she gets a tattoo knowing i dont like it

i'm tring to make since of this. right now i'm pissed over the fact she knows i dont want her getting a tattoo. her reasion is it's her body she will do as she wants with it, fine i agree, thats true.

but she knowingly is going to get one knowing how i feel about it.. what does that say?

we have been together 5 years, i dont ever tell her what to do, i'm not her boss. to me it's more then just the tattoo. she knows how i feel and she's going to get it anyway, that to me says she does'nt really care how i feel about it.

so am i being a bitch over the whole thing or no? imo tattoos are ugly, thats me. but it's the reasion behind the tattoo i'm all worked up about.

so please, if i'm being a bitch say so. if not let me know what you think.

Whats the tattoo of and where is it at on her body?

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Whats the tattoo of and where is it at on her body?

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music notes on her foot

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music notes on her foot

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Then I would say don't worry about it :shrug:

If it was a Nazi flag or something along those lines and in a place that can't be covered, then I would have told you to ditch her :yup:

so i'm being a bitch about the whole thing?

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so i'm being a bitch about the whole thing?

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I wouldn't use the word "Bitch" but I would say a little over the top. It's kind of shitty that she pretty much said "Fuck you" and got the tattoo but it is her body like she said. If it were to be a nasty tattoo and large then I would be all for you but music notes on the foot is pretty mild.

If it's what she wants, then it's her call.

Lets put it this way:

Me personnally don't mind a few (Just a couple) tats on a woman. If my girl was going to go out and get full sleeves or some shit like that, I would politely tell her then I'm gone.

If she went ahead and did it, then she wants the tats more then me :shrug:

Now thats just my opinion.

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I wouldn't use the word "Bitch" but I would say a little over the top. It's kind of shitty that she pretty much said "Fuck you" and got the tattoo but it is her body like she said. If it were to be a nasty tattoo and large then I would be all for you but music notes on the foot is pretty mild.

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damn, now i feel like a jackass. i made a big deal out of it. i did'nt even think of the fact it could be wrose.

Unless the music notes have some kind of "fuck you" meaning between the two of you, then you could have some ground for where you stand.

Example: the guy she dated before you, fell in love with, was in a band or some shit and got her hugely into music and she never got over him cause he treated her like a groupie and this could be a tribute to him. Then, yeah, that's fucked up of her

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Lets put it this way:

Me personnally don't mind a few (Just a couple) tats on a woman. If my girl was going to go out and get full sleeves or some shit like that, I would politely tell her then I'm gone.

If she went ahead and did it, then she wants the tats more then me :shrug:

Now thats just my opinion.

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i see where you're going. she has one already, on her neck i cant see much at all. it's actually pretty, but i just dont want one turning into two, which it has and then turning into 3+

you get what i mean.

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damn, now i feel like a jackass. i made a big deal out of it. i did'nt even think of the fact it could be wrose.

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Just be like:

You: Baby, we need to talk

Her: .......

You: I'm sorry I got a little over the top on the tattoo thing, it is a mild one.

Her: Thanks

You: I don't want to tell you what to do with you're body but I would appreciate it if you and I could communicate and you could try to see it from my perspective

Her: OMG Honey, you want to communicate

You: Yes Maam! By the way, that tattoo does kinda look cute

Her: OMG, you love talking and love my tat. Lets fuck and fuck NOW!!!

:sex: :sex:

:bow:

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Just be like:

You: Baby, we need to talk

Her: .......

You: I'm sorry I got a little over the top on the tattoo thing, it is a mild one.

Her: Thanks

You: I don't want to tell you what to do with you're body but I would appreciate it if you and I could communicate and you could try to see it from my perspective

Her: OMG Honey, you want to communicate

You: Yes Maam! By the way, that tattoo does kinda look cute

Her: OMG, you love talking and love my tat. Lets fuck and fuck NOW!!!

:sex: :sex:

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bahahahaha best reply i have ever read, thanks man. i'll get to making up real soon

I told my gf the first day if u get a tattoo even if u we are married I will break up with you.... Fast forward 4 years and she's now my fiancé

I never understood the fad with women getting tats on their feet. But that's just me.

