Most importantly the parents, what your take?
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Most importantly the parents, what your take?
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GTFO of my house.....
you reap what you sow.....you raise a piece of shit and she'll blossom into a real piece of shit. These are other people's problems.....I'll never have to worry about any of this with my kids. Parents let their kids walk on them and they try to be their friends instead of their parents. I can guarantee you that even at 21 if one of my kids tried this I would bend them over my knee and beat their ass. Like I say though.....I won't ever have to worry about anything like this. It's been years since I've had to spank either of my older kids and they're 8-11 which is prime time spanking age.....at least it was for me when I was that age. Pickle on the other hand is 2 and he's just learning so he gets a swat on the diaper pretty regularly these days. :lol:
what a b*tch...so she gets into one of the best programs in the country at Disney "its very hard to get into" and she gets kicked out for being stupid and THEN the courts let her win a law suit against her parents...?
W...T...F...is going on in this world?
Good law New Jersey....WTF.
NJ is a sad state, for many reasons including laws like this. That being said the daughter is the one using this law to get her spoiled little B%^&* way. My daughters will be very sorry if the day ever comes they try something like this.
This kind of reminds of my wife's uncle. He had a pretty troubled youth... is a felon for drug charges etc. He has long since been out of prison, and is an industrial welder for the past 8+ years or so. His sons are 10 and 12 and he has had split custody of them for most of their lives. Because he is a felon the mother makes threats whenever he disciplines the children about calling this agency and that agency etc. Having the kids taken away from him. This has been going on for a little while now and she is basically telling the kids they can walk all over their dad by telling them if he disciplines you tell me right away etc. And believe me these kids are in need or more discipline if you ask me.... not less. And of course she has the law on her side cause she is a single mother and he is a felon. So she really can do damage to his life if she decides to.
When ppl pay their penance to society, change their lives for the better - they should be left alone. Sounds like this guy is trying. Ex-wife on the other hand sounds like she's a bitter c$%t. (Sorry ladies, not implying all women are)Quote:
Originally Posted by Zinergy
On this subject - my son is 20, when he was in his senor yr of HS, we (mother & I) sat him down and explained and laid it all out for him. Told him as long as he attended college or even a trade school we would help support him. He would still need to work but we would help him get thru college. HOWEVER, if he decides to goof off, get bad grades or even not attend school, he's on his own to support himself in getting stuff he wants. He'll have to look for a car, pay his own bills, etc. We would still give a roof over his head and food, but anything else would be on him. Sounds harsh to some but it's what we believe that you should work for stuff you want and not be a moocher.
We told him it's his decision to attend school or join the military. He wants to still go in but he also realizes that getting his degree now will be easier than later. Thank God my kid isn't a stubborn A-hole and is in school. Took him a while to figure out what he wants to do but at least he's got a direction. Wants to go into CSI field. He took at course on it in HS and loved it. Even got a recommendation from his teacher.
Everyone gets a trophy mentality......kids can't handle rejection, blunt honest truth, or hurt feelings anymore.Quote:
Originally Posted by theorangeguy
When we grew up bullies were there, you either learn to fight back or deal with it, today even the bully is coddle. PC pendulum has swung too far over to stupidity. Needs to get back towards the middle.
IMHO, parents have no financial obligation to pay for their kid's college education. AFAIC, after 18 it's their life. If the parents want to pay that's fine, but for a judge to make the decision that the parents have to pay? That's insane!
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Exactly....you're 18, you want to be treated like an adult, you're legally an adult, start living like one, period.
The judge should be... Well... I don't got many nice things to say... Our legal system is such a joke...
Meanwhile I'm working while going to college. Where did I go wrong?
Can't wait to read about her kids doing the samething to her
If this goes to appeal it will be countered.
you should file a lawsuit against her parents too.......say you feel left out or something. File it in NJ and you're almost guaranteed to win. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by allbaugh_04
You didn't move to NJ with your divorced parents.Quote:
Originally Posted by allbaugh_04