So, what to do in this situation...

**Red97GTP** · 07-25-2010, 05:58 PM

There's a girl I've known since we were freshmen in high school. We went out a few times in college and it never progressed further than that. We have remained friends since and we hang out 1-2 times a week.

Last night we were at a wedding reception (not together) for one of our high school friends. She got a hotel room and we went back there with a few people to party. Well everyone left and it was just us. We were watching TV and she crawled into the bed I was in. She was laying on top of me kinda. Well, we started making out and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex.

Maybe it was just me but there always seemed to be some sexual tension between us. She has one kid from an ex. After we went out in college, I never saw us as anything more than friends.

I'm having a hard time on deciding what to do. With her daughter and that kinda baggage, I'm just not ready to jump into something like that. She's a great person and I am single.

What would LS1 do? Jump into a relationship I'm not prepped for? I have the feeling it will be hard to still be friends. The way it went down last night, it seemed like it was more than just sex, there seemed like there was more there.

I have the feeling that I may have to sit and talk with her and find out if there was anything more than just sex. I'm not exactly sure if the feelings are mutual yet.

**cammed goat** · 07-25-2010, 06:04 PM

If she really cares about you, then go for it. Who knows...you might enjoy having a stepdaughter. All ya gotta do is ask her how she feels. Keeping my fingers crossed for ya.

**blackSS01** · 07-25-2010, 06:06 PM

Does it feel like more then just sex to you, or her? If you don't want a relationship, be honest with her and just tell her. If she wants one and you crush her dreams, prepare to lose a friend. Just how the cookie crumbles my good sir

**blackSS01** · 07-25-2010, 06:07 PM

1 kid ain't shit either......try finding Girls with 3 (Thats a ready made family) I like to call it

**SHines-IT** · 07-25-2010, 06:08 PM

Wait a couple months, buy another car or do major upgrade to your car. If she is jealous find a new girl.

**SHines-IT** · 07-25-2010, 06:09 PM

Originally Posted by blackSS01

1 kid ain't shit either......try finding Girls with 3 (Thats a ready made family) I like to call it

With different dads.

**blackSS01** · 07-25-2010, 06:10 PM

Originally Posted by SHines-IT

With different dads.

I know of a few

**Red97GTP** · 07-25-2010, 06:12 PM

Originally Posted by blackSS01

Does it feel like more then just sex to you, or her? If you don't want a relationship, be honest with her and just tell her. If she wants one and you crush her dreams, prepare to lose a friend. Just how the cookie crumbles my good sir

It feels like more than sex to me, I haven't talked to her about it yet. I certainly don't wanna crush her by being just friends. I wouldn't mind being in a relationship, but I can't make a decision.

**cammed goat** · 07-25-2010, 06:17 PM

Well...sounds like you need to ease into it. If the feelings are there between the two of you, then let the good things happen.

**c5z28** · 07-25-2010, 06:18 PM

Weddings get chicks all hormonal. These feelings you have are years of subconscious blueballs.

**Nhra Firebird** · 07-25-2010, 06:18 PM

pics would help us decide for you. lol

**Red97GTP** · 07-25-2010, 06:20 PM

I currently have no pics of her otherwise I'd post them up.

**86 IROC-Z** · 07-25-2010, 06:39 PM

She is 1 of 7,000,000,000+ members of a species on a rock floating through space. She isn't special.

**Blackbird WS6** · 07-25-2010, 06:42 PM

Originally Posted by cammed goat

If she really cares about you, then go for it. Who knows...you might enjoy having a stepdaughter. All ya gotta do is ask her how she feels. Keeping my fingers crossed for ya.

Originally Posted by blackSS01

Does it feel like more then just sex to you, or her? If you don't want a relationship, be honest with her and just tell her. If she wants one and you crush her dreams, prepare to lose a friend. Just how the cookie crumbles my good sir

Originally Posted by c5z28

Weddings get chicks all hormonal. These feelings you have are years of subconscious blueballs.

^^^^ and keep this in mind as well.....

**SeVeReDiStOrTiOn** · 07-25-2010, 07:06 PM

" a real man wouldn't shoplift the pootie from a single mom."

You shoplifted the pootie man

**wheeliE-maxx** · 07-25-2010, 07:19 PM

As long as there are no baby daddy issues

**Red97GTP** · 07-25-2010, 07:30 PM

Originally Posted by wheeliE-maxx

As long as there are no baby daddy issues

There kind of are. He currently has no parental rights because he has not paid child support and is also in jail for other issues. I have met the guy and he is the definition of a deadbeat dad.

**wheeliE-maxx** · 07-25-2010, 07:33 PM

Wow, if you don't mind being a fulltime dad go for it

**Red97GTP** · 07-25-2010, 08:01 PM

Since the dad isn't around she has obviously taken full responsibility as a full time mom. She has great parents that will watch her if need be. She is currently a part time nurse, so she has a good job.

Ahhhh, decisions, decisions...

**StuntmanMike** · 07-25-2010, 08:05 PM

Eh, I'd let it go. It's cool that you got some, but that sounds like too much baggage for me. Kid's dad is in jail? Yikes. Yeah, she can pick 'em.

She's probably just embarrased about it right now, chances it was the wedding thing getting her all emotional, plus I'm sure there was plenty of drinking going on. Shit happens.

And remember, just because a girl has sex with you, doesn't mean she wants any sort of relationship. Girls just want to get laid sometimes too.