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I told my gf the first day if u get a tattoo even if u we are married I will break up with you.... Fast forward 4 years and she's now my fiancé

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Ex GF had tats on both her feet. First time I ever heard my mom say she likes them since she hates mine. But to the OP if she wants them then she wants them. Nothing you can really do. You force her to not get them then she will just resent you and it will probably end your relationship. Plus like the others said it could be worse.

Things I would be a "bitch" about tatoo wise:

- Her getting a "tramp stamp". I'm not a fan.

- Her getting a tatoo of another male's name that's not related to her.

Other than that it's like she says: It's her body....

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Things I would be a "bitch" about tattoo wise:

- Her getting a "tramp stamp". I'm not a fan.

- Her getting a tattoo of another male's name that's not related to her.

Other than that it's like she says: It's her body....

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Fixed! Don't let me see you slipping again :lmao: :lol: :D

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Ex GF had tats on both her feet. First time I ever heard my mom say she likes them since she hates mine. But to the OP if she wants them then she wants them. Nothing you can really do. You force her to not get them then she will just resent you and it will probably end your relationship. Plus like the others said it could be worse.

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i dont force her to do anything. like i said i'm not her boss. but i agree what what you said.

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You spelled it "Tatoo"
It is spelled "Tattoo"

:woot:

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haha, i looked it over for 5 mins and didnt catch it

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haha, i looked it over for 5 mins and didnt catch it

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get over it...

if you try to control her in the sense of a tattoo, you will only push her away.

I had an ex gf get mad when I got two tattoos in places she didnt like. Notice how she is an ex. we were together for 3 1/2 years..

a close friend of mine, she dumped her ex bf, because all he did was bitch if she got a peircing or tat. 6 years together

point is, accept her for who she is, or she will be gone.
since you two have been together for 5 yr, understand that people evolve and re-invent themselves..

If you bitch and whine about enough, she will eventually start dating the tattoo artist.


Why did she choose music notes, was there meaning behind the tattoo?

I ask cause all of my tattoos are ones that I drew and all of them have meaning.
I have 3 of them related to music, one being a guitar that I built.
Point of me saying that is, if she got inked with a lame tattoo of a mouse burning in a toaster, then yeah you could be pissed, however if the tattoo means something too her, the tattoo acts like a bookmark of where and what is going on in your life at that time.
I can tell you everything about my life during each tattoo.

Dont give her bad memories or bad feelings associated with this one, it will be a bookmark she remembers forever...

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get over it...

if you try to control her in the sense of a tattoo, you will only push her away.

I had an ex gf get mad when I got two tattoos in places she didnt like. Notice how she is an ex. we were together for 3 1/2 years..

a close friend of mine, she dumped her ex bf, because all he did was bitch if she got a peircing or tat. 6 years together

point is, accept her for who she is, or she will be gone.
since you two have been together for 5 yr, understand that people evolve and re-invent themselves..

If you bitch and whine about enough, she will eventually start dating the tattoo artist.


Why did she choose music notes, was there meaning behind the tattoo?

I ask cause all of my tattoos are ones that I drew and all of them have meaning.
I have 3 of them related to music, one being a guitar that I built.
Point of me saying that is, if she got inked with a lame tattoo of a mouse burning in a toaster, then yeah you could be pissed, however if the tattoo means something too her, the tattoo acts like a bookmark of where and what is going on in your life at that time.
I can tell you everything about my life during each tattoo.

Dont give her bad memories or bad feelings associated with this one, it will be a bookmark she remembers forever...

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yea, i'm pretty much over it already, but i agree with you man. i made a big deal out of nothing this time. so i owned up.

small, cute, hiddin... ok

big in you're face stupid tattoos.. i'm not feeling it.

i have two tattoos that both have meaning and hate them to the very core. one day i'll be 70 years old.. see where i'm going?

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yea, i'm pretty much over it already, but i agree with you man. i made a big deal out of nothing this time. so i owned up.

small, cute, hiddin... ok

big in you're face stupid tattoos.. i'm not feeling it.

i have two tattoos that both have meaning and hate them to the very core. one day i'll be 70 years old.. see where i'm going?

