Sorry to hear that, its hard to lose someone close to you, hang in there
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Sorry to hear that, its hard to lose someone close to you, hang in there
Sorry man. I have been there and done that about 4 years ago. Seems like yesterday. Your in my prayers. I was 23 when I lost my dad, 33 years ago. Took years to get over that.
I am very, very sorry to hear about your loss. What you do now is an answer only you know. But yes, I would keep myself busy, do things that would make her proud of you, etc. Again, i'm so sorry for your loss.
keep yourself surrounded by friends and do something like goin to the gym or workin on the car, seemed to work when i lost my uncle that was really close. my condolences, let us know how you're doin man
very very sorry for your loss.............lost my Dad a couple years ago, man it really hurts........lean on God
sorry for your loss..... stay busy and keep close to family and friends
sorry for your loss man, family and friends are the best thing for you to be around
sorry for you loss
sorry to hear about this man, my prayers are with you and all affected by this.
Sorry!
sorry to hear that I lost my mom at 18 she died in her sleep at our house unexpectedly just keep busy and hold ur head up high
I am very sorry for your loss. My Mom passed unexpectedly 5-5-05. This time of year it is especially difficult as I find myself thinking about her and her last Christmas with us...
She had trouble getting around (bad hip), and her medications made her ill and Christmas 2004 she and I went to our local mall together as she was afraid to drive there (she would get lost easily). We walked a lot that day and would sit on benches to rest frequently. However we spent a couple of hours shopping and she bought presents for everyone.
The next morning she called me up and informed me about how great she felt. She thought it was all the exercise she got mall walking. For the next few months she continued to feel much better until she had a heart attack while driving herself to a doctor appointment. She passed instantly.
Anyway, I lost my Dad in 1982 and Sunday evening I was at my wifes's parents house, along with her brother and sister and they all were telling family stories and laughing and it was great to listen and watch their faces as they recalled funny stuff and relatives long gone.
However at some point I remember feeling lonely in the middle of all this good cheer and I realized it is because my parents and grandparents are all gone and so the stories from my youth would have little meaning for my inlaws.
By the time I got home I also realized the great gift my Mom and Dad left me... Their parenting provided me the ability to attract a wonderful wife and her family... Their parenting provided warm clothes in the winter and a strong work ethic. Their parenting provided me a great education and many happy memories.
I miss my parents a lot but the gifts they gave me have thus far lasted a lifetime and their gifts manage to find a way to keep on giving.
It takes time to recover, especially from the loss of a Mom, but over time she will continue to be a source of strength, hope, and inspiration for you.
I suggest reaching out to family and friends as much as possible. Usually everyone drifts back away into their daily lives after a tragic event. This is an opportunity for that to not happen to you. Stay in touch with them. Keep the communications going. It may take work on your part and you are the one that needs to continue to reach out but the gift that extended family can bring is huge. Your Mom's passing has provided you this great opportunity to go forward and enhance your existing relationships. Yes it will take time but time is the one thing we have that is a non-renewable resource and using it to our advantage can bring a lifetime of goodness.
bro i am terribly sorry for your loss. just try to fill the voids in and push thru, easier said than done i know, good luck brother,
sorry for your loss!
Sorry for your loss, guy.
Sorry for your loss, its a very tough thing to deal with. The main thing is keep yourself occupied! I lost my dad 4 yrs ago in a car accident. I was very close with my dad as we shared the same hobbies (cars, etc) and it totally crushed me when he died. I went into this depression funk for the last 4 yrs, due to the fact that I wasnt motivated to do anything (carshows, etc). I bought another f-body about 5 months ago, and I believe it has helped. I also realized my problem, and I now force myself to get off my ass. Although I do still have bad days. Problem now is that I lost my father in law 2 months ago in a motorcycle accident, of which I was also very close with him. Now I not only have to deal with my problems, but I also have to worry about my wife. Its a real shitty deal! But like I said, I think your best bet is to keep yourself busy. Didnt mean to hijack your thread with my problems, just wanted to give you my opinion. Again Im soory for your loss.
I feel for you man... very much so.
My mom passed away the 26th of last month..... its hard.
I'm afraid I can't offer too much, but this.... grieve, and grieve hard. Then, get over it, and move on. Its what she would have wanted. Good luck to you.
Nothing but prayers and best wishes for ya brother
sorry
I am so sorry for your loss. My dad is has Altzheimers and my mom has conjestive lung disease, (pneumonia). I am going to be very sad when their time comes. My prayers go out to you and yours.