Understanding women

**Popeye1970** · 01-06-2009, 06:24 AM

Hi guys,
First I wish you all a happy New Year....

It appears I have a problem that's not really in relation with cars....

How do you recognize that a woman is seriously interested in you and is not just teasing or playing around.
I've been dating a girl (a woman, well she's twelve years younger than me, 26) for about two weeks, before christmas we met three times (having a nice dinner, playing snooker, visiting a Christmas-market...) and I think I begin to develop strong feelings for her...I crave for her...but after I came back from my christmas holidays in Austria (skiing, booked long before I met her) I get the impression that she's kind of avoiding me, which is strange as she sent me a photograph of her only several days ago and asked me to send her a photo of me...I'm kind of confused and I'm not sure at all how to deal with that situation...While I was on vacation in Austria we permanently exchanged sms's and I called her to wish her a happy new year..
I don't want to insist too much but now I'm waiting for a reply to my email, where I bluntly asked her if she got a boyfriend or not...

It seems I need some wise piece of advise...

**ntimid8r** · 01-06-2009, 06:30 AM

No man in humanity has ever understood a woman. If they didn't have enjoyable parts to play with.....there would be a bounty to wipe them off the face of the earth.

You may want to confront her on what's going on with her situation. Bring it to a head now. It does seem as though she's hiding something. Just my .02 cents.

**nhraformula** · 01-06-2009, 06:33 AM

play it coy. dont pay her all to much attention.

**third_shift|studios** · 01-06-2009, 06:42 AM

my brother was engaged to a girl 10 years younger than him, they have a kid who just turned 2. The girl's a total psycho hose beast and I would advise against getting involved with someone that much younger than yourself.

**Popeye1970** · 01-06-2009, 06:58 AM

Thanks guys, I think I'll play it cool but I'd like to get involved with her...as she's a real hottie and ntimid8r I guess you're right, she must be hiding something...
The funny thing is her mother owns a 2000 Pontiac Firebird and you rarely see these cars in Luxembourg...I thought that was a good sign...kind of an omen. I hope she is no psycho...as she's a working colleague

**ntimid8r** · 01-06-2009, 07:17 AM

Originally Posted by Popeye1970

Thanks guys, I think I'll play it cool but I'd like to get involved with her...as she's a real hottie and ntimid8r I guess you're right, she must be hiding something...
The funny thing is her mother owns a 2000 Pontiac Firebird and you rarely see these cars in Luxembourg...I thought that was a good sign...kind of an omen. I hope she is no psycho...as she's a working colleague

That's how they sucker you in. They have a cool car and a hot chick to go with it. Next thing you know you're left homeless, pennyless and heartless.

**JoshieDoom** · 01-06-2009, 07:26 AM

I read the thread title and thought to myself...

Wont happen

**Sarge** · 01-06-2009, 07:42 AM

If you are attempting to understand women then you are fucked with a cherry on top.

**Crimson Sin** · 01-06-2009, 07:43 AM

Originally Posted by JoshieDoom

I read the thread title and thought to myself...

Wont happen

Amen Brother. AMEN.
On a slightly more serious note.. If she's that much younger than you are, there's typically a reason..
I would and have in the past. Investigate her relationship with her parents. IE her dad.. Chicks that have no Father or estranged Fathers ...well, they tend to have issues with self esteem and need some sort of male approval..
I am NOT saying that is the case here, but 90 percent of the relationships I have known or been involved in where there was a much younger woman involved. There was a substantial reason. Then again... This is a fairly young relationship...a few weeks you say ? Sorta soon to be looking for life long type commitments from anyone yet. Why not relax and let it go where it's gonna go and simply enjoy whatever comes from it ? Hard to say really from the little excerpt we get from your post..

And who the hell Knows what a chick is thinking...
As a wise man said earlier. If it wasn't for Sex..

**rbob93** · 01-06-2009, 07:47 AM

She met someone else while you were gone

**JoshieDoom** · 01-06-2009, 07:49 AM

Originally Posted by Crimson Sin

Amen Brother. AMEN.
On a slightly more serious note.. If she's that much younger than you are, there's typically a reason..
I would and have in the past. Investigate her relationship with her parents. IE her dad.. Chicks that have no Father or estranged Fathers ...well, they tend to have issues with self esteem and need some sort of male approval..
I am NOT saying that is the case here, but 90 percent of the relationships I have known or been involved in where there was a much younger woman involved. There was a substantial reason. Then again... This is a fairly young relationship...a few weeks you say ? Sorta soon to be looking for life long type commitments from anyone yet. Why not relax and let it go where it's gonna go and simply enjoy whatever comes from it ? Hard to say really from the little excerpt we get from your post..

