well....it's all over

**bandit95** · 09-04-2007, 04:25 PM

i've officially sold both my trans ams off....couldnt afford to have both of them and my truck anymore....would've sold the truck but i'm upside down too much with the damn thing. had to so i can catch up on my debt and get myself on top of things again. one day i'll have another ta though....just a matter of time. sucks cuz my marriage is on the rocks, no t/a's to go play with, got laid off 2 weeks ago and cant find any decent jobs around here right now, and things just suck major balls right now. wish me luck and keep me in yalls prayers please.....

**FasstChevys** · 09-04-2007, 04:41 PM

Originally Posted by bandit95

i've officially sold both my trans ams off....couldnt afford to have both of them and my truck anymore....would've sold the truck but i'm upside down too much with the damn thing. had to so i can catch up on my debt and get myself on top of things again. one day i'll have another ta though....just a matter of time. sucks cuz my marriage is on the rocks, no t/a's to go play with, got laid off 2 weeks ago and cant find any decent jobs around here right now, and things just suck major balls right now. wish me luck and keep me in yalls prayers please.....

Dayum

sorry to hear it man. I hope everything works out for you.

**Blitzed** · 09-04-2007, 04:43 PM

Good luck, Its ok to sell your cars. Just make sure you get back on your feet

**Jays00ss** · 09-04-2007, 04:47 PM

damn your life sounds like a country song, Hold on to your dog he's the next to go!!

**splitfinger09** · 09-04-2007, 05:39 PM

Good luck bro.

**bandit95** · 09-04-2007, 07:01 PM

Originally Posted by Jays00ss

damn your life sounds like a country song, Hold on to your dog he's the next to go!!

ya know i thought the same thing, lol. me and my wife are just gonna separate for now and move back to our parents houses and rebuild our finances back up cuz its caused too much stress on us. we've only been married a month and have faced moving to a bigger apt that costs $200 more a month, trying to save for a house but cant get ahead on our money, and ultimately it just makes us unhappy. so we'll separate and get things under control and get some counseling to help us out a lil bit. wish us luck and like i said keep us in your prayers please. this is our 1st night away from each other and i now i dont have anything to go burn out in and bang through gears so i'm pissed. gotta get back to work and pay off debt and keep my mind off of all this crap. thanks for your concern guys. and sorry to rant on....just gotta get it off my chest i guess...

**0rion** · 09-04-2007, 10:18 PM

Originally Posted by bandit95

ya know i thought the same thing, lol. me and my wife are just gonna separate for now and move back to our parents houses and rebuild our finances back up cuz its caused too much stress on us. we've only been married a month and have faced moving to a bigger apt that costs $200 more a month, trying to save for a house but cant get ahead on our money, and ultimately it just makes us unhappy. so we'll separate and get things under control and get some counseling to help us out a lil bit. wish us luck and like i said keep us in your prayers please. this is our 1st night away from each other and i now i dont have anything to go burn out in and bang through gears so i'm pissed. gotta get back to work and pay off debt and keep my mind off of all this crap. thanks for your concern guys. and sorry to rant on....just gotta get it off my chest i guess...

Ok, had a big long tough love post written but decided against it.

Key points. A rough spot in your lives and you guys seperate...not a good sign because life is just packed full of rough spots. I would take a good look at the root cause of the split up and work on that. Certainly not money, money is just an excuse to split up. My wife would stand by my side all the way to the poor house.
I was married once before so I know the pain of a split up. We half ass tried to work it out but I noticed it was more of me trying to work it out then her. The first order of business is to watch your own ass because no one else will. Get yourself back together and then worry about moving ahead.

Good luck and keep your head up. The most important thing is to do your thinking with your head and not with your heart. Oh, and don't get drunk and flip a pick up truck.....that just makes things worse. Ask me how I know.

**Jays00ss** · 09-04-2007, 10:23 PM

Originally Posted by 0rion

Ok, had a big long tough love post written but decided against it.

Key points. A rough spot in your lives and you guys seperate...not a good sign because life is just packed full of rough spots. I would take a good look at the root cause of the split up and work on that. Certainly not money, money is just an excuse to split up. My wife would stand by my side all the way to the poor house.
I was married once before so I know the pain of a split up. We half ass tried to work it out but I noticed it was more of me trying to work it out then her. The first order of business is to watch your own ass because no one else will. Get yourself back together and then worry about moving ahead.

Good luck and keep your head up. The most important thing is to do your thinking with your head and not with your heart. Oh, and don't get drunk and flip a pick up truck.....that just makes things worse. Ask me how I know.

**sgt0704** · 09-05-2007, 12:16 AM

Orion... how do you know?

**zero_proto** · 09-05-2007, 02:22 AM

yeah good luck, on everything man. I feel you on the money issues, but it will pass with time, or the lottery.

**Too Fast** · 09-05-2007, 02:48 AM

Money issues............man that causes problems I know! Everyone out there who reads this keep that in mind and do not take on much debt. Good luck, you are relatively young and will bounce back. Hell, I didn't get my first 4th gen until I was 37!

**ss~zoso~ss** · 09-05-2007, 06:00 AM

give everything you own to your parents legaly, so ur wife cant get em from ya when u seperate, dont put anything past her

**bandit95** · 09-06-2007, 11:49 AM

well i might be goin to work with directech soon. they install direct tv's and atd security and hughes net. get paid by the job but got the potential to bring home 2500 to 4000 every month, just depends on how much i wanna work. thats good because i was looking for something where i could make 45 to 50k a year before taxes. only thing that sucks is training last 2 weeks to a month and only pays 7 bucks an hour before i start.