Girls are SOOOOOOOOOOO dumb!!!!

[LgndKller20073]

Just need to kinda rant right now.

Girls are soooo stupid and irritating. But I guess I should start from the beginning.

I've known this girl since like August 2008. We hit it off pretty well, but I was really into somebody else at the time so it kinda passed. Come about November/December 2008, the other person was pretty much gone and I was tapping it on a regular basis. We never ended up going steady or serious. This was my decision because I was going through a pretty serious depression at the time and really didn't want her to be dragged into it. We lost touch for awhile and come about March 2009 she had a boyfriend. Whatever, we went our separate ways. Her and her bf broke up like December 2009 and we started talking again in January. Nothing serious or big like that. She kept saying during that time she "didn't want anything more than friends". As it turns out she was/is into this guy who lives in Cali and was going to see him during valentines day. I didn't really care since we weren't going steady and I was seeing other people too. She gets back from Cali and is pretty irritated with how things have gone with him(like she basically put herself out there and got rejected).

Come around March we were starting to get serious and I was tapping it on a regular basis again. Then I leave for Vegas for a week on good terms with her, she leaves the day I get back to go visit her brother in North Dakota for a week. She gets back and suddenly everything has changed again and she doesn't want to be more than friends. We still hung out and stuff like that but really nothing more. Now come around a week ago, we were back to our usual and I was tapping it again and we were going out on dates and basically kinda being a couple, but nothing "legitimate". All of a sudden after Thursday she basically just stops talking to me. As it turns out she booked a trip to go see that guy in Cali again. Freaking irritating!!!! This guy must just have her wrapped around his finger and there's nothing I can do about it. It's been pretty frustrating for me, but whatever. I actually started to like her, but in the end fuck it. I guess our relationship won't ever be anything more than physical. I know a lot of you would say that's the best kind of relationship, but I actually don't just want physical relationships anymore. I actually want a girlfriend. I've almost had enough of the physical relationships for now.

//rant

[cammed goat]

After reading this, I am glad I have been rejected in the past. Don't want nor need anyone else's B.S. in my life.

[SeVeReDiStOrTiOn]

pics

[Packy]

pics

Right on point with good stuff!

[Y2KPewterSS]

Crap exactly like this is why I have zero motivation these days to get involved with a chick. Their drama just wears you out mentally/emotionally.

I would definitely sever all ties/communication with this chick, she will never amount to more than a ball buster for you, and you probably already know this.

[cammed goat]

I will ask OP this...

Would you enjoy staying with this woman if you were to have another fling and the rubber broke?

[LgndKller20073]

I will ask OP this...

Would you enjoy staying with this woman if you were to have another fling and the rubber broke?

To say, do I want to have a child with her? Not at the moment.....but I don't want kids right now with anybody.

But she actually sorta got me and my sense of humor and things like that. But I sent a text and got a repsonse:

Me: Is that really the reason why you haven't been very talkative towards me? Cause you're going back out there to see him?

Her: No I stopped talking because it's obvious to me that you're not someone I could date and you don't ge tthat or seem to feel the need to be overly persistant about pursuing it.

Me: I figured that was it. That we'd never be anything more than physical. Oh well, thanks for the booty calls!

No response back. Didn't really think there would be one. As for pics, I don't have anything dirty unfortunately. She was against sending them/letting me take them.

That seems to be though how it is with a lot of girls and me. They'll fuck me a lot.....both figuratively and literally, but I'm just not "boyfriend" material.

[cammed goat]

I hear ya OP. Just look after yourself. I know when my guy friends start talking about how confusing women can be, I ask them that same question...and you would be surprised at how many death stares I get from women who hear me ask this question. I have also been confronted by said women and when they hear my response, they get nasty. In my opinion, I don't think it is wrong to not want a family with an irresponsible partner. I know I would NOT want to have to sell my car, look for a second job, or explain down the road to my child that mommy was immature/irresponsible.

[86 IROC-Z]

laughed my ass off at the thread title

[LgndKller20073]

I hear ya OP. Just look after yourself. I know when my guy friends start talking about how confusing women can be, I ask them that same question...and you would be surprised at how many death stares I get from women who hear me ask this question. I have also been confronted by said women and when they hear my response, they get nasty. In my opinion, I don't think it is wrong to not want a family with an irresponsible partner. I know I would NOT want to have to sell my car, look for a second job, or explain down the road to my child that mommy was immature/irresponsible.

Yeah, I hear ya on that. But both of us were responsible in that aspect(the pill and rubber)

laughed my ass off at the thread title

It's the best I could come up with, and it holds itself to be so true. My stripper career isn't far away. That seems to be the only thing anybody likes me for anyway, so I might as well get paid for it.

On a side note, complaining about only having sex and not having a significant other, makes me feel like such a woman lol but it really has been pretty frustrating.

[Grimpala]

[Spaz]

bwahahAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

[gwballin]

To say, do I want to have a child with her? Not at the moment.....but I don't want kids right now with anybody.

