Why don't you tell him how you really feel Siggy
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At least you know why she is pissed at you. Makes it easier to say you are sorry. lol
I'm betting she was nicer to you when you were acting like an ass in the relationship.
Dan
Your name is Dan, too? lol
I don't know man....eat the "Y" then tell her your shit. I've been with my wife for 18 years....we worked all our crap out in the first 5.
Nobody will ever fully understand what goes through a woman's head. As soon as you think you know, they throw you a curve ball. That's just how shit works. You basically have to decide for yourself how much you're willing to tolerate.
Sounds like you found yourself a good woman, but you keep fucking up. Learn from your mistakes or you're going to find yourself without her and then you'll really start to spiral downward.
Yep and I agree. I have changed alot since the start. Just have more to work on.
Buddy of mine called me up and said he needed someone to talk to.. His wife told him she cheated on him 5 times with the same guy a year ago.. so he kicked her out..among a bunch of other shit..
You know now that I think about it more Im not sure I really want to be married anymore. As people say you change or things and I guess they have/we have. In the start of our marriage when she was gone as the time it didnt really matter because I was out and shit. Now she is gone even more and makes better money but I want more than that now. Guess I have to think about it or we need to talk in a couple of months when she has time. That or say fuck it and enjoy shit when we do. I say we never have to to really do anything but she says well Im off in the summer for 3 months. Fuck whatever..
Being selfish and married go together like oil and water.
Yep she came home and I said I want a divorce. She asked me what is wrong and I said we really dont have the time needed to talk about it. She said tell me so I did. Im sick of being a house bitch and watching the damn dogs. She said what am I gonna do about my treatments/doctor appts. I said doesnt matter as that is no reason to stay married. Damn talk about bringing the topic back with a swing.
Wow... just 4 days ago you were worried about her being pissed off because you reverted back to some old behaviors that had caused trouble in the past, and today, you asked her for a divorce... That went quick.
I dunno man...I would probably sleep on that for a couple days. It's obvious that you care about her. Just make sure you think all of this thru really well. Some things can't be taken back.
First of all, a car forum is no place to be talking about this in all honesty. You and your wife need to go sit down with a counselor, talk about things, and decide if this is really the best thing for both of you. It might take more than one session too, so have some patience. You can take a little time now, and it will pay off in the long run either way. You will either decide that a divorce is the best thing for both of you, and for the right reasons, so that both of you can move on in a positive way...OR... you will decide that there are things that need to be worked on, likely with both of you, in order to make your marriage better and make both of you happier.