trust

[ls1blackbeauty98]

if your gf or bf was searching single sites, would your trust in she/he be broken?
discuss...

[ls1blackbeauty98]

I'm playing devil's advocate, how far does the "security" in yourself go? (as opposed to being insecure)

[GTP231]

They'd be getting a wtf. If I was doing something like that I doubt I'd get that much

[jknelms]

curious....unless it was like Craigslist Personal's....heck, those are funny to read

[ls1blackbeauty98]

Interesting thought GTP, anyone else?

[ls1blackbeauty98]

Craigslist has personals? I've gotta search that...

[jknelms]

Craigslist has personals? I've gotta search that...

oh, trust me...you won't be disappointed. Me and my G/F looked through them Sunday for a good laugh.

[GTP231]

oh, trust me...you won't be disappointed. Me and my G/F looked through them Sunday for a good laugh.

Definitely some humor in there

[ls1blackbeauty98]

lol, thats news to me. Wait maybe i saw it posted here one time
wonder what my personal would say, wow... im opening myself up for this one

[jknelms]

Well, now that I give it more thought....if my girl was on eHarmony or match.com....yeah, that is pretty messed up. The conversation I have with her wouldn't be about "trust"....


but yeah, Craigslist...a lot of those ppl are full of themselves....or just plain unashamed freaks with some crazy fetishes. if you don't mind graphic photos....you'll fall off the couch laughing.

[ibanez7]

this is my thought.
Its not about being secure with yourself, its about the spouse being secure with themselves and the relationship they are in.

would trust be broken, yes and no pending the sites and explanation... some sites are fun to search for laughs and out of curiousity. however it should not be hidden from your spouse. demand an explanation than move on with or without the relationship pending the explanation.

If one of the sites is:
http://www.ashleymadison.com/
Life is short, have an affair
this site is for spouses seeking other spouses. You must be in a relationship to join.

I would be more concerned if that site was listed in the browswer history.

I look at it this way, if somebody wants to leave me or cheat on me. Its their loss not mine. with 6.2billion people on the planet (now minus males, married woman, old woman, ugly woman), I'm confident I will find another hot single gf,

[ls1blackbeauty98]

ibanez, very insightful.
and i completely agree

[ibanez7]

also its worth questioning their sexual preference.

theres been many instances where men in relationships where caught by their GF/Wife looking for male love (thats wrong).... and vice versa.

too me if amber (my gf) was looking for a chic, that would be phenominal.
now if I was looking for a dude, she would be thinking WTF, and so would I....

[SSjunior]

I would break up with my girl if she did that

[jknelms]

this is my thought.
Its not about being secure with yourself, its about the spouse being secure with themselves and the relationship they are in.

would trust be broken, yes and no pending the sites and explanation... some sites are fun to search for laughs and out of curiousity. however it should not be hidden from your spouse. demand an explanation than move on with or without the relationship pending the explanation.

If one of the sites is:
http://www.ashleymadison.com/
Life is short, have an affair
this site is for spouses seeking other spouses. You must be in a relationship to join.

I would be more concerned if that site was listed in the browswer history.

I look at it this way, if somebody wants to leave me or cheat on me. Its their loss not mine. with 6.2billion people on the planet I'm confident I will find another gf.

well...there's not exactly 6.2 Bil attractive girls on the planet, haha...but I understand your point.

I'm fortunate, My girlfriend has a dowry...good luck getting with her, haha.

[ibanez7]

well...there's not exactly 6.2 Bil attractive girls on the planet, haha...but I understand your point.

I'm fortunate, My girlfriend has a dowry...good luck getting with her, haha.

LOL excellent point. I corrected my original post!

[ls1blackbeauty98]

Whats a dowry?

[ls1blackbeauty98]

also its worth questioning their sexual preference.

theres been many instances where men in relationships where caught by their GF/Wife looking for male love (thats wrong).... and vice versa.

too me if amber (my gf) was looking for a chic, that would be phenominal.
now if I was looking for a dude, she would be thinking WTF, and so would I....

[Silver Streak]

this is my thought.
Its not about being secure with yourself, its about the spouse being secure with themselves and the relationship they are in.

would trust be broken, yes and no pending the sites and explanation... some sites are fun to search for laughs and out of curiousity. however it should not be hidden from your spouse. demand an explanation than move on with or without the relationship pending the explanation.

If one of the sites is:
http://www.ashleymadison.com/
Life is short, have an affair
this site is for spouses seeking other spouses. You must be in a relationship to join.

I would be more concerned if that site was listed in the browswer history.

I look at it this way, if somebody wants to leave me or cheat on me. Its their loss not mine. with 6.2billion people on the planet (now minus males, married woman, old woman, ugly woman), I'm confident I will find another hot single gf,

I would break up with my girl if she did that

I agree 110%. If you go into a relationship, be IN that relationship.. if it turns out that the two of you aren't a good match, then end it and move on. Trust is a HUGE issue, that once its been violated, (depending on the severity of course) its gone and takes a VERY long time to get back, if at all. And if its bad enough, that person won't stay around long enough to find out.

So, figure out what are deal breakers, and follow through with them.

[86 IROC-Z]

Whats a dowry?

lul