And who the hell Knows what a chick is thinking...
As a wise man said earlier. If it wasn't for Sex..

Well i guess mine fits in that selection

**Spaz** · 01-06-2009, 07:50 AM

**Crimson Sin** · 01-06-2009, 07:55 AM

Originally Posted by Spaz

Ahahaha LOVE it.
Er wait... what... Err
My chick makes way more then I do..
So..I am the root of evil in my marriage ?
COOL.

**0rion** · 01-06-2009, 08:22 AM

Originally Posted by Popeye1970

Thanks guys, I think I'll play it cool but I'd like to get involved with her...as she's a real hottie and ntimid8r I guess you're right, she must be hiding something...
The funny thing is her mother owns a 2000 Pontiac Firebird and you rarely see these cars in Luxembourg...I thought that was a good sign...kind of an omen. I hope she is no psycho...as she's a working colleague

broke the peterpayroll principle. Always keep your peter out of the payroll. 99% of women are nuts.....the other half is crazy.

**Crimson Sin** · 01-06-2009, 08:33 AM

Originally Posted by 0rion

broke the peterpayroll principle. Always keep your peter out of the payroll. 99% of women are nuts.....the other half is crazy.

Doh. Good Catch Orion...
Didn't even see that..
If your dating/boinking a chick you work with... She's not the only insane one

Run away now.

**Kjz99z28** · 01-06-2009, 08:53 AM

Originally Posted by Crimson Sin

. If she's that much younger than you are, there's typically a reason..

I'm sorry, I just read that line without the rest, and it sounded really funny.

I was like... well yeah... her parents got it on a lot later than yours...

Then I kept reading.

**Popeye1970** · 01-06-2009, 09:08 AM

Originally Posted by Crimson Sin

Doh. Good Catch Orion...
Didn't even see that..
If your dating/boinking a chick you work with... She's not the only insane one

Run away now.

Don't have to. She's problably running away...

But she's worth it...as I said she's a blonde hottie, has beautiful eyes, likes to laugh...is funny...so I don't really care if she's younger

Yeah, she works with me, but that ain't no major problem as I do not really work with her, I don't have to see her on a daily basis if I don't want to, and, of course, love makes you do stupid things...and no, I'm not thinking of a lifelong relationship...

Anyway in my profession the younger ones are females, a great majority of them...

**Danger731** · 01-06-2009, 09:10 AM

Hook up with her then post back in 3 years with all the drama on how your life got all jacked up !

**Crimson Sin** · 01-06-2009, 09:16 AM

Originally Posted by Popeye1970

Don't have to. She's problably running away...

But she's worth it...as I said she's a blonde hottie, has beautiful eyes, likes to laugh...is funny...so I don't really care if she's younger

Yeah, she works with me, but that ain't no major problem as I do not really work with her, I don't have to see her on a daily basis if I don't want to, and, of course, lve makes you do stupid things...and no, I'm not thinking of a lifelong relationship...

Anyway in my profession the younger ones are females, a great majority of them...

Good luck to ya bro.. seriously, I wish every man alive could hit up some young hot thing.
Perhaps it's different in Europe. Most things are, here in the States. Hooking up at work typically has serious and damaging consequences..
I merely reflect on the crap I dealt with the oh too many times I broke the ..to quote "peterpayroll rule".
Like I said, and heartily meant. Good Luck an Have fun !!

**Popeye1970** · 01-06-2009, 09:23 AM

Originally Posted by Crimson Sin

Good luck to ya bro.. seriously, I wish every man alive could hit up some young hot thing.
Perhaps it's different in Europe. Most things are, here in the States. Hooking up at work typically has serious and damaging consequences..
I merely reflect on the crap I dealt with the oh too many times I broke the ..to quote "peterpayroll rule".
Like I said, and heartily meant. Good Luck an Have fun !!

Thanks...
I can only win, there's no real risk...of course the "peterpayroll rule" (never heard that expression before) exists here, too...