as the alpha male with pure confidence and kinda show this guy up.
B) go in there, accept the fact she's with this guy, be nice.. and leave it at that.
C) just avoid the whole situation all together.

I'm leaning towards A. I dont know though. Dont want to make an ass out of myself and/or ruin a good thing.

If she is worth it A)..or go in there and act like you dont give a fuck..could work too

**ssgtcarroll** · 01-12-2007, 07:20 PM

Walk in with another girl.

Id be pissed.

**Hi-Po** · 01-12-2007, 07:20 PM

Originally Posted by ZAPFOOL!!

If she is worth it A)..or go in there and act like you dont give a fuck..could work too

sometimes that does work.

**Hi-Po** · 01-12-2007, 07:21 PM

oh yea for sure.... she is a complete hoe... sorry man. Just keep it like it is and dont give to shits and beat it up. This doesnt sound like a girl you wanna have any kind of serious relationship with.

**Speedy_Gonzales** · 01-12-2007, 07:23 PM

d. all of the above

**ZAPFOOL!!** · 01-12-2007, 07:25 PM

if she is a hoe, which it sounds like she is, act like u dont give a shit and you will hit it every time

**Y2KPewterSS** · 01-12-2007, 07:32 PM

How many other hot available women are out there? Find another girl man, she isnt worth it.

**Speedy_Gonzales** · 01-12-2007, 07:39 PM

Originally Posted by KageSS

College Station

Dude, you're like one-hour drive from here.

u go hit it 2

**Hi-Po** · 01-12-2007, 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by KageSS

Trust, if i could i would.

lol

haha.... your married. Thats the only tang your gonna see. shes hot thou so its ok.

lol

**Speedy_Gonzales** · 01-12-2007, 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by KageSS

Trust, if i could i would.

lol

go hit it and run like u stole it

**keliente** · 01-12-2007, 08:06 PM

d) Walk in and smirk because you are already tapping that ass and he is going to get your sloppy seconds

(then get tested for STDs)

**third_shift|studios** · 01-12-2007, 08:33 PM

d,2) say to new guy "hey man, is she good in bed? how do you think she got that way?!

honestly; the less attention you give her, the more she'll want you. act like a dick. don't go anywhere when she's with guy#2 and next time she asks you on a 1 on 1 date, be like "i'm busy"

**third_shift|studios** · 01-12-2007, 08:41 PM

no no no...he has to go the Andrew Dice Clay route that i wrote!

actually, he needs to post up, b/c it's 2 hours since he posted it and i'm guessing he chose the 5th wheel

**Speedy_Gonzales** · 01-12-2007, 09:00 PM

Originally Posted by KageSS

Or you can ask the guy she's with, hey man what does my cawk taste like?!!!!!

+1

**manxk** · 01-13-2007, 01:25 PM

can someone merge these two threads?

To this i'll reply:

I was very distant last night. Didnt really talk to her at all. For some reason she asked me for two beers (her and the guy) - i just kinda laughed and walked away. The girl i brought though (just a friend- damn fine) knew the situation and was being a bit more friendly to me (around other girl) than usual. I think that worked out a bit.

like i said in the other thread though, i'm still kinda drunk from last night. I'll post more when i sober up.

**AKIRA** · 01-13-2007, 01:48 PM

Originally Posted by manxk

can someone merge these two threads?

To this i'll reply:

I was very distant last night. Didnt really talk to her at all. For some reason she asked me for two beers (her and the guy) - i just kinda laughed and walked away. The girl i brought though (just a friend- damn fine) knew the situation and was being a bit more friendly to me (around other girl) than usual. I think that worked out a bit.

like i said in the other thread though, i'm still kinda drunk from last night. I'll post more when i sober up.

Another thread? Huh?

So you showed up with another girl and she asked YOU to get her two beers? Unless you were bartending, then obviously you got to her and won this battle.

But the girl is a whore. If you can fuck her while shes with him (and not care about it), then go ahead, but I hope youre not passing other pussy up in the mean time.

**manxk** · 01-13-2007, 01:53 PM

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Another thread? Huh?

So you showed up with another girl and she asked YOU to get her two beers? Unless you were bartending, then obviously you got to her and won this battle.

But the girl is a whore. If you can fuck her while shes with him (and not care about it), then go ahead, but I hope youre not passing other pussy up in the mean time.

i'm not passing any pussy up. I cant really do anything with the girl i was with last night because one of my best friends is still in love with her. If it wasnt for that i'd be all over it, and i'm not lying when i say she easily ranks a 8-9/10.

I actually had a one night stand thing about a week ago. I wanted so bad to tell the girl about it but all of my friends said it would be a bad idea. I'm sure i'll end up getting drunk and talking about it, but until then i'll just keep my mouth shut.

**AKIRA** · 01-13-2007, 02:01 PM

Originally Posted by manxk

i'm not passing any pussy up. I cant really do anything with the girl i was with last night because one of my best friends is still in love with her. If it wasnt for that i'd be all over it, and i'm not lying when i say she easily ranks a 8-9/10.

I actually had a one night stand thing about a week ago. I wanted so bad to tell the girl about it but all of my friends said it would be a bad idea. I'm sure i'll end up getting drunk and talking about it, but until then i'll just keep my mouth shut.

Eh, your friend is in love with her? Tell him to get her back or get over it. Sounds cruel, but its time to grow up and leave that pride filled shit aside. If his ex wants you...and you dont have to work for it, take it. She might be a better girl to you over your fuck buddy and a better girlfriend than she was to your friend.

Oh, and about that one night stand. Get another one if you can, eventually shell just find out. And if she has ANYTHING to say about it...well you better know how to respond.

Also, even though its passed now, I wouldnt had gone to this same place with another girl. Looks planned and fake, not to mention, even though its a "game," you are still playing and youd be thinking about her, instead of having a good time. Now if she sees you out with someone else when she never had a clue youd be there with another girl, then it looks unplanned and "caught."

**manxk** · 01-13-2007, 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Eh, your friend is in love with her? Tell him to get her back or get over it. Sounds cruel, but its time to grow up and leave that pride filled shit aside. If his ex wants you...and you dont have to work for it, take it. She might be a better girl to you over your fuck buddy and a better girlfriend than she was to your friend.

Oh, and about that one night stand. Get another one if you can, eventually shell just find out. And if she has ANYTHING to say about it...well you better know how to respond.

Also, even though its passed now, I wouldnt had gone to this same place with another girl. Looks planned and fake, not to mention, even though its a "game," you are still playing and youd be thinking about her, instead of having a good time. Now if she sees you out with someone else when she never had a clue youd be there with another girl, then it looks unplanned and "caught."

hah, sounds good. With the thing last night it was a mutual friends birthday party. He had been telling me about it for weeks so i couldnt just not show up. I had planned on only staying for around 30 minutes, then they had to bring out the keg and free liquor. I got way too drunk.

But yeah, the 'game' thing sounds about right. I was making damn sure not to show up by myself. I had told the girl i brought about the situation and i could tell she was trying to help out. Pretty much stayed by my side the whole night.

and about this one girl. yeah, she's DAMN fine, she's smart and all that.. but if my friend found out anything was going on he'd probably kill me. He's been trying to get back with her for years now. When he comes to town he does nothing but talk about her, call her, buy her things, etc. It's gone way beyond a crush.