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What are you doing on LS1.com and not taggin that woman :dunno:

I gave you the perfect weapon to get her in bed....convo :D

i'm in tampa bro, she is back at home in atl

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i'm in tampa bro, she is back at home in atl

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Plane ticket here you come :nana:

132 6:20 AM 7:54 AM nonstop (1 h 34 m) $326 1 seat left at this price


whoot!!!!!! looks like i might be getting laid:sex:!!!! not...

might have to hope in the truck and:drivin:

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You spelled it "Tatoo"
It is spelled "Tattoo"

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Oh well. Shit happens then you die....

Good catch though.

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yea, i'm pretty much over it already, but i agree with you man. i made a big deal out of nothing this time. so i owned up.

small, cute, hiddin... ok

big in you're face stupid tattoos.. i'm not feeling it.

i have two tattoos that both have meaning and hate them to the very core. one day i'll be 70 years old.. see where i'm going?

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damn you really hate tats, since you hate the ones you have.. do you hate the meaning or the fact you have tats in general.

becarefull with your girl though.. most people I know get a tat, and get a addicted and get a few more. if she gets more and they are done tasteful and well, just accept it.. but good luck!

my ex went hog wild and got some nasty ugly tats in places only a doctor can see :hellno:

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damn you really hate tats, since you hate the ones you have.. do you hate the meaning or the fact you have tats in general.

becarefull with your girl though.. most people I know get a tat, and get a addicted and get a few more. if she gets more and they are done tasteful and well, just accept it.. but good luck!

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i did'nt put much thought into them before i got them. it was more of a last min, spur of the moment. even tho they have meaning i regret them. i like more natural things. but thats me.. i bought my truck and camaro modded( visually ) and returned them back to factory, if that gives you an idea of my logical outlook on things.

I learned 40 years ago that if you want a woman to do something, tell her not to do it.

If they are small and not easily seen they are nice. Dont forget its something SHE really wants to do and honestly a small one on the foot isnt bad at all.
I have a few myself--and my wife has two of them now too. Im not a fan of sleeves or anything huge on a woman but in the right places I like them

My wife didnt get one until she was 35--one on her lower back (sort of a tramp stamp but not really) and now one on her lower leg.

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Things I would be a "bitch" about tatoo wise:

- Her getting a "tramp stamp". I'm not a fan.

- Her getting a tatoo of another male's name that's not related to her.

Other than that it's like she says: It's her body....

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I totally whole heartedly unequivocally disagree with you. I have a tat in that location. Its of a certain bird. I got that there so when I'm 70 I won't have to see it. I've had it long before that stupid retarded movie. Its still beautiful and I am in no means a tramp. I have several tats all in locations that are viewable with a bikini on, but not with any of my clothes to work in a law office. So, some of us are classy about our tats. Thank you. :true:

No tats for me, I would prefer the same from a woman. Getting harder to find though :shrug:

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I never understood the fad with women getting tats on their feet. But that's just me.

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Indeed. Incredibly lame.

OP, if she did it to spite you, that's one thing. But if it's something she's truly wanted for a while, and has considered it carefully and truly desires it, then you have to let her do it. Neither of you can be expected to go through life doing ONLY what the other desires. Considering your desire isn't the same as always obeying it. Sometimes you gotta do what you want to do.

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i did'nt put much thought into them before i got them. it was more of a last min, spur of the moment. even tho they have meaning i regret them. i like more natural things. but thats me.. i bought my truck and camaro modded( visually ) and returned them back to factory, if that gives you an idea of my logical outlook on things.

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Sounds like you don't want her to have the regrets you have. Maybe she does not regret them like you do?

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I totally whole heartedly unequivocally disagree with you. I have a tat in that location. Its of a certain bird. I got that there so when I'm 70 I won't have to see it. I've had it long before that stupid retarded movie. Its still beautiful and I am in no means a tramp. I have several tats all in locations that are viewable with a bikini on, but not with any of my clothes to work in a law office. So, some of us are classy about our tats. Thank you. :true:

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Dont fret so my dear. A personal opinion is all it is. I'm sure there are quite a few guys out there that love them. I've even dated a few gals that have them. When they're on there back I can't see them. Rotated 180 degrees and it makes me wonder why they got it...