But she actually sorta got me and my sense of humor and things like that. But I sent a text and got a repsonse:

Me: Is that really the reason why you haven't been very talkative towards me? Cause you're going back out there to see him?

Her: No I stopped talking because it's obvious to me that you're not someone I could date and you don't ge tthat or seem to feel the need to be overly persistant about pursuing it.

Me: I figured that was it. That we'd never be anything more than physical. Oh well, thanks for the booty calls!

No response back. Didn't really think there would be one. As for pics, I don't have anything dirty unfortunately. She was against sending them/letting me take them.

That seems to be though how it is with a lot of girls and me. They'll fuck me a lot.....both figuratively and literally, but I'm just not "boyfriend" material.

From what I gather, you like this girl and wanted it to be exclusive. She tells you that you are not paying enough attention to her or "pursuing" her enough and your response is to basically call her a slut.

I see two solutions to your problem (with either this girl or any other girl that you like in the future since your problem is not isolated to this chick):
1. you can stop acting like a dick in the eyes of the girl you are interested in. Note that I'm not calling you a dick, but that seems to be her (other girls) perception.
2. you can keep acting like a dick but physically satisfy the girl. I know that once I "put my back into it" I can't get rid of them if I try regardless of how badly I treat them. Porn is a good way to learn some new techniques. If your problem stamina, try knocking one out before hand. Unfortunately, if it is a problem of size that keeps girls looking elsewhere I’m not sure I can advise you any further.

In any event, good luck.

[LgndKller20073]

From what I gather, you like this girl and wanted it to be exclusive. She tells you that you are not paying enough attention to her or "pursuing" her enough and your response is to basically call her a slut.

I see two solutions to your problem (with either this girl or any other girl that you like in the future since your problem is not isolated to this chick):
1. you can stop acting like a dick in the eyes of the girl you are interested in. Note that I'm not calling you a dick, but that seems to be her (other girls) perception.
2. you can keep acting like a dick but physically satisfy the girl. I know that once I "put my back into it" I can't get rid of them if I try regardless of how badly I treat them. Porn is a good way to learn some new techniques. If your problem stamina, try knocking one out before hand. Unfortunately, if it is a problem of size that keeps girls looking elsewhere I’m not sure I can advise you any further.
In any event, good luck.

No, her problem is that I was pursuing it too much. Which I think is pretty much bullshit since 95% of the time, she'd text or call me first. I didn't ask her out all the time trying to get a date. I found conveniant times for me when we could hang out or stuff like that. I don't get where she was getting that I was overly pursuing her. And I wasn't a dick all the time. If she looked good, I'd tell her that she looked good. I was nice to her too, but when I was nice, she seemed to pretty much ignore it. She only really responded whenever I was a dick or said some smart ass remark.

I have no problem physically satisfying girls at all. That's what they come back to me for. It must be personality wise that they have a problem with. If I'm nice, they have a problem. If I'm a dick they have a problem. If I combine the two, they still have a problem.

My logic in this is she's talked about moving out of state and loves Cali. Well the douche in Cali must have said something and she is going to go after him. She wants to move to Cali so bad then fine. Whatever. I hope she enjoys herself.

[cammed goat]

Mixed signals FTL.

[JHayesLS1]

Have you tried hitting her yet?

Also, pics or GTFO

[JHayesLS1]

No, her problem is that I was pursuing it too much. Which I think is pretty much bullshit since 95% of the time, she'd text or call me first. I didn't ask her out all the time trying to get a date. I found conveniant times for me when we could hang out or stuff like that. I don't get where she was getting that I was overly pursuing her. And I wasn't a dick all the time. If she looked good, I'd tell her that she looked good. I was nice to her too, but when I was nice, she seemed to pretty much ignore it. She only really responded whenever I was a dick or said some smart ass remark.

I have no problem physically satisfying girls at all. That's what they come back to me for. It must be personality wise that they have a problem with. If I'm nice, they have a problem. If I'm a dick they have a problem. If I combine the two, they still have a problem.

My logic in this is she's talked about moving out of state and loves Cali. Well the douche in Cali must have said something and she is going to go after him. She wants to move to Cali so bad then fine. Whatever. I hope she enjoys herself.

He's gonna be balls deep in her ass. Time for you to go find some new

[LgndKller20073]

He's gonna be balls deep in her ass. Time for you to go find some new

Oh, I know he is. At least I was there first haha. I guess I just don't like how I got treated after she booked her flight out there. I guess it's karma for the way I treated her in 2008 when she was actually pretty into me. It still sucks though.

As for the mixed signals, she'd send them all the time! One second she'd be pretty into me, the next not so much. I'd give her crap, and she'd dish it right back to me. We actually seemed to get along really well. All the crap giving was in good fun. It's been pretty irritating. I guess it's time to really figure out what women want, write a book, and collect my millions of dollars.

[SiggyZ]

Man I swear these thread topics are as old as the internet itself.

[cammed goat]

He's gonna be balls deep in her ass. Time for you to go find some new

This. And look for a girl with a steady grip on reality...not one who has infinite amounts of the "D" word.