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    Some advice

    I was wondering what you guys would do in this situation. You have your girlfriend of a couple years. You dont have alot in common, but you get along in person.She's cute, and loves to be sexually active. On the flip side, she has let herself gain weight. She works out every few days, but is hard to keep on a strict diet. She's a little selfish, she thinks of herself most of the time. In the relationship you feel like you put about 90% of the effort in. She starts acting right when she feels threatened by other girls. She's moved in with you, and left her parents far away, yet she's unsure about a long term future with you, and time is running short because of a plane ticket back home. She pulls her own weight around the house as far as keeping things clean and whatnot, but its rare when you have meals cooked for you. She can get moody, and youve already slept in another room once or twice since shes been there. You remain unsure about your future as well, and its only after a fight that makes you start detaching yourself, that she attempts to start acting right. You have doubt, and it would cost you nearly 3,000 to move her there permenantly. She is immature, and hasnt learned how to fully treat a man.

    On the other hand, you have a woman, 10 years older than you. Youve known her a little over a year. She's in a failing marriage of over 10 years. She's in great shape, beautiful. Youve never once fought, but you havent met in person. You see and talk to her almost every single day. You have no doubt about how this woman would treat you in person, because she's mature, and knows how to treat a man. She would give everything she has to be with you. You think she's the most caring, sweet woman on the planet, because she's treated you better than any other woman ever has. She puts her whole self into everything she does, and risks everything in talking to you. Her husband treats her like a slave (literally). You know you could make her happy, and you have alot in common. She's what you want in a woman, and how you want to be treated. She's in her mid to late 30's.

    What do you do?

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    Stay far away from both of them

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    i have a feeling which ever one you choose,in the future you will wonder "what if" about the other one.

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    Expecting meals cooked for you is a little sexist.

    But the first one, cause the second one is actually a 38 year old gay dude fucking with you.

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    Yea, that "what if" question is a big factor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smkn_TA View Post
    Expecting meals cooked for you is a little sexist.

    But the first one, cause the second one is actually a 38 year old gay dude fucking with you.
    but he makes a mean shrimp gumbo.

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    well,there is no right choice because of the "what if". you probably will think "what if" no matter which one you choose. but i would definately not mess with a married woman,no matter how much she says she is unhappy,because usually they do not want to jump from one relationship to another,after seperation or divorce they usually want to "go crazy" or "play the field" before settling down again. trust me i was in that situation,she will want to do all the things she could not do while married,including going to clubs and going home with random men she finds attractive.especially if her husband treats her like a "slave" or is the overbearing,controlling type she can't wait to get free and do whatever(or whoever) she wants.
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    they are both cheating on you and you didn't post pics

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    If she cheats on her husband, will she cheat on you?

    I think 90% of younger women are selfish and don't know how to cook anyways. Good luck with that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ramairgod84 View Post
    On the other hand, you have a woman, 10 years older than you. Youve known her a little over a year. She's in a failing marriage of over 10 years. She's in great shape, beautiful. Youve never once fought, but you havent met in person. You see and talk to her almost every single day. You have no doubt about how this woman would treat you in person, because she's mature, and knows how to treat a man. She would give everything she has to be with you. You think she's the most caring, sweet woman on the planet, because she's treated you better than any other woman ever has. She puts her whole self into everything she does, and risks everything in talking to you. Her husband treats her like a slave (literally). You know you could make her happy, and you have alot in common. She's what you want in a woman, and how you want to be treated. She's in her mid to late 30's.

    What do you do?
    Uhhhhh ohhhh....

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    The 2nd woman might be Orion.

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    he didn't say she was cheating on her husband with him,but if she is,dude you really do not need to get too attached to her. trust me!!!!!!!!!

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    Forget about both of them.

    There are 3 billion female humans in this world. Why even think about making a choice between just two females when neither fits your standards? The world is full of opportunity.

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    Well the one fits the standards, she's just a bit older.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ramairgod84 View Post
    Well the one fits the standards, she's just a bit older.
    You have never met her. She could be a 380lb transvestite, and you wouldn't know

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    Quote Originally Posted by infantryws6 View Post
    You have never met her. She could be a 380lb transvestite, and you wouldn't know
    I can just taste that shrimp gumbo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ramairgod84 View Post
    Well the one fits the standards, she's just a bit older.
    So an acceptable quality for a woman you want to be in a relationship with is being married to another man?

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    no, is ending it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ramairgod84 View Post
    no, is ending it
    I've heard that one before. Five minutes later her husband showed up to the bar. She went home with her husband not me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ramairgod84 View Post
    I was wondering what you guys would do in this situation. You have your girlfriend of a couple years. You dont have alot in common, but you get along in person.She's cute, and loves to be sexually active. On the flip side, she has let herself gain weight. She works out every few days, but is hard to keep on a strict diet. She's a little selfish, she thinks of herself most of the time. In the relationship you feel like you put about 90% of the effort in. She starts acting right when she feels threatened by other girls. She's moved in with you, and left her parents far away, yet she's unsure about a long term future with you, and time is running short because of a plane ticket back home. She pulls her own weight around the house as far as keeping things clean and whatnot, but its rare when you have meals cooked for you. She can get moody, and youve already slept in another room once or twice since shes been there. You remain unsure about your future as well, and its only after a fight that makes you start detaching yourself, that she attempts to start acting right. You have doubt, and it would cost you nearly 3,000 to move her there permenantly. She is immature, and hasnt learned how to fully treat a man.

    On the other hand, you have a woman, 10 years older than you. Youve known her a little over a year. She's in a failing marriage of over 10 years. She's in great shape, beautiful. Youve never once fought, but you havent met in person. You see and talk to her almost every single day. You have no doubt about how this woman would treat you in person, because she's mature, and knows how to treat a man. She would give everything she has to be with you. You think she's the most caring, sweet woman on the planet, because she's treated you better than any other woman ever has. She puts her whole self into everything she does, and risks everything in talking to you. Her husband treats her like a slave (literally). You know you could make her happy, and you have alot in common. She's what you want in a woman, and how you want to be treated. She's in her mid to late 30's.

    What do you do?
    So you're cheating on your g/f...nice. No wonder it doesn't have a snowballs chance. Do them a favor and leave both.

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