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I told my gf the first day if u get a tattoo even if u we are married I will break up with you.... Fast forward 4 years and she's now my fiancé

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I hear you. I told a girl that if she gets one where and what she was going to get I wouldnt date her. She didnt get it and now thinks they look so stupid. Her sister gone one on her foot and she said "You have to cover that up at my wedding." Her sister was pissed......lol She made a comment about its pretty and she went off on her about its not pretty, its lame and stupid.

I have dated girls with tats before and honestly I can say I just try not to look at them. There is nothing "individual" about them. It used to be you got one for the army division you were in, or a bike group. Now its because its pretty, or you like flowers, or birds, or you want a tribal but you dont belong to any tribe.......lol

If a girl knew I really didint want her to get it and she got it anyway than it would be over. Like said, she wanted the tat more than she wanted me. Money for a tat or a cam for the car? haha

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I never understood the fad with women getting tats on their feet. But that's just me.

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My girl/kinda not girls sister has one on her foot. Honestly I associate it with trash 99% of the time. I dont mind tats on some people but others they look stupid. Some can be cool if they have meaning but just to get one to get one in retarded in my opinion. Not saying anything bad about any of you guys or gals that have them. They are just not my cup of tea and I most likely will never have one.

Theres a huge difference between a simple tattoo on her feet and then her going on a rampage and getting them everywhere and piercings in ever pierceable part of her body.

That being said its her body, you dont own her. You are being a bitch about it. A controlling little bitch. Argue with her over this, and she'll inevitably come across some guy that loves tats or at least tells her he does, and she'll be bouncin on his cock before ya know it.

My initial response to OP is "jack wagon."

I personally have a sh1tty tattoo high up on my right arm. Even an athletic-cut polo or t-shirt covers it up. I got it when I was going through a tough time in my life after a bad break up. My ex had wanted me to get one (she had one) and I never did when we were together. I got it as somewhat of a "Fvck you" tribute to her a few months after we split.

It was chinese script meaning "balance" and "equilibrium". Take into consideration I left my engineering job one afternoon to get it then returned to work. It has little meaning or significance to me 7 years later and I seldom think about it. At this point, I do not regret it nor favor it...it's just there.

Putting myself in your shoes, if my wife wanted to get one I'd feel the same way. Not because I feel like I own or controll her and her body...more that she's taking this beautiful canvas and ruining it by marking it. What's good for the goose (me) isn't necessarily good for the gander (her) even though I realize it's not fair for me to take this position.

If she had a tattoo when we met I suppose I wouldn't think twice about it. I would have still dated her and we would have still gotten married. Bottom line is I wouldn't think any less of her, but it's my preference now that she keep her slate clean.

My suggestion, wait until it's warm enough for sandal weather. Find a place that does Henna tattoos and have them put her design where she wants it. When it wears off, you need to pay again to have it put back on.

Here's the logic: She's going to get sick of it. Foot tattoos are as trashy (IMO) and tattoos on women's breasts or shoulders. When sandal straps partially obscure them, or they're just barely 'peeking' out, they just look stupid. Now, if she's always barefoot that might be okay, but i think after having a temporary tattoo for three weeks she'll get bored with it and won't go through with the permanent one.

Make this suggestion but don't push it. If your woman is as strong-willed as my wife, you're going to be beating your head against a wall if you tell her 'no'.

I'm not a huge fan of ink..

@ the same time tho, life is too short to worry about a couple music notes..imho

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me neither, except I dont understand tats on women at all, total instantaneous trashy turnoff.

wow....

I feel like we're back in 1991.

tattoos are trashy, mostly on women. And its not gay to have a piercing only if its only the left side! :hahano::hahano::sarge:

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Too much ink on anybody is trashy and ugly to me. I will never understand people who put tattoos on their faces, necks, lower arms, etc, places where they will ALWAYS be visible, forever.

But one or two tattoos on a person in general is ok, on a chick is usually hot to me. Just another form of expression of personality. Not to veer off topic, but the fad I don't understand is that ear lobe stretching nonsense. Those kids that have quarter sized holes in their lobes are gonna look sexy in their 60s for sure...

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That's all? I say bitchy. Not like it's a battleship across her chest

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wow....

I feel like we're back in 1991.

tattoos are trashy, mostly on women. And its not gay to have a piercing only if its only the left side! :hahano::hahano::sarge:

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